Chapter 416 - Going to Class

Jiang Tao's successful marriage proposal made Qi Jing and others very happy, and excitedly caught Zishan to interrogate the details of the proposal, and did not let go of every detail; Because of the lawyer Anping, it is impossible for Zishan not to say anything even if she wants to, she can always find something in Zishan's words.

was bombarded by her friends in turn, Zishan had to tell everything and everything, but Chu Xiang and An Ping listened to it hotly; Even Qi Jing went home and twisted the fat man a few times, blaming him for not being as attentive as Jiang Tao when he proposed marriage: so Jiang Tao's life has not been easy recently, and he has to face the oppression of Shen Yang and the fat man every day.

However, Zishan and Jiang Tao are not in a hurry to get married, even the engagement ceremony was arranged by them a month later: when the farmhouse was busy recently, Zishan had no time to worry about engagement and marriage; Besides, the baby knew about Feng Dayong's marriage, and the bad mood also made Jiang Tao and Zishan feel distressed, and they didn't have the heart to arrange the engagement.

There is a discrepancy between the time announced in the newspaper and the final agreed time: various things happen, Zishan and Jiang Tao's engagement date is pushed back and again; Because neither of them has any relatives or elders to invite, they don't need to explain anything, but it's really convenient.

may have been stimulated by Jiang Tao's marriage proposal, Shen Yang actually proposed to Chu Xiang, although the process was a little tortuous - it was not that Chu Xiang was unwilling, it was Shen Yang's arrangement that went wrong, and the link that was arranged to change the ring into a magic ring actually turned out to be a charming beauty.

It was really enough to surprise Chu Xiang, and he almost gave Shen Yang a slap because he was too surprised. Zishan and the others were still happy for Chu Xiang and Shen Yang, especially when they saw Chu Xiang's happy appearance. Everyone believes that this will also be a happy couple.

It's just that unlike Zishan and Jiang Tao's extremely simple family relationships, Chu Xiang and Shen Yang's respective families are a little bit complicated: Chu Xiang's family is needless to say, Shen Yang's side is a little troublesome, except that Shen Bo has no opinion on Chu Xiang. I like Dabao very much, and the attitude of Yang Guoying and Shen Zhi is too difficult to say.

Zi Shan sighed: "Chu Xiang, have you discussed what happened to Shen Yang's parents?" "She's happy for her friend. But the actual problem is that it is impossible to leave it aside, not to be as if it does not exist. Other questions are fine, but the matter of parents is not so simple.

When they first entered the society, they would think that marriage was a matter of two people, and as long as the two of them loved each other, everything was OK; In fact, in this country, the marriage of two people is definitely not a matter of two people, especially when it comes to parents. The situation then becomes difficult to say.

Whether it's the man's or the woman's parents, as long as they don't agree, it's a big problem - you just want to get married, the law says that you are free to marry? Yes, there is nothing to stop you from getting a marriage license, but getting married is not just about getting a license. The knowledge inside is gone.

If they just don't agree, or if they don't like the other half of their children, how will they get along in the future? You can't say I'll never have to pay attention to them, can you? That's your life partner's parents, and it's your sweetheart who has a bad relationship with them.

What kind of injury will it be if it has accumulated over the years? Can you be sure that your sweetheart won't resentfully you or ruin your relationship because of your life in the middle? Or maybe you can move the other person to accept you – and that's going to be wronged, maybe not just some. Most likely, a lot and a long time.

Even if you can stand it, but can you really balance your mind? It's easy to get a smile from others, but you have to work hard, and the final relationship is really the kind of equal, loving relationship you think? The relationship formed by one party being wronged, even if the other party is moved, will form a kind of class layer: something intangible. You can't tell.

After all the years, are you sure you have no complaints? If you complain, will your partner get tired of listening to it? That's someone's parents!

Therefore, Zishan was very worried about Chu Xiang, because it was impossible for Shen Zhi and Yang Guoying to accept her; This kind of non-acceptance is not because there is any misunderstanding of Chu Xiang, or because they do not understand, but because they cannot accept Chu Xiang's current identity: this is a fact that cannot be changed.

What's the use of Chu Xiang even if he works hard, and people like Shen Zhi and Yang Guoying are not easy to be moved, even if they are moved, in the hearts of such two people, Chu Xiang's status is definitely not as simple as their daughter-in-law, it will be an identity that is mixed with many other things.

And it is possible that Shen Zhi and Yang Guoying will have that condescending "pity" for Chu Xiang: We accepted that you are the daughter-in-law of the Shen family is grace, what do you want? Don't assume that this won't happen, it's highly likely to happen; Although, Chu Xiang is Shen Yang's wife, and it is a matter of course after they get married.

Chu Xiang was a little worried: "Shen Yang said that in order to show respect for his parents and respect for me, he will take me to meet his parents, as for whether they like me or not, he doesn't care if they accept me or not - if you don't accept it, you just don't see them in the future." I always felt a little, a little ......."

"A little worried, isn't it?" Zishan and An Ping both sat down: "I know, we are not little girls anymore, and after going through a lot, of course we know that many things cannot be completely solved by simply looking at them; No matter what Shen Yang says, it is also Shen Yang's parents, your future parents-in-law. ”

Sighing, holding Chu Xiang's words, Zishan looked at her: "That's why you hesitated for a few days, right?" What's in mind now? Your parents-in-law are really the best in the world. ”

Chu Xiang raised his head: "I don't know, I'm really worried, and sometimes I think about what to do if I don't get a divorce again, it's better to break up now; However, Shen Yang treated our mother and son really well. ”

Qi Jing tilted his head: "You don't need to break up, right?" ”

Zi Shan looked at her and shook her head: "You go and see them first, if they are really unkind, it will depend on Shen Yang; He needs to know that it is his parents who do not agree to look down on you, not that you have an opinion about his parents, and in the future, if his parents say to him that you are nothing, please remind him of this. ”

An Ping sighed: "That would be so simple, if life was really that simple, it would be easy to do; Things will always change their appearance completely after grinding on some trivial things. I think it's better not to get married until Shen Yang's parents don't agree, just drag it out. ”

Zishan's eyes lit up: "Good way, Anping!" She slapped Anping's shoulder with a palm: "It's just a drag word, anyway, the person who is in a hurry to get married is not Chu Xiang, right?" If you and Shen Yang are in love, they will live together, but they just don't get married, well, you have to make it clear to Shen Yang first, if he doesn't agree, it's better to break up now, and it's better than two people becoming enemies in the future. ”

Chu Xiang's eyes had a spirit: "Let him come to live in our house?" ”

"What's that? Anyway, Shen Yang's kid can't make any waves, if he likes those big girls outside, he won't fall in love with your little daughter-in-law, and if he really changes his mind, then it's a good thing that you don't marry him; Let it be a test for him. Qi Jing rolled her eyes and threw it over: "We are not the big girl's family again, that piece of paper is really so important?" ”

Zishan said lightly: "It's important for men, not for us; That's the highest commitment and responsibility that a man has given us, and he is willing to tie him to us for the rest of his life - if he doesn't have this sincerity, we really don't have to live with him? ”

She looked left and right, and her eyes swept over the fat man: "Look at us, what if there are no men, life can still be wonderful and happy, right?" ”

The fat man resisted: "It's a big blow when I talk about it, I'm a good young man." But she was spat a few times by Zishan and several women.

Chu Xiang hugged Zishan Anping and quietly: "It's good to have you, the stone in my heart has finally landed; Isn't it just to meet Yang Guoying and Shen Zhi, it's not that we haven't seen it, we are really not afraid to see it. One sentence made everyone so happy that they couldn't straighten their waists, and their faces were shaved several times by Qi Jing.

"However, my family ......" Chu Xiang's eyes dimmed: "Shen Yang said let me take him to sit and recognize the door; I really don't want to go. She didn't want to mention her family, because the indifference of her family after the divorce really broke her heart, although after the success of her career, her family often called and wanted to come and see her, but she refused.

If she doesn't have relatives who send charcoal on the snow, she really doesn't want relatives who are icing on the cake: relatives, that's not a friend, that should be a person's most solid backing.

Zishan was also a little surprised: "What does Shen Yang mean?" ”

Jiang Tao, who had not spoken as if he was reading the newspaper, said: "I agree with Shen Yang." ”

"I agree with that." The fat man's words were very serious: "Based on this alone, you women should add five points to Shen Yang." ”

Chu Xiang's eyes turned red, and he turned his head: "You don't know my family, even if I had something to eat, I wouldn't jump off the building......" Some things are as painful as bone marrow, not that you can forget them; In particular, the closer the person, the more difficult it is to erase the damage.

Zishan was also a little puzzled: "Actually, it doesn't matter if you go or not, right?" Thinking of his parents, he hugged Chu Xiang and said softly: "We are all your relatives, don't be sad." People, relying on themselves is the king, can we have today and don't rely on them? ”

Jiang Tao and the fat man glanced at each other: "What about us, let's teach you a lesson today, so that you know what it means to be a man who really thinks about you." (To be continued) RQ

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