In the past few days, I have discovered a small problem, there is something wrong with Wen Ai, she came home a full hour later than usual.

I waited for her early at home that day to see what was going on.

I twitched my face, "Bun-ae, you're back." ”

Wen Ai saw that my face was not good, "Well, I'm back." ”

"The rice is in the pot for you, you can take it out and eat it." In the past few days, I have discovered a small problem, there is something wrong with Wen Ai, she came home a full hour later than usual.

I waited for her early at home that day to see what was going on.

I twitched my face, "Bun-ae, you're back." ”

Wen Ai saw that my face was not good, "Well, I'm back." ”

"The rice is in the pot for you, you can take it out and eat it."

"I've eaten it, but I'm not eating it."

"Where did you eat it?"

"In the same class."

"I've never heard of you going to eat at a classmate before, but what's wrong with it today?"

Wen Ai stumbled, "Oh, Daddy, it's nothing, I'll go back to the house to read." ”

"You come back for me, you always come back an hour later than usual during this time, and say, why did you go?" Wen Ai rolled her eyes quickly, her teeth biting her lip.

"You'd better tell the truth, don't give me any for me."

"Oops, I'll ask the teacher to make up for me." Wen Ai saw that this reason was made up, which teacher doesn't need money to make up the class, you say, which one doesn't need money, Wen Ai didn't ask me for money, and someone will give her a make-up class.

Since Wen Ai didn't want to say it, I didn't force her, and when I investigated it in two days, I would know it all.

"Alright, you go back to the house." Wen Ai stuck out her tongue and ran back, thinking that she had escaped my pursuit by luck.

The next day, I had a stall with Chen.

"Chen Jie, let me tell you something, my girl doesn't know what to do these days? You come with me to my house at night and greet her, I know you are very capable. ”

Chen Jie took a bite of the tomato, "I've taught everything I should teach, can't you finish it yourself, and you still have to pull me, I'm still busy at night." ”

"That's my daughter, I'm going to use this thing to meet her, no, I can't do it."

"Hehehe, I don't see it, you're still a good father, okay, I'll go tonight."

After closing the stall in the afternoon, Chen Jie and I made a table of good dishes, bought a bottle of good wine, and the two of them ate and drank, waiting for Wen Ai to come back.

"Wen Ai, I'm back, this is your Uncle Chen."

"Uncle Chen is good."

"Hey, what a handsome girl, if I have a son, I will definitely let your daughter marry my son." Wen Ai smiled shyly.

"Mom, come on, what the hell, who wants to marry your son."

"Shanyun, we have a friendship, you are still not happy."

"Don't fix those useless things, just your virtue, my daughter marries your son, can you rest assured?" I took a sip of my wine.

"Wen Ai, sit down and eat together, these are all made by your Uncle Chen today, and it's okay."

Wen Ai sighed and sat down.

Chen Jie was still glaring at me, I kicked him, hurry up and take a look.

After waiting for a while, Chen Jie pulled me out.

Chen Jie smiled, "What are you laughing at?" ”

"You are still a Taoist priest, you can't see it, your daughter's forehead is full of redness, and there is an extra red halo on her forehead, which is obviously the target."

"What kind of thing, deal with the object, how old she is, no, I can't discipline this." After saying that, he was angry and wanted to go in to clean up Wen Ai.

Chen Jie grabbed me, "What are you going to do?" ”

"What are you going to do? Pack her up, it's my family affair, you don't care. Shake off Chen Jie's arm and go in.

"Hey, hey, you're kicking your nose in the face." Chen Jieleng was dragging me.

"How old is your daughter?"

"It's 17 this year, what's the matter?"

"Look at your discoloration, the girls are 17 years old, this female doll matures faster than the male doll, what are you doing at 17?"

"I'm 17, what can I do when I'm 17?"

"You dare to say that you don't have a favorite girl when you're 17?"

"What's your business, hey, I'll educate my daughter about you."

"I said you Niu Shanyun, for dealing with other people's affairs, you kid is the head of the way, showing the atmosphere of benevolence and righteousness step by step, and treating your own affairs, isn't this nonsense? This young man has reached this age, no one can stop it, you want the overlord to bow hard, force others to destroy, then I tell you, you are really self-defeating, sometimes, this time the injury is lifelong to your daughter, although she doesn't say it, but she leaves a scar in her heart. ”

I calmed down, Chen Jie was right.

"What do you mean?"

"Grooming."

"How?"

"You are a cultivator, you ask me how to channel? You don't pull the calf, you. ”

"Okay, okay, have you finished eating?"

"Not yet? Why. ”

"When you're done eating, you can go back quickly."

"Hey, hehehe, now it's time to start teasing people, okay, I'll obey you, I'm leaving, you be steady, don't hurt your daughter, young people are still young, you have to talk about it."

I calmed down, Wen Ai was still eating.

"Wen Ai, is there something you haven't told your father?" Wen Ai smiled bitterly, "Daddy, how can it?" What can I hide from you? ”

"Wen Ai, you see that you are a big girl now, if you have anything to tell your father, your father will give you a reference."

Wen Ai can smell something from my words, but because this matter is really shy, Wen Ai still prevaricates.

"What can I do, it's fine."

"Wen Ai, then Daddy will ask you. Are you talking about a boyfriend anymore. As soon as Wen Ai heard me say this, her chopsticks flew away, and she hurriedly said, "No, no, Daddy, where do you want to go." ”

"It's not a big deal, Daddy, I also came from this era. I still remember when I was 17 years old, there was a girl in my class, with black hair, drooping up to her buttocks, braided hair, white skin, big shining eyes, and a clever nose, which fascinated me, and she sat right in front of me, and I was thinking about her all day in class. ”

When Wen Ai heard me say this, she instantly relaxed her vigilance.

"And then?"

This girl is *, my father is the leader of the town, I have no father and no mother, and I can only watch it, at that time, we would not be like you now, we were all worried about no one to confess. Let me tell you, I'm not the only one in our class who thinks about this girl. Later, I saw that the competition was too strong, and I was open at that time, and if people rejected me, I would die. And just like that, a long letter was written. ”

"Daddy, what's on your letter?"

"I was shy with a pen, so I had no choice but to copy the lyrics of a popular song at that time. You are like that fire, the flame warms me, you are like that fire, the light of the fire illuminates. I didn't dare to write my own name after writing, so I added that there is someone who sings this song every day to express his thoughts about you, so I asked me to give her the note at the same table. I thought about it, this might be possible, and a week later, the school held a party, and my tablemate reported a program, and the name of the song was a fire in winter, and guess what, the girl really liked me at the same table, and the two of them were together, and I had nothing to do. ”

Wen Ai laughed, "Daddy, you are too inferior, but what you like is snatched away by others." ”

"Hahaha, I also think why is this unreliable. By the way, Wen Ai, where are you from?"

"Pekingese." Wen Ai covered her mouth and said that she had leaked.

Wen Ai's embarrassed expression, her teeth biting her lips tighter, she was waiting for my roar, but my hehe smile made her instantly overwhelmed.

"Wen Ai, if you have a boyfriend, you don't tell your father, it's too boring." Wen Ai looked at me, "Daddy, you're not angry. ”

"I'm angry, I'm not from your age, you tell your father, and your father will give you a reference."

Wen Ai didn't believe me, "Daddy, what you said is really fake, you won't fool me, go to someone's house to make trouble." ”

"You dead woman, what did you think of me?"

Wen Ai smiled, "I think you're so unreliable today, by the way, how do you know who I'm talking to?" ”

"How do I know? What's wrong with your father's world, how do I know, by the way, you tell your father, that doll is not handsome. ”

Wen Ai said shyly, "Of course it's handsome, can I take a fancy to it if it's not handsome?" ”

"Why are Beijingers in Shenzhen?"

"His dad is in business here."

"Oh, what's the business?"

"Dad, how do I know this, why do I ask people so much."

"That's the case, Wen Ai, my father will never interfere with you vigorously about this, but I have to give you a few suggestions, what do you think."

"Oh, you say, girl, I'll listen."

"First of all, don't always think about falling in love, turn love into motivation, you two can urge each other, study hard, and improve each other, it's not impossible, right."

"Besides, I think you should know that my daughter is a smart person, she doesn't need to be a father to say more, you must protect yourself, because that's your daughter's capital, okay, you can control the rest."

"Dad, you don't need to say that I know, I'm not a child, I know what to do."

"yes, this is my daughter. As for the result, it doesn't matter, let your life be more exciting, leave a memorial, this life is also a kind of enjoyment, okay, it's not too early, rest. ”

Wen Ai saw that I didn't get angry, but still talked so much with her as if she was a friend, and before Wen Ai left, she said weakly, "Daddy, you have a hard time living alone, why don't you find me a mother." ”

I chuckled in my heart, and my whole body felt like an electric shock. "Wen Ai, rest, Daddy has his own measure in this matter." Wen Ai quietly left.

Here I have to say that family education, the old three-outline and five-permanent style is no longer useful in this era, you must adjust the atmosphere of the family into friends, so that everyone can rest assured that everything you say, don't feel the public security bureau as soon as you enter this home.

One will be the secretary of the Commission for Discipline Inspection to review, the other will be the public security police arrest, the other will be the criminal law, and in the end there will be a trial, such a family atmosphere, do you think you will still like it? Will your children still like it?

Many people tell me that their children don't communicate with themselves, and when they do, they get annoyed, I want to ask, can you communicate with children like me? Have you let go of your identity?

As soon as you open your mouth, Dad tells you, you must remember, is what you said right? Have you ever had a heart-to-heart conversation like chatting?

Don't keep blaming the problem on others, start with your own review, I hope my story can inspire everyone.

Many people must be furious about the problem of their children's early love, and I think this will not solve the problem.

Cultivate your mind, cultivate your nature, and take your time to experience it.

Ask for a reward, ask for a reward, ask for tea money... A pound of West Lake Longjing 600 oceans is expensive to death.