Subject: It seems too long to write......
Subject: It seems too long to write...... Do evil......
Author: Cocoon. Uriel
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In the past few days, I have read a lot of comments about Zixuan and Fang Fei in the book review area, and I feel that everyone has their own truth, but most students have fallen into a misunderstanding, that is, to take modern morality to look at this ancient emotional story.
So to look at this story with modern moral concepts, although the deity has become a junior, but this mistress is just an adjective, saying that she intervened between Fang Fei and Ding Monkey.
It's a pity that Ding Monkey is not a chaste and fierce man, so far he has been a six-room aunt and a main room of the deity, hehe, no matter how you look at it, it is not close to a couple.
What's more, when the deity asked to marry Ding Monkey, he didn't know about Ding Monkey and Fang Fei, I remember that it was clearly written in the text that the deity only knew about this matter after the emperor's decree, and Ding Monkey also went to the deity for a showdown after the emperor's decree, and at this time the deity knew, but it was irreparable. So it's still Ding Monkey who is shameless, you really don't want to tell the deity before the emperor makes an order, and you go to tell the deity after the decree, the purpose is nothing more than to save face, the second is to make the emperor happy, and the third is to get an inch in and want Fang Fei to have a good reputation.
According to the way of classmates who like to use modern moral concepts as an analogy, it is: Girl A fell in love with Ding Monkey, but didn't know that Ding Monkey already had a girlfriend - Girl B, and then Girl A, in order to save her life and didn't know that Ding Monkey already had a girlfriend but had no marriage contract, said to a big leader of the two, "You help me protect the matchmaker and let me marry Ding Monkey!" ”
The leader knew about Ding Monkey and Girl B, but he was embarrassed to tell Girl A, and for the sake of face, the leader agreed to be a matchmaker when it was ineffective to persuade Girl A in other ways.
Ding Monkey is here to save face, after all, marrying a daughter who is a martyr is a very face-saving thing, and secondly, he also wants to please the leader, let the leader know that I suffered so much "grievance" in order not to embarrass you, and accepted the leader's matchmaking without resistance.
Then the leader notified a system-wide that he would marry girl A to Ding Monkey, and at this time everyone knew, and the leader couldn't regret not marrying, after all, the leader's face was more important.
But Ding Monkey ran to Girl A and told Girl A: I don't want to marry you, because I have been with Girl B for a long time. The reason why I agreed to the leader is because it was asked by the leader, not what I wanted, I didn't want to offend the leader and said that I didn't want to marry you, you brought up this matter, and you went to tell the leader not to marry me.
Obviously, after pleasing the leader, he didn't want to be obedient and obedient, and passed the responsibility to others.
I'm going to go, I said you shameless Ding monkey, your cheeky skin is enough to build the Great Wall!
Girl A only knew at this time that she was a junior, but the leader had been notified by the whole system, and she couldn't slap the leader in the face! After all, the leader had persuaded her desperately at that time, although she didn't tell the truth, but she also persuaded her, but she didn't listen!
So girl A thinks: Oh, it's good that I'm alive, I've already affected others, and if I slap the leader in the face again, I'll be even more sorry for the leader...... I'll find a way to make up for it!
The "smart" girl A decided to change her mind, not to be a big wife, to be a little wife to others, and it doesn't hinder other people's big wives from anything, as long as there is a small house for herself to live in, let yourself have something to eat, don't kill people, it's done~
She thinks very well, but the leader disagrees, the leader thinks, I only be a big wife as a matchmaker, and the whole system has notified you, you have changed your words now and said that you want to be a little wife, don't you make me ashamed? No, no, no!
Girl A can't help it, she retreats to the second, and says then let the girl be a "concubine", this status is high, not much lower than the eldest wife, the leader can think about it, so be it.
I don't know what those students who shout that the deity is the junior will think, these are based on modern moral concepts, so what if it is according to ancient thought?
First of all, in terms of ancient thought, "the words of the matchmaker of the parents" is much higher than "the two loves", although the two families know each other, although the two adults know each other, but they have never passed by. According to ancient thought, this is "giving and receiving privately", what a crime...... It's not good, but the woman has to pull it to the sinking pond~
As the supreme leader of the imperial court at that time, since the emperor was a matchmaker and let the deity and Ding Monkey be together, it was the standard Ming media who was marrying. A Ming media is marrying a private person, so how can Xiao Trinity say?
Removing the problem of private teaching and acceptance, another problem is that Fang Fei's own motives for being with Ding Monkey are not pure. At that time, she was only the daughter of a six-rank official, and the reason why she was able to be with Ding Monkey was also because of the relationship between her aunt and cousin, according to the concept of the family in ancient society, it was absolutely impossible for a monkey to marry the daughter of a six-rank official as a wife.
What is Fang Fei going to? Mrs. Hou, Mrs. Yipin, and the glory and wealth of the Hou Mansion! For this purpose, he did not hesitate to give and receive privately, and openly flirted with Ding Monkey before marriage, in order to produce rice and mature rice in the eyes of everyone, if it were not for the appearance of the deity, there was every reason to say "For you, my reputation has been ruined, everyone knows that I have a relationship with you, if you don't marry me, I will only die......"
This impure motive also led her to be willing to be a concubine for Ding Monkey after learning that the emperor had appointed her to marry. Shet, girls, think about it, if it's you, your childhood sweetheart's affectionate lover wants to dump you and marry another girl for "last resort" reasons, are you willing to be his little wife? Or a concubine with no status? You know, the current little wife can also break up other people's families to make the main house, in ancient times, it was difficult for the concubine to be the main house, the concubine is okay, but the one on your concubine's head is the emperor's marriage! Unless she's dead, or you're dreaming!
Originally, if Fang Fei really loves Ding Monkey and really thinks about him, she should obviously ask her parents to find another family for her, after all, is it a good thing to put the man who loves you in a dilemma and a dilemma of loyalty and righteousness for you?
That's right, it's the dilemma of loyalty and righteousness! The mother of the deity exchanged her life for her life to save the Ding monkey, which is righteousness; The emperor decreed that marriage was granted, that is, loyalty. In the end, in order to please the emperor and his reputation, Ding Monkey did disloyal and unrighteous things. Allowing the servants of the family to force the daughter of the life-saving benefactor to death, and disobeying the emperor's holy decree, is the most important disloyalty and injustice in ancient morality! Such a man, a woman, if you bleach him, I will spit on you, spit on your saliva!
Okay, some classmates want to say, I'm too partial to the deity, after all, Fang Fei was robbed of a man~ But don't forget, classmates, the background of this article is ancient times. Since it is ancient, it is necessary to examine this period of right and wrong according to ancient moral standards, and do not always use modern moral standards to measure ancient moral standards, which is not a ruler energy.
After talking about the deity, I will talk about Zixuan. From Zixuan's point of view, she is a woman who challenges ancient moral concepts with modern moral concepts. So from the perspective of ancient morality, her pungency, the "evil" she was forced out, and even her going to the court to seek unity and separation, borrowing the Qin monkey to block the mouth of the Ding monkey, these are all wrong. Well, if you judge by ancient morality, she is wrong.
But she's a modern person, and like every one of us readers, she feels that she has done nothing wrong. After all, because of the death of the deity and her own crossing, she knew that the people around her did not have a good impression of her, and even slandered her and framed her for the purpose of wanting her to die and give up the position of the wife.
From the point of view of her self-esteem, she is willing to give up this position, because from the perspective of modern morality, she feels that the deity is a junior without understanding all the causes and consequences, and since she has taken over the deity, she should give up the position and return it to Fang Fei.
But also because of her self-esteem and survival instinct, I can give up my position, but you force me to give up my position. I don't know that Ding monkeys can, but Ding monkeys can't let their concubines show their teeth and claws. Well, that's what modern people often say: "A matter of principle!" ”
Zixuan is an alternative existence to this time and space, she herself is a person who is loyal to the moral concepts of modern society, and her education is also a matter of equality between men and women and the dignity of getting along with each other.
According to the concept of modern people, Zixuan is right. But according to the concept of ancient people, some things in Zixuan are not only wrong, but also excessive. This is why Grandpa Qian kept saying that he wanted Zixuan to kowtow step by step to the Confucius Temple to apologize.
After talking about these people, let's talk about other supporting roles~
The first thing that impressed me was the pearls. In fact, this is a very contradictory role. Maybe she is loyal, she has been dissuading Zixuan because she understands that in ancient morality, there are some things that Zixuan cannot do, and Zixuan must abide by them. She unilaterally assumed that she had done the same, but she had made the least mistake that a servant should have done: being disloyal! The second thing!!
She is a dowry girl, although the title is Hou Ye and Mrs., but she should know very clearly in her heart that it is Miss and Aunt. As a servant, even if the young lady says something wrong, at least in front of outsiders, she should completely obey the young lady. Even if Miss is really wrong, when the outsiders leave, she can persuade Miss. But she didn't. The role she has always played is to constantly dismantle her master's platform in front of outsiders, and even listen to the words of the master's "enemy" (Ding Monkey) and disobey the master.
Woman, such a girl should get the lunch box early, don't waste words on such a character...... The final outcome of this kind of girl's development is generally a different heart, and she also wants to climb into the bed of the Ding monkey! Even if he can't climb, he will collude with outsiders to frame Zixuan because of Zixuan's stopping.
Let's not talk about Liuli, with the example of pearls, everyone will subconsciously like the role of Liuli. However, Liuli has a big drawback, that is, it will not persuade privately. To put it bluntly, the best use of glass in the end is to shout and kill for the master, but it will not give advice to the master.
and Mr. Qian, in fact, personally, I like Mr. Qian very much. Qian Gongzi in the article has an obvious characteristic: he likes women with violent personalities, and hates women who are weak and crying (whether they are really weak or pretending to be weak). In fact, it can be analyzed from the intermittent text that this child is a mother-lover complex, which belongs to a serious psychological shadow, and there is a disease to be treated, and the child is a child~~
Qian Gongzi's mother (I forgot whether it was the county lord or the princess, everyone forgive me) should be a woman with a strong personality, because of her identity and her dignity. And Qian Gongzi's father is likely to be a monkey-like person, with a weak and can't help but hold a nest of tears before he speaks. And the death of Qian Gongzi's parents, at least his mother, is likely to be directly or indirectly caused by this concubine. Qian Gongzi may also have lived a very unhappy childhood and was ignored by his father because of this concubine. In addition, Mr. Qian's parents died early, and there is only one uncle who is crazy and cares him for his heart (obviously he loves him so much that he is unreasonable and doesn't use his brain), so his childhood may be dark and tragic......
These speculations of mine may be able to explain the real reason why Mr. Qian and Grandpa Qian came to quarrel with Fang Fei.
Mr. Qian is a bad man, so he will want to take Zixuan away with someone and a car. But he is not really a bad person, so after the incident, he not only tried his best to maintain Zixuan's reputation, but also took a bad breath for Zixuan, and threatened to respect Zixuan. The article is only written here, I don't know if Mr. Qian will become more normal because of Zixuan in the future.
Water-based Yang Hua, uh, in fact, I want to say that this character is very similar to the former Hua Mingxuan in the woman's pen. Maybe it's different, but for now, it's still a bit similar to Hua Mingxuan......
And then there's the most critical topic of discussion so far – children
The deity wants to have children, nothing more than because of the nature of mother and child. But for Zixuan, there is no need for this child to exist.
In the case of treating Zixuan like this, Ding Monkey knew that Zixuan was pregnant, and his only thought was to use Zixuan as a production tool. Regardless of whether she is born a boy or a girl, Zixuan has no status. It's even worse to give birth to a daughter...... I don't know how harsh it will be.
But according to the current attitude of the large and small goods in the monkey nest, once a son is born, Zixuan may not have a chance to see this son. The old witch and Ding Monkey would never let Zixuan raise this son.
So obviously, for Zixuan, giving birth to this child is definitely a tragedy, and it will not change her opinion of the old witch because of a son, nor will the old witch want to let her go because of a son. If it weren't for the title of Mrs. Fuguo, the old witch would probably imprison Zixuan for 24 hours and kill her when she gave birth, so that the grandson would also have it, and the reason for Zhengdaguang's death would also be (difficult), Zixuan would also have braids, and her favorite Fang Fei could also take the throne, and the emperor would not have a reason to blame them.
So, classmates, this child can't be wanted, once it is born, it will be a tragedy for Zixuan and the child. Just like the rape children in today's society, although they have gained life, but the children are not fish and know the joy of fish, how can you understand the pressure and white eyes that this child will be subjected to from childhood to adulthood?
Long pain is better than short pain, woman, you are your own mother, you must be your own mother, you have to kiss your mother to the end, don't let the child suffer and make Zixuan suffer, if the deity is alive, seeing the pain of the child after he survives, it is estimated that he will want to stuff the child back into his stomach......
Shet, writing too much...... I guess no one is watching......