Chapter 365: Marriage

"Yueyue, I did something wrong!" Mu Mian hadn't read Weibo for a long time, and Meng Xinghe still had two scenes to finish, and her mood was much more relaxed. Flipping through Weibo, I found that Qiao Shan updated a lot of content.

Mu Mian shook his head and smiled lightly: "This girl, there are a lot of troubles." She looked at Qiao Shan's troubles one by one, and the first so-called wrong thing was actually a wrong thing she did in college.

There will always be some caution between girls, and of course Qiao Shan will not let someone play tricks. She listened to other people's rumors and ran over to tear up, only to find out that she had torn it wrong. And usually because his mouth is too big, he offends the squad leader, so he asks the squad leader to make a mess with the instructor.

"When I went to college, I realized that when the forest was big, there were really all kinds of birds. When I used to go to school, I was so simple, but these people are usually pretty good. After Qiao Shan complained, she began to recall her past life and recalled the past with a lot of emotion.

The second one is a long article, and I deliberately made a picture and uploaded it to the past. clicked on the picture and found that Qiao Shan was telling the story of her high school classmates. The girl usually had a good relationship with them and went to another local school.

"Du Lin taught a boyfriend, and now he is a junior and the relationship is quite stable. Both parents know about it and are thinking about their lives after graduation. Du Lin's mother meant that her boyfriend should be admitted to graduate school, and she should be admitted to a local graduate school, preferably H University. Du Lin asked me about our school and asked me to help find a graduate student from our school for experience. The boy's family felt that he should still work first, and after work, he felt that he couldn't go to graduate school again. ”

This kind of thing mainly depends on my own thoughts, and the boy went to work for a well-known local group in H City with the help of his family. Although the location of the group is equivalent to the county seat in the second-level city of H City, the prospect is good.

The boy himself is also very confident, and he is very motivated to work in the unit at present. I have no plans to go to graduate school, and my family hopes to get married after graduation. Having a child early, taking advantage of the help of their parents to take care of the child, the young couple went all out to fight for their careers.

Of course, Du Lin couldn't agree, she also wanted to go to graduate school and wait until her career was stable before getting married. Eugenics, you can give your children a rich life and then have children. ”

"After graduating from graduate school, I am twenty-six, working for two years, getting married at the age of twenty-eight, and having children at the age of thirty, I think this is very good. How many people don't think about getting married until they are thirty-five years old, our life is not for getting married and having children. Qiao Shan was very incomprehensible: "Of course, everyone's thoughts are different. Du Lin's mother feels that there are not enough undergraduates now, and she will not delay her work in the graduate school entrance examination. And I firmly disagree with getting married after graduation, feeling that I am too young. ”

Du Lin was in a dilemma, and felt that the man's idea was very right, and she also felt that her mother's idea was very reasonable. In the end, her mother made a suggestion, and when the parents of both sides met, she proposed that since they were going to get married, it would not be impossible. Get engaged first, hold an engagement ceremony and invite all relatives in the family to come to dinner to approve of the matter. Then the man began to prepare for marriage, since he graduated and got married, it was impossible for his two children to buy a house. The man bought a house in the local area with full decoration, and the bride price was 100,000 yuan. The woman married a car, and 100,000 yuan and a bride price of 200,000 yuan were given to the young couple to settle down.

The man's family stopped doing it at that time, and felt that Du Lin's mother was a lion who opened her mouth. Buying and decorating their own houses, and giving so many dowries, is something that only people in remote rural areas would do. The man's mother asked, "Do you sell your daughter?" ”

"Our family has worked hard to train our daughter for so many years, and I will marry your family after graduation. We also pay for a car to dowry, is this called selling our daughter? Your family has no sincerity in marrying a daughter-in-law? Shouldn't you buy a house? We don't say that we will add a name to your family's house, which is not too much at all! The woman's attitude was resolute, and she felt that the boy's family was too small.

The man demanded: "Our family buys a house and pays a down payment, and your family is responsible for the decoration." After the two of them graduated, they paid off the loan with their salaries, which is the most common way to settle the loan now. ”

The woman made another request: "I had a hard time just coming out of work, and my parents didn't follow me to make up for it?" Your family pays a down payment, does that mean add our daughter's name? Our money is all posted in the decoration, and we can't see how much we spend three or four hundred thousand. One day in the future, if you get divorced, how will you divide the money? ”

The man fried the pot, thinking that the woman was too calculating. I haven't thought much about it, I'm looking forward to a divorce, and my scheming is too heavy on profit. The woman feels that the man's family is not sincere and has a problem with values.

After the agreement, the man compromised, saying that the family did not have that much money. The down payment on the house is made for their home, the renovation of their home is renovated, and the loan is repaid by the boy's parents, whose name is the name of the man's mother. 100,000 bride price to the girl, the venue of the banquet is chosen by the woman, and the honeymoon location and jewelry are all decided by the girl. But the woman resolutely disagreed, because the two families of the house had a lot of trouble. Du Lin's boyfriend also blamed her for not taking a firm stance, but we all felt that Du Lin's family was not at fault in this matter. ”

Throughout the article, Mu Mian didn't understand why Qiao Shan was telling him this, and then he looked down to see the clue.

It turned out that she told her family angrily at this time, and used it as a conversation after dinner. Unexpectedly, Grandma Qiao Shan said quietly: "Can people still get a down payment, who do you care about the money?" There is only one son in the family, and they also said that they would have a child early and help take care of the child. The conditions in people's homes are like that, and there is no excess. On the contrary, it is you, who are barefoot and laugh at others for wearing shoes. ”

Qiao Shan was stunned for a moment and didn't hear what it meant, and her mother complained: "Can people still give a house, what about your object?" Nothing, no one to watch the child. I can't help at home, how can I give you a good life. ”

Qiao Shan felt very sad in her heart, she didn't dare to say these words to Wang Yaze. Only she knows how hard Wang Yaze lives every day for the future of the two of them.

"He can get a scholarship while he goes to work, and as long as he can reach the money, he will never give up. I was paid a salary every month and given to me to help me save for my life. He himself goes to the cafeteria every day to eat the cheapest meals and does not buy clothes once a year. My mom asked me what he had bought for me. ”

"Yueyue, you said, it's so beautiful to fall in love. Why are there so many troubles when it comes to marriage? Isn't it possible to have a happy marriage without money? ”