Chapter 010: Meet Your Parents
When he arrived at Shu Wan's house, Qi Tong took down a trolley from the trunk of the car.
Shu Wan looked suspicious, watching him pick up a big box, another big box, another big box from the trunk.
He stacked and bundled the boxes high, almost up to his height.
"What are you doing?" Shu Wan frowned, "My house is small, so I can't put so many things." ”
Qi Tong smiled and said, "You don't care about this." ”
When Yu Fei saw it, she screamed, poked Xu Xiao's arm with her finger and shouted: "Look at people!" Look at the people! ”
Xu Xiao smiled and said: "The Qi family is the home of businessmen, there is nothing else, and there is too much money to make." Our Xu family is a poor family, where can we compare to others? ”
"It's not a question of money or not, it's a matter of heart," Yu Fei said angrily, "Have you carefully prepared a gift for my family?" When was it not two packs of cigarettes and two bottles of wine, and they were sent away? ”
"Hey, don't go up if you two yell; Don't dilute my joy! Qi Tong said loudly.
He glanced at Xu Xiao and said, "Xu Xiao, why are you still stunned?" Help me hold on! ”
Xu Xiao smiled and grinned, helped Qi Tong hold the box, and said, "Big cousin, if you want me to say, you might as well seal a red envelope of 20,000 yuan by yourself." Buying gifts for people you don't know is so painstaking and laborious, but it may not really please others. ”
"What others? It's my family and yours from now on! Qi Tong seriously corrected.
"Yes, yes, big cousin, I raise my hands and feet to agree with you. When is the woman's family not family, right? Xu Xiao's point of view is absolutely problematic, and he must be criticized! Yu Fei echoed.
Shu Wan said slowly in the back: "I think that the era of family inheritance has long passed. Now is the era of the convergence of the 'three views'. Whoever gets along with himself and can make friends for a lifetime is family. Other people, even if he is close to his own blood relationship, if he can't talk about it, it's just hurting each other, and there is no need to have deep friendship. ”
"Yes, yes, big cousin, I seriously agree with you! We can stay away from those who don't get along with us. Otherwise, a hot face sticks to a cold buttocks, adding blockage to others, and making yourself feel bad. Xu Xiao agreed.
"You agree with a fart! Then tell me, which of your relatives does not agree with your three views? Yu Fei asked.
Xu Xiao smiled awkwardly and said, "I'll analyze it carefully with you when I go back." ”
Qi Tong laughed and said: "The era of family inheritance will never pass. Smart people know how to develop their strengths and avoid weaknesses to achieve the integration of human resources and the use of advantages. Family members are always the most trustworthy and reliable. It not only relies on integrity links, but also relies on blood, family affection, and family public opinion, which is more reliable. ”
Shu Wan shrugged his shoulders and said, "Of course, the wolf family can achieve a strong combination, even if there are one or two little sheep occasionally, it can be raised through the accumulation of a strong family. However, ordinary people are difficult to protect themselves, and the accumulation of weakness and weakness will only make them more anxious. When one person attains the Tao, the chicken and dog ascend to heaven. But if this person is helping the chicken dog when he has not attained enlightenment, then he will never be able to ascend to heaven because he is dragged down by the chicken dog. ”
Qi Tong said helplessly: "When did 'ascending to heaven' and 'making a lot of money' be linked?" Your brain is too big. ”
"Then you say, what good is the ascension to heaven? Isn't it just that you can do whatever you want? With enough money, isn't it possible to do whatever you want? ”
"Immortals have no desires and no desires."
"Immortals are to enjoy all the delicacies of the fairy world on earth and see all the beautiful scenery."
Yu Fei will look at this for a while, and look at that for a while, thoughtfully.
The trolley is a bit big. Qi Tong and Xu Xiao went up first.
When the elevator door closed and walked up, Yu Fei said, "Shu Wan, you usually communicate like this?" ”
"What's wrong? Is there a problem? Shu Wan asked.
"No problem." Yu Fei smiled.
"What are you laughing at? What do you usually communicate? Shu Wan asked.
"Talk about love." Yu Fei blushed and said.
"What kind of love do you talk about?" Shu Wan was curious, "You have been talking for so long, and you still haven't gotten tired of talking?" ”
Yu Fei shrugged his shoulders and said, "Anyway, we rarely have rebuttal exchanges. Every time I have a different opinion, Xu Xiao listens to me. ”
"Why?"
"Because he loves me."
"You're so numb."
After a while, the elevator came.
Shu Wan and Yu Fei entered the elevator.
Yu Fei said: "Actually, I envy you. ”
"Oh?"
"Whenever I disagree with him, he's anxious. When he is in a hurry, I will also be in a hurry, and I will quarrel with him. As soon as I quarreled with him, he stopped saying anything, and he was cold. It's been a long time, and I've figured out the rules. Later, whenever there was a difference of opinion, he listened to me. It's not like you, you have a lot of discussions, even if you fight for it, it doesn't matter, but it's just the right thing and not the right person, which is quite interesting. The collision of ideas, in my opinion, is the highest level of communication. It's a lot more meaningful than shouting 'I love you' when there's nothing to do. ”
"You can also communicate. It's not that hard. ”
"There is one thing that I have been holding in my heart for a long time, and I can't tell anyone but one person. I originally thought that Xu Xiao had the same views as me, so he was very compatible with me. After getting married, he found out that he was hiding his true thoughts. He was currying favor with me. In fact, many times, he thinks diametrically opposite to mine. I remember Brother Cheng Lin once told me that men and women are different species, and their ways of thinking are very different. At the time, I thought he was machismo, self-righteous. Now that I think about it, he really did good for me. ”
"Xu Xiao is willing to give up his own point of view and listen to you, which means that he loves you very much."
"I don't deny that he loves me. But I just want to communicate calmly and fully, either he convinces me, or I convince him. It's not that he unilaterally surrendered and gave up. I remember that when I chatted with Brother Cheng Lin before, when I encountered different points of view, Brother Cheng Lin would also express his views very directly. Although he was very stubborn, he felt that his point of view was correct and wanted to convince me. But fortunately, I can clearly understand his point of view under his expression. Xu Xiao hid his point of view. I had no idea what was going on in his mind. ”
"It's not hard to understand a person. Although the heart is separated from the belly. But as long as you are honest with each other and attentive, you will always be able to find clues. At the beginning of a marriage, it also needs to be run-in. After all, two people grew up in different living environments and experienced different lives. Find the most comfortable point for two people to get along. Shu Wan said.
She couldn't help but think of Qi Tong once said that even like Xu Xiao and Yu Fei, there are points that need to be run-in. Maybe Xu Xiao will exchange views with Qi Tong in private. Take some time for yourself, and ask Qi Tong.
"Shu Wan, I remember you told me that if you were me, you would choose Cheng Lin. My parents are also optimistic about Cheng Lin. Sometimes I think, maybe you and my parents are right. ”
At this time, the elevator arrived.
Yu Fei held back.
Shu Wan looked at her deeply and said, "When you have time, come to my house for a cup of coffee." ”
"Hmm. Shu, you're the best. Yu Fei said gratefully.
The door was open, and the house was crowded.
Shu Wan raised his eyes and swept it, crying and laughing. Grandma's birthday, no one has come so well.
Four aunts and three aunts surrounded Qi Tong and Xu Xiao, and the two instantly felt that they had become apes in the zoo.
Three large boxes have been opened, and juniors are "grabbing" gifts. These gifts are labeled with different titles. This saves Qi Tong from going to "distribute" gifts.
"Wan, why are you still stunned? Tell us about it! Aunt Shu Wan's voice.
This aunt has a very good relationship with Shu Wan. She graduated from Haida with a major in materials physics and worked in the R&D office of a large clothing company. Shu Wan's clothing studio has always hired her as a technical consultant.
"This time, we don't dare to say hello casually." Shu Wan's second aunt joked.
The second aunt was wearing a big red dress and was very festive. I don't know, I thought that today's happy family was her family.
Cousins are handing out gifts. The cousins stood reservedly on the sidelines, secretly looking at their future cousins-in-law, but they didn't know which one was. The eldest cousin Ding Ming was sitting on the sofa in the living room, with a cigarette in his mouth, and he pressed the remote control to find a variety show to watch. Su Li gave him several looks, but he ignored them. The eldest cousin-in-law, Sun Ting, accompanied the child to play with the sprouts in the corner of the living room.
Several uncles and uncles-in-law galloped on the mahjong table. The mahjong table opened three tables.
Shu Wan walked over to change his shoes, and said with a smile: "Your battle is too big, and it scares me." Qi Tong, don't you have a long mouth yourself? ”
"Shu Wan, you kid! How do you speak?! The aunt smiled and scolded, "Which one is Shu Wan's boyfriend, report your name yourself." ”
Qi Tong smiled and introduced himself: "Hello elders! I'm Qi Tong, Shu Wan's boyfriend. The one next to me is my aunt's cousin, named Xu Xiao. His daughter-in-law is good friends with Shu Wan. So we came together. ”
After a period of chaos, everyone sat down again. Playing mahjong playing mahjong, from time to time glance at Qi Tong. Those who watch TV watch TV, and glance at Qi Tong from time to time. The aunt and the second aunt and the second aunt were more talkative, and they talked around Qi Tong and asked all the eighteen generations of Qi Tong's ancestors. Aunt Su Li is also a lively master, but for some reason this time she seems to wilt, hiding in the corner and watching TV, as if she is afraid that others will notice her.
Xu Xiao and his little cousins are studying the small remote-controlled helicopter that Qi Tong sent.
Shu Wan and Yu Fei went to the kitchen to find Ding Xiang.
Ding Xiang said: "The kitchen smells heavy, don't come in." ”
Yu Fei went in, washed her hands briefly, then reached out and grabbed a chicken claw and put it in her mouth to nibble, and said vaguely: "Auntie, your marinated things are really a must." I've always dreamed of eating it. ”
Ding Xiang laughed and said, "When you leave in a while, bring the chicken feet, as well as duck neck and braised beef." This time I'm much more marinated. ”
Yu Fei was looking for a trash can to spit out chicken feet and bones, and Shu Wan stuffed her with a plastic bag.
Yu Fei spit the bones in the plastic bag and said, "Auntie, you are so good!" ”