Chapter 106: Reluctant
In the evening, when the family finished eating and gathered together to discuss, the Yun family naturally mentioned Fang Xiayao's lifelong event.
"Mother, the young and the old are orderly, the mother should talk about the eldest brother's family affairs first, and then the second sister's."
Fang Dongqiao heard that Fang Xiayao was only twelve years old and had to say goodbye, which made her very frightened.
In the previous life, there were many women who were not married in their thirties, but if they were seventeen or nineteen years old here, they would become old girls before they got married, and no one wanted them, which was too outrageous.
What's more, women are too young and haven't grown up, it is a bad thing to have a boy and a girl at that time, even if a child is born, it is easy to grow sick and crooked, Fang Dongqiao didn't want Fang Xiayao to suffer like this, so he hurriedly pulled his eldest brother Fang Jingshu on and shifted the target.
Who expected that Yun's eyelids didn't lift, and said lightly.
"Your eldest brother's marriage, don't worry, I'll talk about it later. It's your second sister, it's not too young, you can look at Zhang Luo's family. ”
"Mother, the second sister is only twelve, the eldest brother is fifteen, and the son of Aunt Zhang's family next door was engaged at the age of ten. Besides, now the matchmakers are all revolving around the eldest brother when they come to the door, so the mother will take this opportunity to choose the eldest brother well, and there must be a good girl in it. ”
Compared to Fang Xiayao marrying out, Fang Dongqiao would rather Fang Jingshu marry his sister-in-law, how can I say that this worldly man has an easier life, and a woman has a too hard life.
"Little sister, the eldest brother looks at you as if he wishes that the eldest brother would marry a daughter-in-law, aren't you worried that if the eldest brother marries a tigress, the family will not be at peace from now on?" Fang Jingshu looked at Fang Dongqiao with a smile.
"Qiao Er believes in the ability of the eldest brother, if the eldest brother can't suppress his own daughter-in-law and let the family suffer, then the eldest brother is not the eldest brother."
Fang Dongqiao believes that with Fang Jingshu's ability, there will naturally be no such thing as letting his wife bully his family.
"You just believe in Big Brother like that? If it's the big brother...... What should I do if I listen to the pillow wind? What should I do if I am confused by your sister-in-law? ”
Fang Jingshu teased Fang Dongqiao.
"Okay, the more you two talk about it, the more unpleasant it becomes."
The Yun clan glared at Fang Jingshu and Fang Dongqiao. "Your eldest brother's marriage will be talked about later, now my mother is talking about Yao'er's family affairs, what are you two messing about."
"Mother, the second sister is still young, you can't just match the second sister like this. Besides, the matchmaker's mouth is naturally good at picking good ones, in case the other party is not as good as the matchmaker said, then can my second sister still have a good life when she marries? ”
Seeing Fang Dongqiao say this, the Yun clan smiled.
"Your second sister is not young at this age, and it is time to get married when she is married. If you wait until then you go to Zhang Luo's house, I'm afraid there will be no good people to choose from. Besides, although the matchmaker's words cannot be trusted, some families can still do it. Yun picked out the needle and thread and paused.
"Today, Aunt Zhang next door came over and said that there is a family, it is from Zhaojiazhuang, it is the little nephew of your Aunt Zhang's eldest sister, this year, fifteen, he is good-looking, and he is studying medicine in Baohe Hall in the town."
"There are three brothers, four in the family, the parents are sound, there are five houses in the family, more than 20 acres of fields, it is a diligent and conscientious family, although there is a grandmother who is not in tune, but the Zhao family has long been divided, so if your sister marries, as long as the young couple is diligent in their hands and feet, they can live a good life."
Fang Dongqiao listened to it, and the more he felt that the person Yun was talking about was very familiar.
"Mother, don't tell me, that person's name is Zhao Anshun."
Yun was stunned.
"How did Qiao Er know that the person's name was Zhao Anshun? Do you know Joe? ”
"Mother, have you forgotten? Qiao Er is also a medicine boy in Boholtang. That Zhao Anshun Qiao'er not only knows, he is also Qiao'er's senior brother now. ”
Fang Dongqiao felt that this world was really small, and it was no coincidence that there would be no book, and he could talk to someone he knew when he talked about his second sister's family affairs.
Yun thought about it, Fang Dongqiao studied medicine in Baohetang, and Zhao Anshun also studied medicine in Baohetang, so they would naturally meet.
"That's fine. Since Qiao'er knows her, then Qiao'er told her mother, how does that Zhao Anshun look? ”
"Mother, then Zhao Anshun looks good, quite honest and honest."
"In this way, my mother looks at this Zhao Anshun and is really like what your Aunt Zhang said, which is a good one."
"But mother, you can't just match the second sister with such a superficial appearance. As the saying goes, knowing people and faces but not knowing their hearts, my mother can't marry her sister to him just because Zhao Anshun looks kind. ”
Fang Dongqiao thought that such a good girl as the second sister was about to be snatched away by Zhao Anshun, and he didn't have a good tone towards Zhao Anshun, the senior brother.
The Yun clan was shocked when they heard Fang Dongqiao say this.
"Qiao'er said so, but what's wrong with Zhao Anshun?"
"That's not it either."
This senior brother takes care of Fang Dongqiao very much in Baohetang, he is also a good person, he is very clever and capable, and he is not treacherous, he looks like a stable and reliable candidate, but when he thinks that Zhao Anshun may become her brother-in-law, Fang Dongqiao is very unhappy.
"Then what does Jo'er mean?"
"I just don't think that Zhao Anshun is worthy of my second sister's temperament, just like my sister, it's not a flower inserted in cow dung."
In fact, Fang Dongqiao is reluctant to Fang Xiayao, anyone who may become her brother-in-law will be picked on by Fang Dongqiao.
"Jo'er is not allowed to talk nonsense. It's impossible for your Aunt Zhang to lie to her mother, how does her nephew look, how can she not be as stumbling as Qiao Er said. ”
"Then he doesn't deserve my sister. Besides, my sister has never seen Zhao Anshun, if my sister is not happy, then even if Zhao Anshun is good, then my sister can't marry Zhao Anshun. ”
As soon as Fang Dongqiao finished saying this, he was slapped by the Yun family.
"This is also what you can say, children's families, what is happy or not, this marriage event is always the words of the parents, if Zhao Anshun is good, your sister will live well if she marries him."
"But if my sister doesn't have a good impression of Zhao Anshun at all, and she doesn't want to face Zhao Anshun, can my sister live a comfortable life after marrying Zhao Anshun? So mother, this person, I still have to look at my sister and like it. ”
Fang Dongqiao is very rejecting the words of the matchmaker of his parents, this was in the previous life when men and women fell in love and married freely, it's good to be here, men and women are seven years old, don't say anything, when they grow up, they will be talked about when they meet.
Many couples meet for the first time on the night of candles in the cave room, which is the same as two strangers, the first time they meet, the husband and wife have to roll together, can it not be awkward?
What's more, Fang Dongqiao thought that if Fang Xiayao was matched out like this, wouldn't it be her own family turn in the future?
Even if it was for her own sake, she had to let the Yun family agree.
"But like your sister, when she reaches the age of kissing, how can she look at the man by herself, this kind of immoral practice will ruin your sister's reputation." Yun still didn't nod.
"Mother, what are you worried about, isn't this Qiao'er? Since I studied medicine with Zhao Anshun in Baohetang, can the second sister naturally go to Baohetang to see Qiao'er? Fang Dongqiao insisted that Fang Xiayao look at it well.
As for the two parties paying attention to love or something, Fang Dongqiao didn't have this idea at all.
In the previous life, under the protection of the monogamous marriage system, there were men who dared to raise three little four, little five outside, not to mention that three wives and four concubines could be legally here.
Fang Dongqiao didn't believe that he could find any true feelings here, if there was really that kind of talent and appearance, there was a lot of gold and silver, and there was a peerless good man who only took one scoop of weak water, and she didn't have such good luck to meet her in the vast sea of people.
Therefore, Fang Dongqiao insisted that Fang Xiayao see each other by herself, just so that the two would not get tired of each other after marriage, after all, they were going to live together for a lifetime, if the two of them didn't like each other, they couldn't live that day.
As for the Yun family, after listening to Fang Dongqiao's proposal, she thought about it again and again, although she didn't agree with Fang Dongqiao's approach, but she couldn't resist Fang Dongqiao's insistence, she was herself, and she really loved her children, and she didn't want Fang Xiayao to be unhappy.
In the end, Yun still nodded.
"But you look at each other, don't let the other person see something. You know, the woman goes to see the man alone, it is frivolous, if the family has any bad opinion of your sister because of this, even if the two families become a matter in the future, I am afraid that your sister will be picked on by the other party when she marries. ”
"Mother, Qiao'er is doing things, although my mother is relieved. Qiao Er promised not to let Zhao Anshun see anything, not to mention, for the sake of her sister's lifelong event, she always has to watch it carefully, and she has to be the eldest brother, so she has to check the family for her sister, although Aunt Zhang can be trusted, it is also possible that Aunt Zhang's sister is hiding her, and these things have to be confirmed by our family in person. ”
Fang Dongqiao said it rightly, amusing the family.
"Little sister, don't worry, you don't need to say it, the eldest brother will also go to check that family." Fang Jingshu nodded Fang Dongqiao's little nose.
"You, you, you little girl, my mother really doesn't know what to say about you. At a young age, there are many careful eyes. But for the sake of your second sister's lifelong event, you should put some effort into it, just do it, my mother has something to go to Zhaojiazhuang tomorrow anyway, so I will go by the way to inquire about the details of that family. ”
It turned out that the Yun clan had been thinking about it for a long time, and Fang Dongqiao really thought about it a lot.
With the degree to which her mother loves her children, how can she let Fang Xiayao marry casually?
"Mother." Fang Dongqiao suddenly hugged the Yun clan and shouted coquettishly.
"Be careful of the needle in my mother's hand, this kid is still so frizzy. You have to study hard with your second sister, if it has been like this, what will you do if you get married in the future. ”
The Yun family is worried about Fang Dongqiao's temperament, and he doesn't know if he can get along well with his in-laws' family in the future.
"Mother, Qiao'er is still young, Qiao'er won't get married, Qiao'er has always been with her mother."