Chapter 256: Men's Words, Women's Night
Chapter 256: Men Talk to Women Night
That night, Shui Qing took Ye's father, Uncle Xiao and Qianjun to the banquet on time. Sure enough, I saw a few faces that often appear in the local news. And half of the people around the table, Shui Qing usually called her uncle and grandfather countless times, and she watched her grow up.
Yun Anri sat on Yun Chuan's left hand, and the father and son had the heart to help Shui Qing tide over the difficulties.
"Shui Qing, my most painful granddaughter." Yun Chuan introduced to a few old friends who didn't know her.
This introduction is very weighty and immediately attracts the attention of several characters.
He Yunchuan's best fat uncle praised him repeatedly: "At a young age, I became an entrepreneur." Old man Yun, your granddaughter is like you."
"The blue sky can not know, Nanyu can't not know, the twelve beeches have brought the entire Phoenix Village into a star village. Why didn't Qingqing attend the annual legal representative meeting? "A hearty-tempered, burly middle-aged man is the leader of a certain bureau.
Yun Chuan saw how Shui Qing answered.
"Uncle, to attend this meeting, I have to skip class. Whether to let the class leader report to the teacher or be a good student, I want to think about it and look a little farther, so I asked the two of them to attend on my behalf. Shui Qing said humorously, and introduced Dad Ye and Uncle Xiao by the way.
"The two of them are old acquaintances." The fat guy laughed.
Ye Cheng pushed Qianjun out again, and it was a good round.
"I heard that Bikong gives young people more opportunities, and when I looked at it today, it was sure enough." The fat man smiled and squinted.
After the three of them sat down, Yun Chuan drove Shui Qing away.
"In the end, he is young, and he can't compare to a group of us drinkers. Besides, the most powerful people in her company are here, and they can do it all. Let her accompany my son and daughter-in-law, they will go back to England, and there will not be many opportunities to talk. Yun Chuan made an excuse for Shui Qing.
Everyone knew that this granddaughter was a goddaughter, so the principal pouted, "Okay, who doesn't know that your old boy is afraid that we will be a daughter-in-law and a granddaughter-in-law." You are selfish and want to leave it to your own golden grandson. ”
Shui Qing didn't hear what they said, and the people had already walked into the porch, only to hear a burst of laughter. couldn't help but shake her head, social socialization is really not his forte, thanks to his grandfather's foresight, he kicked her out.
When it comes to vertical and horizontal strategies, men are really better than women. Because, in the officialdom of the shopping mall, there are many men. The old men get together to drink and talk about business, they can say anything, and it will be awkward to clamp a woman.
Shui Qing does not have the heart of a strong woman who is competitive, and she has to join in, indicating that men and women are equal. If it suits you, work hard. If you can't do it yourself or don't like it, ask someone who is good at it to do it. This is to have their own expertise, each to make the best use of it.
When I arrived at the back house, I heard Yun Tianyuan say that Huashu was going to have a final exam, and the cat was diligent and hard in his room. She chatted with the Yun family's mother and son in the hall.
"It's a bit reluctant to go back so soon." Yun Huaweiyu spent her childhood in China, so she retains her attachment to China.
"It's actually quite convenient to fly back and forth, Auntie, if you want to come over, just come at any time. Don't take your uncle and Tianyuan, we girls travel by ourselves, it's much more interesting than with them. "Shui Qing advocates the women's group.
Yun Huawei said bluntly.
Yun Tianyuan is an elegant gentleman, smiling like light, half a word is not opposed, and his hands are in favor, "Mom, you should participate in more purely female activities, and together with aspiring ladies, gossip bad things about men, complain that life is boring and boring, so as to help women's mental health." After the event, only the glow of the positive charm and the haze disappeared. ”
Shui Qing hurriedly pierced the poisonous tongue under his gentleman's sugar coating, "You are pure men, if you get together and don't gossip about women, the psychological shadow is also heavy and deep, and it is difficult to return to the positive appearance of the elite." ”
"That's right." Yun Tian is far from denying, "That's why there are Man'sTalk and GirlsOnlyNightOut." We all need this opportunity to be pure people. ”
"Men and women, it is undeniable that their ideas are very different, and their attitudes are very different, but the combination of men and women has countless benefits, so that they cannot abandon either side. It's purely about coordination. In addition to coordination, we must also have our own maverick, and we can't just tolerate and lose ourselves. "Shui Qing is deeply influenced by foreign culture, and his thoughts are beyond the national conditions of this year. She yearns for a few women's foreign trips, looking at the sky and the earth, no matter how gossipy and verbose and enchanting, she is also a fellow believer, regardless of the irritability and dislike of men.
Yun Huawei suddenly looked back at her life because of Shui Qing's few words. From marrying Yun Anri to the present, he has been taking care of his husband and children for the first ten years, and he has been desperately trying to save his marriage for the last ten years. What about her ego? has long been lost in a tangled and distorted life. And she used to be like Shui Qing, high-spirited and radiant.
Looking down at his hands, no matter how pampered he was, his skin was dry and wrinkled. At that time, she loved art, studied oil painting, pottery making, and created amazing beauty. Now, her hands tried their best to grab one corner of her husband's clothes, but they were powerless.
At this time, I heard Shui Qing saying, "Since ancient times, women have lived for men, but today, women live for themselves more excitingly." ”
Tianyuan laughed at her, "Feminism." ”
Shui Qing denied it, "It's not feminism, it's egotism." When you give to your family, don't forget to leave some space and time for yourself. Men can go out to chat with friends, drink and play golf, women have to take care of the old and young at home, and the friends from childhood to adulthood can't be maintained? I just think that I should always withdraw from the role of a mother and wife, be a girl before marriage, do whatever I like, and don't think about what to do with my husband and children before dinner is prepared tonight. ”
Yun Huawei was stunned. It seemed to say that to her. Where do she still have friends from her girlhood now, from frequent contact to occasional contact to no contact. Later, her health deteriorated again, she had no social circle of her own, and she usually chatted with her younger siblings and complained bitterly, except for her son and husband, she really had nothing. Therefore, she is trapped in the war to defend her husband, and she is afraid and uneasy every day. Others, forgetting to do anything, out of touch with society as a whole. The sons would not say these things to her. Her younger siblings are the same as her, they become housewives after they get married, and they will only support her in any way, in short, they must not divorce.
She had forgotten how good she had been. She also forgot her previous dreams and aspirations.
"I forgot all about it." Yun Huawei muttered to herself and walked out slowly.
Yun Tianyuan called Mom a few times, but Yun Huawei didn't look back. He said it was strange.
Shui Qing is a girl, and she is farther and more attentive than Yuntian. After thinking about it, it was most likely that Yun Huawei put what she said on herself, and she seemed to be deeply touched. She shouted bad in her heart, but at the same time brought hope. From the first time she saw this delicate and warm woman, she didn't understand why such a beautiful and considerate wife, Yun Anri, had no love. To say, it is hard for her to believe that there is any other lover who can surpass Yun Huawei's appearance and temperament. On the contrary, she also wondered why Yun Huawei Yu had to keep her husband who didn't love her, causing her physical and mental damage.
After Shui Qing's observation, he had a rough answer. Yun Huawei loves Yun Anri very much, and it is certain that this is the only reason why she refuses to give up her marriage. And Yun Anri's indifference to his wife may be because Yun Huawei is too selfless in front of him. would say that, it was Shui Qing who saw a few trips with her own eyes, and Yun Huawei's natural self-performance moved Yun Anri.
"Will my mom be uncomfortable?" Yun Tianyuan wants to follow and ask what is going on.
Shui Qing grabbed him, "Maybe she needs time to think about the things she can enjoy, the life she likes besides your father, and you and Tianlan." ”
"Sister, are you instigating my mother's divorce?" Yun Tianyuan thought about it.
"Judging from your mother's love for your dad so much, your dad is quite peaceful now, how could she mention divorce? It's just to make your life a little happier. Speaking of which, Shui Qing asked a big disrespectful question, "Your dad hasn't had any scandals recently, right?" ”
Yun Tianyuan shook his head, "Actually, my dad is by no means a playboy. He married his mother on a blind date, and before that he was a person who only knew how to work. When I met An Jie that year, it can be said that it was love at first sight, or the beginning of love, I really loved myself so much that I couldn't control myself and completely fell. That kind of love, the sky is falling apart, and my dad is really willing to give up everything for her. At that time, I wanted to persuade my mother to leave. Really, I can't bear to see my father suffering from love. At that time, I realized that there is such a thing as love in the world. ”
"But your brother said that the woman loves your father's money and status, so he wants to stop it." And he is out of the way, regardless of morality.
"Yes. My dad loves the character played by An Jie, who is intellectually beautiful, gentle and lovely, and fits his heart, but it is an illusion. I was also deceived by An Jie's acting skills. It wasn't until she dumped her dad and switched to Lance's arms that I understood. Actually, my dad was also a victim. There is a saying in China that a river of spring water flows eastward, and Bai is excited. "Yun Tianyuan's creative understanding.
"But your dad blames your brother for that." The childlike willfulness made Shui Qing have an opinion on this elder.
"Men have to save face. Even if he knew in his heart that he was wrong in love, but the whole of London knew that his lover was robbed by his son, could he suddenly have a deep affection with Lance father and son and express deep gratitude to him? In doing so, unwitting Londoners will think that my family knows no shame and that father and son share a lover. I'll tell you, actually, my dad loves my eldest brother very much. When my eldest brother started his business, he knew that my father would not help him, which was one of the tricks to force him to go home. Secretly, let people buy his software. Later, Bluewater bought a shell and went public. That shell was also opened by Dad in advance. Yun Tianyuan told a secret.
After Shui Qing was surprised, she thought to herself that everything that she saw was not necessarily true, who knew that under the frozen surface of the father and son, the family affection had never disappeared.
"Don't you think Lance is very much like my dad? Be strong, stubborn. Because of this, my dad didn't know how proud he was. Every time I see me, I sigh and say that I am like my mother, and I have no personality. Yun Tianyuan touched his nose, it seemed boring.
No, no, all three are alike. People before and after, one set of two. And they are all extremely smart, beyond the reach of others.
Shui Qing covered her mouth and bent her eyes, and was happy.