Chapter 003: It's not good to be a teacher
At the same time, Qi Tong's family was experiencing a storm.
"Qi Tong, let me tell you, I don't agree. Did you hear me clearly? I, disagree! I'd rather you never get married for the rest of your life than I don't want you to marry Shu Wan. She doesn't even look at her own parents, who else can she have in her eyes? Her parents offered her like an ancestor, for fear that she would be unhappy. If we marry her, our family will be the biggest. Let your grandparents look at her face? I'm telling you, no way! Ding only said in a stacked voice.
"Mom, look at what you say. Where is that exaggerated? Shu Wan is reasonable. She just resented her parents for leaving her at her grandmother's house for years. She is polite to everyone else. Qi Tong said helplessly.
"Her parents have brought her out of the rock mountain for many years, spoiling her every day, everything is going well, and she hasn't warmed her heart. Think about it, how cold her experience is. It would be a curse for such a person to marry home. can't see the kindness of others to her, the difficulties of others, and only thinks about her own feelings. Today is what you said wildly, I still have an attitude, I don't agree! Ding Wei said loudly.
Qi Tong rarely saw his mother angry, and choked for a while.
Qi Tong's father brought hot milk to the two of them and said, "Drink some, slowly; If you have something to say, what is the hurry? Our son is a measured person and will not come nonsense. Son, tell your father, what do you like about Shu Wan? ”
Before Qi Tong could speak, Ding Wei grabbed Bai and said, "What else can there be?" The ghost is confused. ”
Qi Tong smiled and said, "Dad, Mom, Shu Wan and I are nothing-"
"It's too late to wait for anything!" Ding Wei said sharply.
Qi Tong said patiently: "We are talking." Before, you didn't have much in-depth contact with Shu Wan. As the old saying goes, the heart is separated from the belly. What kind of person Shu Wan is, I will only know when we get along. I can pat my chest and assure her that she is a very nice girl. ”
"Very good girl, why haven't you married yet? Are all other men blind? Ding Wei said politely.
"She didn't want to be in a relationship before, so she didn't want to give others a chance. She had a boyfriend for her first time in junior high school, and she only got in touch in the past two years and learned that the man was married. Qi Tong explained.
"You believe what others say, are you stupid?" Ding Wei poked Qi Tong's head with his hand.
"It's true. When I went to her house for the Chinese New Year, I saw the man. Looks polite. Qi Tong said.
"First love is the most unforgettable. How can you guarantee that Shu Wan really let him go? Ding Wei asked.
"Mom, I don't try, how do you know?" Qi Tong said.
"Don't make a fuss all over the city." Ding Wei warned.
"Don't worry, it won't." Homogeneous Guarantee.
"Anyway, I'm really not happy for you to talk to Shu Wan. said that I was not afraid of the two of you laughing at it, and when I saw her, my heart straightened. If you don't eat hard and soft, why don't you make people afraid of such a person? A girl like her, looking very urban, unfathomable. Ding Wei said.
"If you want me to say, you think too much. I think this girl is just an ordinary little girl, but she has a more arrogant personality. You see today's dinner, she responded very politely, and her expression was natural and generous. Qi Tong's father helped speak.
"You, you, when you see a beautiful girl, you feel that you are a match for your son. In your eyes, your son is so unprecedented? Ding Wei shot at Qi Tong's father.
"Hey, hey, this is a disaster for the pond fish. Anyway, my attitude is that I don't support or oppose it. I haven't skimmed the eight characters yet, what are you studying here? Qi Tong's father hurriedly begged for mercy.
"It's too late to wait for a while. Find a little mom for your parents, and you just wait for our chickens and dogs to jump. Ding Wei concluded.
"Mom, you are purely biased against Shu Wan. Where does she look like a shrew? The personality is indeed a little cold, but the basic etiquette is still understood. Qi Tong said.
"I don't say anything else, just have children. Do you think someone like her, who is cold by nature, will have children? If she decides not to have children, will you go along with her? "Ding Wei threw the problem.
"Oh my god, you're thinking too far ahead. I'll be honest with you, I just started talking with Shu Wan. If I really feel that she is a good match for me, even if she does decide not to have children, I will support her. Mom, I know you want to say that there are three unfilial pieties, and no queen is the greatest. But whether it's you, your father, or your grandparents, don't you as elders just want your children and grandchildren to live happily? Whatever has been passed down from generation to generation, from generation to generation, is self-deception. Do you think, can the earth live forever? Does solar energy live forever? Qi Tong pouted.
"Smack!" Ding Wei took a sip of milk and put the milk cup on the coffee table. The milk spilled and wet the table.
"Have you always had this idea, or did Shu Wan pass it on to you? If you can't even do the basic things at the moment, what happiness can you talk about? Can a family be a home if it doesn't have children? So what is the point of getting married? If you don't have children, how will you live with us as a family? Did you let your grandparents go into the coffin with regrets? Ding Wei said angrily.
"Daughter-in-law, that's what our son said. He has had his own ideas since he was a child, and he can't be wrong this time. Qi Tong's father helped.
"Can't be wrong? Can't be wrong, it's more than thirty years old, and there is no object yet? Qi Tong, I'll make it clear to you today. We just see that you have been sensible since childhood, so we want to give you more time. We've been optimistic about your object for a long time. You yourself know that it is the girl from the Guo family. The Guo family and our family are world friends, and the family background also matches our family. Guo Roumei has a gentle personality, soft and rigid. She has been a classmate of you for many years and has liked you for many years. If you want to, if you don't, it's up to her. Ding Wei stood up.
"Mom, don't push me like that! Guo Roumei is good, but emotional matters are not a 'good'. Qi Tong insisted.
"Qi Tong, you are still young and have experienced few things. What is Affection? What is Emotion? Can love be eaten as a meal? Look at your aunt, and then look at your second aunt. Are there still fewer examples around you? Use your brain. Don't take a detour. For men, career is the most important thing. The daughter-in-law, who is knowledgeable and reasonable, and whose mother's family can help, is the most suitable. Shu Wan is capable, but no matter how capable she is, if she becomes a housewife, how can her ability be reflected? Don't tell me that you have to work when you get married. You're so busy at work every day, if she is still working, will your home still be called home? Ding Wei said.
Qi Tong took a deep breath and said, "Mom, don't be angry. I still say the same thing, my marriage, I make my own decisions. I went to bed, and tomorrow there is something to do in the unit, so I need to get up early. ”
"Qi Tong, I still say the same thing, if you dare to pull and pull with Shu Wanla again, I will dare to let her family disappear from Wangcheng!" Ding Wei said loudly.
"Mom, if you dare to make Shu Wan disappear, I dare to let your son disappear!" Qi Tong contended with Mai Mang, said.
After he finished speaking, he got up and left.
"It's the other way around, this woman can't be married! From childhood to adulthood, when did Qi Tong talk to us like this? Ding Wei was so angry that his lungs hurt.