Chapter 307: The Wind Doesn't Stop (1)
On the way back, Jiang Wanmu and her three children sat on the carriage, and the three children were playing in the opposite position as usual. Her eyes looked back and forth thoughtfully at the three children, and her gaze would stay on Jiang Lazy's body for a long time from time to time. provoked the little woman to touch her head and face with her little hand under her gaze.
Shang Mingshi and Jiang Feiyang helped Jiang Lazy to check together, but Jiang Wanmu turned her eyes away at this time, and the three of them hugged together again and began to speak. But after a while, Jiang Wanmu couldn't help but look at Jiang Lazy's body again, and finally Jiang Lazy couldn't stand her mother's skin-like eyes, and took the initiative to ask: "Mother, is there anything I haven't done well?" ”
Jiang Wanmu shook her head after hearing this, and she said a little sullenly: "No." It's me who worries that I don't have a good way to discipline you. I thought to myself that if you grow up and have a bad life, I will definitely feel guilty and uneasy. The three children stopped playing, and Shang Mingshi hurriedly said to Jiang Wanmu: "Auntie, I will be lazy in the future, as long as the lazy words are reasonable, I will listen to her words." When she grows up, she will definitely be able to live a good life. Jiang Feiyang listened to Shang Mingshi's words, pulled him with an unhappy face, and said to him: "Shi'er, a man is the master of the house, how can he listen to a little woman." ”
After Jiang Lazy listened on the sidelines, he stretched out his hand and pulled Jiang Feiyang's hand away from Shang Mingshi's body, and said to Jiang Feiyang: "Feiyang is bad, Shi'er clearly said that as long as I am reasonable, he will listen to me." My aunt also said that if a man wants to be like this, he is a wise and good man, or he is a fierce man. Jiang Feiyang was quite unconvinced and said to Jiang Lazy: "Big brother said that women have no knowledge, and if you listen to women, you will have no interest in yourself." Shang Mingshi sandwiched the two brothers and sisters in the middle and shouted, he looked at Jiang Wanmu with a look of embarrassment, and shouted, "Aunt." ”
Jiang Wanmu waved her hand at him gently, signaling him not to take care of his two children. Jiang Wanmu's treatment of children's upbringing in this era can be regarded as a very shocking act. She never treated her two children as her own appendages. And when they are independent individuals, the conversation between the mother and son is usually a very equal way of speaking. Shang Mingshi has watched Jiang Wanmu treat these children like this since he was a child, and he thinks that Jiang Wanmu is closer than his own mother. Naturally, sometimes whispers to her.
Jiang Wanmu relieved Wen Jiuniang today, but she fell into it. When she got into the carriage, she thought about her free-range policy for the children. She had always thought that she was doing the right thing and had a vision, and that her two children were much more self-reliant than the average child. But now after hearing Wen Jiuniang mention the daughter of the Shang family, she turned to worry that a child like herself raised in the wild would grow up to be somewhat out of line with the mainstream upbringing of this era.
Jiang Wanmu thought about the inexplicable hemp yarn in her heart, and her eyes looked at the three children again and again. When she looked at Jiang Feiyang, she felt a little relieved, and felt that it was better for boys to raise some in the wild. Her eyes fell on Jiang Lazy's body, but she was worried a lot. Women in this era, many times their fate wanders with the waves, and some have to rely on the power of their mother's family to have a good life in their husband's family. Some have to rely on the favor of their husband's family and enjoy the dignity they deserve in their mother's family、、、、。
Jiang Wanmu was so entangled that she had a headache, and now the two brothers and sisters were arguing. Instead, it made her relax. Shang Ming looked at Jiang Wanmu's lazy and aggrieved appearance, reached out and grabbed Jiang Wanmu's hand and shook it and said, "Auntie, don't worry about being lazy and not having a good time in the future." I'll be good to lazy. I'm good about laziness now, and I'll help my aunt discipline laziness. Jiang Wanmu smiled when she heard this, and said with a smile to Shang Mingshi, "Okay." I take note of your words, if Lazy develops a willful and unreasonable temperament in the future, I will be on your head, it is because you did not teach her well. Shang Mingshi nodded heavily and said, "Okay." ”
Jiang Wanmu felt extremely proud in her heart, Shang Mingshi, this is what you promised. The Shang family has always been a very orthodox way of upbringing, and the practice of making a promise. Shang Ming wanted to discipline his own lady, and Jiang Wanmu naturally wouldn't object to it. Jiang Lazy is a woman of good luck, and there is nothing more than being bent on disciplining a person. Gradually, I will pay attention to things that come quickly. Jiang Lazy will provoke anger in the future, and he will also think that it is himself who is wrong. Shang Mingshi was young, and he sold himself personally, and also helped count the money, which deepened Jiang Wanmu's love for him.
She turned to the two siblings, who were still arguing in a low voice, and said, "Stop." The two of them go back and think about what they did wrong. Jiang Feiyang and Jiang Lazy stopped arguing. When Jiang Feiyang looked at his mother, his little face turned red with shame. Jiang Lazy was still glaring at her brother with an uneven face, and she leaned into Shang Mingshi's ear and said, "Shi'er, Feiyang bullied me." Shang Mingshi was going to coax her as usual, but he raised his eyes and saw Jiang Wanmu looking at him with a smile. He whispered: "Lazy, Feiyang is your brother, you want to give him face outside." "//.com No pop-ups, no ads//
Jiang Lazy looked at Shang Mingshi with a surprised look on her face, and tears gradually appeared in her eyes. Shang Mingshi was so anxious to jump up on the side, and when he raised his eyes, he saw Jiang Wanmu still looking at him with a smile, and he could only grit his teeth and endure the words to coax Jiang to be lazy. Jiang Feiyang looked at his sister-in-law's aggrieved appearance, he glared at Shang Mingshi and said, "Shi'er, you won't coax her like usual." If you coax her, she'll be fine. Shang Mingshi looked at Jiang Wanmu, and when he saw that she still didn't say anything, he lowered his head heavily.
Jiang Feiyang glanced at Shang Mingshi's eyes, and he saw Jiang Wanmu's smiling appearance. He remembered what he had said, and quickly explained in a low voice: "Mother, I didn't say anything about you. It's other women who don't have knowledge, you and your grandmother, aunts, and aunts are all knowledgeable women. "Only women and villains are difficult to raise! If it is near, it will not be grand, and if it is far away, it will be resentful. No wonder the saint sighed so much, in front of him was a woman and three villains who wanted to fight a victory.
Jiang Wanmu feels that she is a woman, but she is a good woman with insight and generosity. She chuckled and beckoned to her daughter, "Lazy, dignified woman, don't cry in front of people." Jiang lazily endured the tears that were about to fall to his eyes, Jiang Wanmu couldn't bear to look at it, and said: "Actually, I think that is, people will always have difficulties in their lives." When you can cry, why can't you cry? Not to mention crying in front of loved ones. Besides, sometimes a woman's crying is also a useful way, crying when you are weak and making people look down on you, maybe you can fight for a glimmer of life. ”
The three children laughed when they heard this, but Jiang Wanmu wanted to use a knife to cut herself, it was really Jiang Lazy's beauty that harmed her, so that she even taught her to use tears as weapons. Jiang Wanmu only thought that her daughter would always have tears in her eyes in the future, and she couldn't stand it and made up for it: "Lazy, tears are sometimes not a panacea, when you are young, others think about you when you are young, and others think about you when you are young." Think about it, at your mother's age, if you cry in front of people at every turn, is it a shameful behavior? Therefore, if you can not cry in front of others, you will cry less in front of others, and respect is more valuable than sympathy. ”
After Jiang Wanmu said this, she felt that being a mother was a very great profession, and she also had to be a teacher by the way. It's no wonder that when women reach a certain age, they become verbose and nagging, which makes children feel bored when they look at it. After Uncle Ming Zi transferred to Nancheng, there was no bustling crowd, and he could only hear Jiang Wanmu's entangled words in the car. He shook his head amusedly. It is difficult for Mrs. Jiang to raise her daughter's heart, and she is afraid that her daughter will suffer a loss, and she is worried that her daughter is too delicate.
The carriage stopped at the gate of the courtyard, and Uncle Ming Zi stood by the door and motioned for the three children in the carriage to jump off by themselves. He was on the side, and when the three children jumped out of the car, he was about to hand the stool to Jiang Wanmu when he saw that she had jumped down by herself. Jiang Wanmu took the three children and waved at Uncle Mingzi, Uncle Mingzi sat on the frame, raised the horsewhip, and was about to fall, when he saw a man in black walking in front of Jiang Wanmu. Uncle Ming Zi hurriedly withdrew the horsewhip, sat on the frame steadily, and looked back at the movement at the gate of the yard.
Jiang Wanmu watched the three children stretch out their hands and happily tap on the courtyard door, and suddenly it became dark in front of her, and she raised her eyes to see a handsome young man in black and handed a red post in front of her. Jiang Wanmu took a step back and refused to accept something of unknown origin. She heard the young man say in a deep voice, "Madam, the general invites you and the children to go to the tea house tomorrow for a cup of tea and snacks." Jiang Wanmu frowned slightly, and said to the man: "We only know one general, and we don't know him well. You've mistaken the wrong person. ”
The young man in black looked patient, looked at Jiang Wanmu and said again, "Our company general has invited you as a guest." Jiang Wanmu took the post suspiciously, opened it and saw Lian Hao's signature, and saw the words that were clearly stated, she quickly stuffed the post into the young man's hand like a hot hand, shook her head and said: "Please help me convey my gratitude to General Lian, it is really a family like us who can't get on the big stage, and I'm worried that it will embarrass the general." What's more, the children have something to do tomorrow, and they have to live up to the good intentions of the general. ”
The black-clothed young man looked at Jiang Wanmu with a serious face and asked, "Then the lady and the children have free time that day?" I'll go back and give the general an explanation. Jiang Wanmu couldn't help but say to the words, 'As long as he invites us, we won't be free that day.' She just smiled lightly, turned away and said: "My brother and sister-in-law have always been grateful to the general, and they have always wanted to take the child to thank the general for his kindness, if the general has free time that day, I will tell my brother and sister-in-law to let them free up that day." ”
If you go to 350 small powders today, you will continue to add them tomorrow. (To be continued)