Chapter 143: Be a happy mother-to-be
As the due date approaches, Youmi, like other expectant mothers, has entered a period of prenatal worry.
Among them, on the issue of natural birth or caesarean section, she and Monkey Xiaoxin had an in-depth discussion.
"Have a smooth birth, whether it is for the child or for postpartum recovery, it will be better." You Mi said.
"Well, but the risk is also greater, I'm afraid of heavy bleeding." Monkey Xiaoxin said seriously, in fact, since You Mi was pregnant, he has been popularizing this knowledge, hoping to help You Mi reduce some of the burden on the side and play an assist role at a critical moment.
"The caesarean section was quite smooth, but the postpartum recovery was very slow, and the most important thing was that the child did not pass through the birth canal, which was not very good." You Mi pursed her lips and said.
"The child is not the key, the key is whether it hurts when you want to give birth, or it hurts after giving birth." Monkey Xiaoxin said.
"Hmm... It's still painful when you're born, long pain is better than short pain, and I hope that our little monkey can be caught by the door once, just like when he was a poop and hemp, he has not experienced the life of being caught by the door, and it is an incomplete life. You Mi said earnestly.
"Indeed, children whose brains have been caught are smart, well, in order to let our little monkey feel the taste of being caught by the door, let's give birth smoothly." Monkey Xiaoxin nodded and said.
In the end, in order to let the little monkey experience the feeling of being caught by the door, You Mi and Monkey Xiaoxin unanimously decided to give birth smoothly.
After making this decision, You Mi began to research information about smooth delivery on the Internet, so as to prepare in advance.
However, the more she watched, the more panicked You Mi's heart became, and she gradually began to become uncertain.
Most of the posts on the internet are saying that a natural birth is very painful, and that this pain is ten times more painful than menstrual cramps, if not more.
Seeing this, You Mi began to recall his feelings of menstrual cramps, and it seemed that he didn't have menstrual cramps.
Therefore, for the pain of tenfold menstrual cramps, You Mi can't imagine.
It is also said that the smooth delivery did not go well, and the bottom had been cut with a knife, but unfortunately it still couldn't be born, so I had to change to caesarean section, and finally suffered a total of two knives.
Seeing this, You Mi couldn't help but wrap her hands around her body and began to tremble.
A knife at the bottom, a knife at the top, is this cutting the cake? Do you want to light a candle to blow it on? Sing a happy birthday song again?
I'll it! If you can't get out by then, will you have to be stabbed twice?
Moreover, normal delivery cannot be anesthetic, you have to feel the feeling of being cut by a knife, and after you are done, you have to feel the feeling of being stitched again.
Ya Butterfly!
You Mi simply closed the webpage, and then posted a message in the circle of girlfriends.
"Bubble up after a smooth birth"
"What's wrong? When I gave birth to the eldest child, it was smooth, and the second child was dissected. Chen Jie came out.
"Am I not your sister?" Xiao Yu popped up.
"Does it hurt-_-||"
"It hurts, it hurts so much that I want to die, but compared to the pain of the anesthetic after the second child, I think it's more comfortable to have a smooth delivery, at least it will be over at one time." Chen Jie said.
"Huh! Still need to ask? If my sister hadn't rushed out of the delivery room in pain, would she have met Xiao Wang? Xiao Yu said.
Thinking of Xiao Yu kicking the doctor over with blood all over his body and rushing out of the delivery room, You Mi can imagine that it hurts, it hurts, it hurts, and the pain is definitely higher than the altitude of the Himalayas!
"That.. How many cuts did you cut? You Mi asked weakly.
"A knife." Chen Jie said.
"Two knives, I don't know if the doctor took revenge on me, and after arresting me, he cut a knife [○・'Д ́・○]" Xiao Yu said.
"Ahem! Girls, is it appropriate to discuss such a bloody issue early in the morning? Isn't it necessary to build a harmonious society together? Da Ou couldn't stand it anymore, and ran out and said.
"Don't scare Youmi, everyone's situation is different!" Fat Xiang also popped up.
"Yes, maybe You Misheng will be even more painful than Chen Jie and Xiao Yu." I popped up.
"Chuan A's, hold your head round and roll!" You Mi @ me again, and then, I rolled.
You Mi found that instead of getting any comfort from the girlfriend group, she absorbed a large wave of negative energy, it seems that natural delivery is really painful, oh no, whether it is a natural birth or a caesarean section, it is painful!
"Little monkey, can you learn from your ancestors and jump out of the cracks in the stones?" You Mi touched her stomach and said.
"Bang!"
The little monkey responded to Youmi, but Youmi didn't know if the little monkey's answer was YES or NO.
However, from that day on, Yumi fell into deep anxiety and could not extricate himself.
"Hey!" At night, You Mi would toss and turn and sigh incessantly.
"The little monkey is naughty again?" Monkey Xiaoxin said in a daze.
"No, I just can't sleep, hey!" You Mi sighed again.
"My dear, don't think about it, the boat will naturally go straight to the bridge." Monkey Xiaoxin rolled over, hugged You Mi from behind, and gently massaged her temples.
"Hmm..."Under the comfort of Monkey Xiaoxin, Yumi finally fell asleep peacefully.
However, Yumi's anxiety is still repeated.
When Monkey Xiaoxin is there, he will coax her, give her a massage, and help her relieve her emotions; And when Monkey Xiaoxin is not at home, she will hide in the room and think nonsense, and she will not go out for a walk with her in-laws, and always shout tired.
In the end, when You Mi went to the prenatal checkup, the doctor said that You Mi had a bit of high blood pressure in pregnant women, so she must relieve her mood, and if her blood pressure could not be lowered during childbirth, she could only have a caesarean section.
"Monkey Xiaoxin, what should I do? Our little monkey can't feel the taste of being caught in the door! After coming out of the hospital, You Mi panicked, and tears came out of her eyes.
"Shhhh Monkey Xiaoxin hurriedly hugged You Mi and patted her on the back.
"Monkey Xiaoxin, I'm really scared, if the doctor asks if the child or the adult is protected, who will you choose?" You Mi leaned into Monkey Xiaoxin's arms and asked crying.
"Of course it's to protect you, child, if there is, it means that we have a fate with him, if not, it means that we have no fate with him. Fate is such a thing, you can't force it. Therefore, I can only force you to stay with me and not let anyone take you away. Monkey Xiaoxin said.
"Monkey Xiaoxin..."You Mi didn't know what to say anymore.
"You Mi, let's go out for a walk, it's been hot recently, call the girlfriend group, how about going to Shunan Zhuhai?" Monkey Xiaoxin said.
"Okay, the thought of being in the bamboo forest instantly makes me feel cool!" As soon as he heard that he was going to go out to play, You Mi immediately held back his tears.
So, under the organization of Monkey Xiaoxin, except for me who was far away in Sichuan A, the sisters of Sichuan C accompanied You Mi to lie down in the Shunan Bamboo Sea, feeling the cool feeling of a handful of tender bamboos, shade covering the sun, and waterfalls and springs.
"You Mi, although Xiao Yu and I have experienced the pain of natural childbirth, but people's physique is different, you see, from childhood to adulthood, you are the best of the three of us, so ah, you must be the easiest of us to be born." On the way, Chen Jie and Xiao Yu took the initiative to sit in You Mi and Monkey Xiaoxin's car, and accompanied her to talk, so as to help her relax.
After learning that You Mi had high blood pressure because of anxiety, Chen Jie and Xiao Yu blamed themselves a little, feeling that they should not tell their terrible experience of giving birth in front of a pregnant woman who was about to give birth.
"Yes, Dayou, I am in pain because my head is too big, and I am as virtuous as Xiao Liu! Look at you and Brother Monkey, the head is not big, and the head of the little monkey is definitely not big, relax! Xiao Yu also said with relief.
"Well, after coming out with you, I feel much better, and besides, Monkey Xiaoxin also said that if you have a difficult birth, you will definitely protect the adult." You Mi said.
"Poof!" Chen Jie and Xiao Yu couldn't hold back and laughed, feeling that You Mi was still living in the plot of romance.
Monkey Xiaoxin looked at You Mi through the rearview mirror and found that her complexion was much better now, so she relaxed a little.
Even in the scorching summer season, the Shunan Bamboo Sea is still green and cool.
A few people walked on the woods path, talking, laughing, and frolicking, and felt like they were back when they were young.
"Brother Monkey, do you know how lucky you are? Let's travel big baby but since junior high school, she has been named a goddess, although she has been on the side of the sword, walking on the road of female nerves, but it does not affect the enthusiastic pursuit of her by those fanatical suitors! Xiao Yu said.
"Yes, we often follow You Mi to eat, because You Mi doesn't accept things from others, so people have to invite You Mi to eat and sing, and then, You Mi will take us with you, then ah, we have a good time. It's been more than ten years, and everyone has been a mother. I always thought that Youmi would be the first of us to get married, but I didn't expect to get on the last train. Chen Jie couldn't help but sigh.
"That's because Youmi is waiting for my last train!" As he spoke, Monkey Xiaoxin took You Mi and looked at her with a gentle smile, as if he was looking at a priceless treasure.
"Xiang, are you my last train?" Seeing Monkey Xiaoxin showing affection there, Da Ou couldn't help but turn the style of painting.
"It's not." Fat Xiang shook his head.
"Huh? So whose last train are you? Da Ou covered his mouth and looked at Fat Xiang with a sad look in his eyes.
"I'm not a car, I'm a chrysanthemum, the last chrysanthemum in your life." Fat Xiang also learned from Monkey Xiaoxin, took Da Ou in his arms, and looked at him with affection.
"Poof, hahaha! The last chrysanthemum, Fat Xiang, you are too talented! Hearing Fat Xiang's words, the rest of the crowd couldn't help laughing.
Fat Xiang is really either not open, and he is stunned!
After returning from Shunan Zhuhai, You Mi felt that her whole person was completely new, what kind of natural delivery, caesarean section and aesarean section were all rolled aside, she just wanted to be a happy mother waiting to give birth.
When You Mi came to the hospital again to measure her blood pressure, the doctor happily told her, "Baby, the blood pressure has gone down, keep it up." ”
"Really? Monkey Xiaoxin, don't you hear it, the little monkey can be caught by the door! You Mi pulled Monkey Xiaoxin's clothes and shouted.
"Ahem, wife's eggs, eggs." Monkey Xiaoxin smiled and stroked You Mi's cheek and said.
With less than a month to go before his due date, the little monkey is about to come to earth and start his life's journey......