Chapter 297: To Have Children or Not to Have Children

After eating the box lunch, the cadres of the school Youth League Committee led everyone to carry the instruments into the car, and came back to explain: "We still have some people who have activities in the afternoon, and if there is no activity, you can go back to school first. ”

A student asked, "Where is this afternoon's event?" ”

"The afternoon is an excellent youth propaganda activity, and it is also in a community, and many parents will come with their children to listen to your speech, so you must pay attention to your words, guide the children correctly, and avoid all the remarks that are not correct, you know?"

"Ah, it's a child again, and I was confused by the child in the morning." Some classmates couldn't help but complain, "I feel that parents with children are like crazy people, and if the child has a little problem, it is as if the whole world is going to harm his children, and he is killed by those unreasonable parents in the morning." ”

The leader of the school Youth League Committee comforted and said: "I also understand the situation you said, which of the children is not the heart of the parents, there may be many children who are spoiled by their parents, and everyone has endured the hard work, and remember that they are representing our school today to participate in social welfare activities, and your every move represents the image of the school." Besides, there are a lot of reasonable parents......"

After he finished speaking, Lin Momo whispered to Lu Zhi in the back: "It is true that some parents are quite unreasonable, and I was told by a parent in the morning......"

"Well, some parents care too much about their children and cause a lack of right and wrong, which is a kind of love that is difficult to understand."

Lin Momo smiled, looked up and asked him, "Do you like children?" ”

Lu Zhi nodded: "I like it, we had better have two daughters in the future, don't be unreasonable like those parents, ask her to change if there is a mistake, and educate her to take responsibility if she has the responsibility, and we will cultivate our daughters into gentle and independent excellent women together." ”

Lin Momo frowned: "I don't want children. How painful it is to give birth, you can't eat and drink for ten months, a few days ago, the gynecology teacher showed us a documentary of women from pregnancy to childbirth, the fertilized egg gradually grows and forms, oppresses the internal organs of the heroine, and deforms the spine, not to mention the pain of childbirth, even if medicine is developed, women give birth to children are also closed in the ghost door, although painless delivery has improved a lot, it cannot solve the harm to the maternal body before and after childbirth...... Even if these are passed safely, the psychological changes after childbirth are unpredictable, in case the husband is inconsiderate, the in-laws are bullying, and the postpartum depression may be lost...... Not to mention spending so much time, energy and money to bring up your own children......"

Lu Zhi listened quietly, was silent for a moment, nodded and said, "Okay, if you say that you don't give birth, you won't give birth." ”

"Then ......" Lin Mo glanced at him guiltily, "Am I too selfish?" ”

"Nope."

Lin Momo lowered his head and whispered, "If my mother had thought the same way, there would be no me in this world." If every woman thought like me, there would be no human beings in the world. ”

Lu Zhi smiled and shook his head: "Production is a voluntary thing, whether you want to live or not, the power is in the hands of women, besides, I am reluctant to let you suffer from childbirth." ”

"But...... Don't you like children very much? Let's Dink in the future, can you accept it? ”

Lu Zhi lowered his eyes slightly, thought about it, and after a while, raised his head to look into her eyes, and said, "Being with you is the most important thing...... As for children, we are still young, maybe my mind will change in the future, maybe I don't want children anymore. ”

"But what if you've always wanted it, and then when we're both old, we can't give birth? Will you regret it at that time? ”

"Then adopt when I want it most, or go abroad to find a surrogate." Lu Zhi stretched out his hand and grabbed her, "As long as the two of us firmly believe that we can go to the end, these are not major issues of principle. ”

"Senior brother......" Lin Momo suddenly had the urge to cry.

"Huh?"

"Senior brother, a woman can only give birth to a child for him willingly if she loves a man very much. I'm willing to ...... for you."

Lin Momo looked at his dark eyes and said affectionately, Lu Zhi seemed to be moved to tears.

Suddenly, a slap fell on the top of Lin Momo's head without warning, Lin Momo quickly turned around and saw that it was the accompanying teacher, who was looking at the two of them with a mocking face.

"Is the little girl twenty years old? Are you ashamed to talk about having a child every day? ”

Lin Momo's face turned red, and he hid behind Lu Zhi and didn't dare to speak. Lu Zhi smiled and said to the teacher, "Teacher, we are discussing the theoretical knowledge of obstetrics and gynecology." ”

"Then you're really studious." The teacher glanced at the bus behind him and said, "Okay, let's get on the bus and go to the location of the afternoon activity in half an hour." ”

Lin Momo and Lu Zhi got into the car together, and half an hour later they arrived at the community for afternoon activities, and the social workers set up a shed on the community square and were waiting for them early.

The students who came here got out of the car one by one, and the social worker greeted them with a smile on his face and greeted them cordially: "You are all top students of the University of Traditional Chinese Medicine, come on, come on, I have already taken a seat for you." ”

"Hello. What are the arrangements for a while? Lu Zhi saw that the other classmates were all looking for their own seats, and he stayed at the end and asked.

"It is to share their learning experience according to the list and teach the children to study hard. There are also a lot of parents coming this afternoon, and you can also talk to them about your parents' teaching methods. They must have a very unique way to train you into such a good person, right? ”

Lu Zhi smiled noncommittally and asked again, "Do you have a list of speakers here?" ”

"Yes." After the social worker finished speaking, he took it from the small bag and gave it to Lu Zhi.

Lu Zhi took a look, he was the last to appear in the finale, but Lin Momo was the first.

"Thank you." After he knew the order of appearance of the two of them, he returned the list to her, walked to Lin Momo and sat down, and said to her, "You will be the first to play later." ”

Lin Momo looked up at the podium in front of him, which was one step higher than the audience, and couldn't help but be a little nervous, and said to Lu Zhi: "Wait a minute, is the speech going to be unscripted?" I'm so worried about what I'll do if I forget the words later...... It was the first time I had attended such a formal event. ”

"It's okay, they're all children, just say it casually, it's too profound for people to understand." Lu Zhi rubbed her hair and said, "Why don't I go and talk to them and not let you be the first to appear?" ”

"Don't." Lin Momo Lian shook his head, "It's better to be the first to appear, I'll be relieved when I'm done, otherwise I'll always be thinking about it in my heart." Lin Momo smiled at him, and then took out his speech, "I'll look at it for a while, so as not to wait and not know what to say." ”

Lu Zhi said with a smile: "It's all this time, you see that the speech is useless, it's better to meditate in your heart, if you forget something, quickly think about finding something else to replace." ”

"If you don't look at it now, I'll forget everything later."

"How so?" Lu Zhi took the speech in her hand, "Have you ever watched "Heaven and Dragon Slayer"? Do you know why Zhang Wuji forgot all the martial arts that Zhang Sanfeng gave him so that he could integrate them himself? Memory is never built by rote memorization......"

Lin Momo couldn't help but interrupt him with a smile: "Yes, yes, what you say is right...... Senior brother, I think that if I write down every word you have said to me, when you are old, you can publish a book called "The Life of the Great Educator Lu Zhi". ”

Lu Zhi said quietly: "Editor's note: This book can be written in it, which is recorded by Lu Zhi's wife Lin Momo. ”

"yes, and then our book sold well at home and abroad, and we made a lot of money."

Lu Zhi patted her head lightly: "You are really not ashamed." ”

Lin Momo shook his head and just wanted to say something to him, the host came to the stage, and many parents and children who came to listen to the speech also arrived, and sat down in a large area, and there were more than 200 people in sight, although the scale was not as big as Lu Zhi in front of the teachers and students of the whole school, but it was also big for Lin Momo.

After the host made some opening remarks, he invited Lin Momo to the stage, and before going up, Lu Zhi gently scratched her palms and signaled her not to be nervous.

She was really not nervous on the way to the stage, but when she stood on the stage and saw the children below looking at her with studious eyes one by one, she suddenly felt that she had a great responsibility and was very nervous.

"I ...... I ......"

The host noticed Lin Momo's performance and hurriedly went up to the rescue: "Let's ask Lin Momo to introduce himself first." ”

Lin Momo calmed down, saw Lu Zhi's encouraging gaze below, took a breath, and said slowly: "I am a junior at the National Medical University, and my name is Lin Momo. The students who are here today to share their learning experiences with parents and children are all excellent performers in all aspects of our school, but you may not know that I used to be a very poor and decadent student......"

Lin Momo seemed to have turned on some switch, and continued to speak smoothly all the way, telling him how to fight for his experience step by step from being an errand student.

"My grades last semester were the second in the whole grade, and the sense of accomplishment it brought me was incomparable to anything I had done before, and I was recognized by my teachers and parents again, and I got my own ...... like in high school," she said, looking at Lu Zhi, "and the recognition of the people I care about, for me, nothing can make me happier than this." So, children, you must try your best within your ability! Thank you! ”

She bowed deeply, the host went up to thank her, she smiled and walked off the stage, and sat back next to Lu Zhi.

She held Lu Zhi's hand and whispered, "I'm so nervous, I've forgotten words several times, am I ashamed......

Lu Zhi pinched her wet palm, shook his head, and said with a smile: "No, you were really great just now." ”