Chapter Eighty-Nine: Mother's View of Love

Yao Yiyue responded happily, and turned around and told Yao Linyi.

Yao Linyi reacted very excitedly and insisted on refusing to let her daughter go out with her classmates. Although she didn't know where her daughter was going to play now, she felt chills down her spine when she thought of what happened to Yao Yiyue in Changbai Mountain.

No matter what Yao Yiyue said, Yao Linyi didn't let go, and forced Yao Yiyue to induce her mother to retreat: "It's okay if you don't go, I'll send them a text message to let them know." I heard that there were five or six people going together, and I didn't know any of them except Zhan Shaoang. It's embarrassing to think about! ”

Yao Linyi was still picking beans in the kitchen, and when she heard her daughter muttering, she ran to the door of her room for fear of hearing it wrong. With a smile on his lips, he asked, "You mean that Zhan Shaoang?" The one we saw that day? Didn't you say you two don't know each other, why do you have to hang out together? ”

A smile came out of the corner of his eyes, and he was surprised by excitement and surprise. Yao Linyi did not hide his emotions in front of his daughter, raised his eyebrows and lowered his voice and asked curiously: "Did you say that he has taken a fancy to you?" I've heard that he's a very introverted kid and doesn't usually have any particularly good friends. ”

Yao Yiyue looked at Yao Linyi in astonishment, and blurted out: "Didn't you say that people like them don't look down on people like us at all, what do you want to do when you know that you can't climb high?" ”

Yao Linyi glanced at her daughter and looked back at her mother-in-law in the kitchen. When I walked into the room and closed the door, I wanted to teach my daughter a lesson. She sat on the edge of Yao Yiyue's bed, and explained with a slow tone and a lovely smile: "Mom has the same attitude now, such people consider many aspects when choosing a marriage partner. We know in our hearts that we can't climb high, but that doesn't mean we won't go to dating. ”

Yao Yiyue thought to herself that maybe she was thinking too much, and the meaning of her mother's words must be different from what I thought. I shouldn't think of her so dirty, what she said must be ordinary interactions to enrich interpersonal relationships.

Who would have thought that Yao Linyi Kan Kan said in the back: "Let me tell you, only your feelings at this time in this life are the most sincere." Because of age and knowledge, no one will be so realistic. Thinking about what is right, thinking about the future, the house. If you like it, you like it, and if you love it, you love it. Do you understand what I mean? ”

Yao Yiyue shook her head and said softly: "I don't understand, I don't understand what you say!" ”

"You kid, why are you so stupid!" Yao Lin was eager to bite her, but he still patiently explained: "I mean, even if this child really likes you, you may not be able to get married together in the future." After all, even if our family has passed the marriage of such a threshold, even if it is helpful to us, the elders over there may not be able to respect you. I'm not the kind of selfish mother, I'm the first thing to do with your happiness. So, I mean, if this kid likes you, you might as well accept him. You talk about a love affair with no result, and early love is destined to be fruitless anyway. ”

Yao Yiyue's heart was full of reaction, and she couldn't understand why it was destined to be fruitless, so just don't start. Although she has never been in a relationship, she also knows that no matter what started the relationship, no matter what happened in between, the final breakup must be the most hurtful and painful.

Yao Linyi saw that her daughter, who had always been smart, was stubborn in this matter. I don't know why she suddenly thought of her sister, who could have had a better choice but married her brother-in-law wholeheartedly. Brother-in-law, in popular words, is a standard phoenix man, very unproductive.

"Don't think that your mother won't teach you well, and don't think that marriage is for feelings." Yao Linyi pursed his lips, got up and opened the door to take a look at his brain. Sure that Grandma Linda was still busy in the kitchen, she closed the door and proceeded to brainwash her daughter.

"Of course, a little girl of your age would think that she would meet a prince charming in this life and live happily ever after. Let me tell you, what is more scarce in this world than gold and diamond rings is true love. You're going to marry someone who likes you, not someone you like. Yao Linyi's words made Yao Yiyue sneer.

"But I look at it, it's obvious that you like Uncle Zang more, why do you have this tone for me." The ridicule on Yao Yiyue's face was hard to hide, and it was more disdainful.

Yao Linyi disagreed, she felt that of course children of this age could only see the surface of things. She waved her hand: "Why did I marry you Uncle Zang, slowly you will understand." Now what I'm going to tell you is your relationship, and you can't ruin the most important thing in your life because of naivety. ”

"That's a bit of a mistake, you still don't understand what I mean. That is to say, no matter how successful your career is in a girl's life, it is a matter of a flash in the pan, and it is better to marry a good husband. Mom is more experienced in this area than you! She used her sister as an example: "Look at my mother and my aunt, do you know what the biggest difference is? ”

Yao Linyi looked out the window impatiently, and didn't answer with a cold face. Yao Linyi said to himself: "It's the economic conditions, right? That's right, she lives like most women. I have a stable job but the income is not too high, and I serve my husband and children after work. In her life, apart from firewood, rice, oil, salt, and laundry, there is nothing else to do in her life, except for washing clothes and cooking. She was proud when the child was born, and she was happy when her husband's salary was raised. But you have to be clear, my child, if your sister makes a lot of money, that's fine. If she is as unproductive as her mother, and she still gnaws at the old, what do you say your aunt means? Besides, she puts all her hopes on your brother-in-law, if he can be promoted, what is the future of being a petty civil servant for the rest of his life? One day, she was promoted and made a fortune and kicked your aunt, who did she cry to? ”

Yao Yiyue stared at her mother and sighed: "The problem is marrying a rich man, is this a higher probability?" Could it be that my aunt would not have divorced if she had found a rich man to marry? When you married my dad, you were young and beautiful and you were a stepmother for ten years. Didn't I get knocked out in the end? ”

Yao Linyi raised her eyebrows and said to her daughter: "But I got the money, right." Fu Sinian gave me a house, gave me shares, and gave me a lot of contacts. Although we are divorced, the network resources will not disappear because of the failure of my marriage. You said that I, an ordinary person with an average family background, was able to do this in such a short period of time. Do you think I could have done it without the help of your dad and his friends? ”

Yao Yiyue said goodbye to her face, and Yao Linyi said again: "At the beginning, your aunt was beautiful and had a college diploma, and there were many people chasing after her buttocks. How many rich people I introduced to her, your aunt didn't even look at them. Just take a good look at your unproductive little brother-in-law. Let's not talk about his family conditions, you can see the facts there. Let's just say that your brother-in-law is not eloquent, his brain is not bright, and his personality is crooked, so you ask him to do something. Such a person can only be a small clerk for a lifetime, and he will die in the Qingshui Yamen. ”

She said a lot of her brother-in-law's no, Yao Yiyue couldn't help muttering: "You don't look down on others, and people don't look down on you either." I've listened a lot since I was a child, and my sister-in-law just doesn't dare to let my sister have more contact with you. I'm afraid that I will be taught badly by you. ”

Yao Linyi glared: "He knows a fart, so I found an old divorce, what's wrong." I changed my fate through marriage, and there is nothing wrong with that. He is tall and upright, why can't his wife be reluctant to buy a bottle of lotion for more than 300 yuan? No matter how bad I am, I give my children the best living environment. Can his daughter compare to you? ”

Speaking of this, Yao Linyi also saw that her daughter was already quite impatient, so she simply said: "Mom will always think about you, you have to know that I will not hurt you." Since you go out with Zhan Shaoang, let's go. ”

Yao Yiyue sighed in her heart, not knowing whether to be happy or sad. Whether it is Zhan Shaoang or Fan Chenyi, as long as the family behind them is very corrupt, no matter what the character of these people is, it is not within the scope of her consideration. In the eyes of my mother, the value of wealth is equivalent to the value of character.

Poverty is the root of all evil, so in her eyes, all crime comes from lack of money. The poor have no character to speak of, because they don't even deserve dignity.

Yao Yiyue knew that these words would rot in her stomach for a lifetime, and she used to hear others chewing their tongues behind her back, and she always excused her mother in her heart. She thinks that those people are just jealous of Yao Linyi's good-looking and money-making ability, if her parents' marriage is a transaction, then why did the two become friends after the divorce.

But when I followed her, I listened to her intentional suggestions and ears. Yao Yiyue herself began to wonder what the marriage itself was for.

Now hearing Yao Linyi's words, she can't tell what it feels like in her heart. Maybe she's too young, or maybe the world is so grey.

At dinner, Yao Linyi told everyone that Yao Yiyue was going to go out with her classmates for a few days. Zang Ke immediately asked: "Why don't you bring your sister, she knows how to watch TV at home every day after the high school entrance examination." The people who go out with you are all good students, and you can educate her a lot. ”

When Linda heard this, she thought it was a tutoring camp, so she quickly shook her head and said, "I'm not going!" ”

Yao Yiyue couldn't be willing to take her, and said with a bitter face: "This is really not good, because I don't know where to go." But we're an explorer, something like that kind of escape room or something. Linda is not good at it, but when the trip is delayed, everyone can't have fun. ”

Anyone can hear this, although Linda is unhappy, she still can't keep quiet. She didn't want to praise Yao Yiyue, and besides, since she went out, of course she would find someone who was compatible to play with.

"I think too, children have their own ideas. Where Linda wants to go, think about it these days. Before school starts, I also go out for a walk to see the world. Yao Linyi clapped his hands and said, the children at home are like this, a bowl of water should be level.