Chapter 225 Cool, It's Just One Word (For Last Month's Pink Ticket)
Anping is a feminist, and most of the divorce cases she has handled in recent years have been divorces, so she often educates those female protagonists, telling them to be strong and independent, and telling them that they can live without men; Now that it happened to her, she realized that it was far from being as simple as opening her mouth to say it, and that the pain was really going to knock her down. But a lie can become true even if it is told a hundred times, so An Ping can immediately choose a "correct" approach, which is even more than her usual opinion.
However, it doesn't mean that she won't be in pain, she won't be bitter, and she won't be angry; It's just that when there are many people, she can only stand up and be a strong woman, and she can't beat herself in the mouth; But as soon as Shen Yiyi and the others left, after the room was empty, she suddenly found that her emotions could not be suppressed, if she couldn't burst out and hurt Lin Hao, she would really hurt herself: naturally she wanted to hurt Lin Hao.
That's why she beat Lin Hao, she can't get angry if she doesn't beat her, and the pain if she doesn't beat her can't be relieved.
An Ping and Lin Hao have been married for more than seven years, plus they have been together for eight or nine years with Lin Hao's acquaintance; Although she is secretly married, she does not love Lin Hao, although she focuses on her career, she does not forget her family, she just thinks that she has time and life can be taken slowly. Today she learned that no man is willing to wait for you all the time and take his time with you, as long as he has the opportunity and the right person, he will turn around and walk away.
She is a professional woman, and she has always been proud of the fact that she has never lost herself because of marriage, which is what she said the most to those divorced female owners: women can't just revolve around the family, women must have their own careers, and women can't lose their individuality; She really thought she was doing a good job, but she didn't think that she had already lost her husband's heart.
Anping has always thought that he knows very well those men who are looking for a junior and a second wife, everyone is on the grounds that his wife at home is tasteless, unable to communicate with him synchronously and has lost a common language, only knows how to do housework and take care of children, verbosity, etc., and they all blame the old wife in the family so much for their favorite lover - accuse the old wife who gave everything for him and centered on him.
All the men say that and she knows it's an excuse. Those men don't deserve forgiveness; But she also thinks that those wives are also responsible, so why should they dedicate themselves completely to the small family? So she thinks she's doing a good job, so she secretly uses herself as an example to educate those female masters, and it's not until today that she finds out how greedy the scumbags are. Those excuses are really complete excuses, shameless excuses to whitewash yourself and pour dirty water on your old wife.
She has a job but she doesn't care about her family at all, she remembers all the holidays and Lin Hao's family's birthdays, and will be as romantic as possible when she gets along with Lin Hao every month, hoping that love can be kept fresh; And when she married Lin Hao, Lin Hao's family was just average, Lin Hao's career had just started, and half of everything that their husband and wife had now was her contribution: she didn't pay less than Lin Hao.
And she gives as much to her parents as she gives to Lin Hao's parents, but she has no brothers and sisters, but she still won't forget Lin Hao's brothers and sisters: for so many years. The things she bought for Lin Hao's family - such as the electrical appliances in Lin Hao's parents' house, Lin Hao's sister's jewelry, Lin Hao's brother's wedding furniture, etc., are all a lot of money.
She asked herself if she was not a traditional virtuous wife, but she was not a hard and cold strong woman who completely ignored her family and ignored Lin Hao's feelings; But Lin Hao still changed his mind, just because of her career, just because she wanted to have a child two years later.
Look, this is a scumbag: if the wife in the family is virtuous, he will dislike that there is only one home in her eyes. will only revolve around the stove, disconnected from society, and unable to synchronize with him; If the wife in the family is a successful career, then he will dislike her for not caring enough for himself. Not enough to take care of the family - in short, there will always be aesthetic fatigue when the husband and wife live together, and the man puts all the fault on his wife, and then pretends to be pitiful to complain to his confidante.
Lin Hao raised his head at this time: "Anping, I know I'm sorry for you, but you know how much I like children, and you also know how much I hope that when I go home, there will be a light at home for me, and there will be delicious, steaming meals on the table!" To this day, I am at fault, but Anping you should also review yourself. Otherwise, even if you get married again in the future, it will still not end well. I'm not cursing you, I'm just judging things by facts. "He is not without anger when he is beaten again.
An Ping was angry for a while, and his body trembled; It is true that she is wrong, but this kind of thing is not what Lin Hao should say, and she really doesn't know that as a woman, she wants to satisfy a man. How to master this degree! If you take care of your family too much, men will be annoyed; As long as you are a professional woman, you have to take it seriously, and there will be a lot of troubles and disputes at work, so naturally you have to pay a lot of energy, and the man will say that you don't know the Gu family.
Why, not men to master this degree? Why, this must be the woman's fault?! How unfair, how ridiculously divergent, but even the original she thought it was right.
Zishan's face changed: "Lin Hao, you shut up for me." Actually, I really don't want to say anything to you, because when I divorced Feng Dayong, I didn't say anything right or wrong to him, because there was no need for that; But today you make me look down on me too much, as a man, you have not fulfilled your responsibilities, and you have to beat me up? โ
"What do you mean that there is also Anping's fault?" Her eyes turned slightly red: "It's the woman's fault that women don't work, because women who don't work are too ignorant; It is also the woman's fault that a woman works, because she doesn't care about her family! What is you right about, what is wrong with us being women? โ
Lin Hao didn't expect Zishan's reaction to be so strong: "Zishan, I didn't mean that; If Anping doesn't hide her marriage, if she is willing to have children.'...."
Zishan sat up: "Don't make any excuses for yourself!" You promised to get married, and you promised to get married, so who do you blame now? Don't say anything about how your wife is - Anping's current feminist lawyer is well-known, and you Barrister Lin don't want people to know that this woman, who is very unpopular in the men's circle, is your wife, right? โ
"What are you doing with so much nonsense, it's just that you men are tired of the wives in front of you, and you will always find an excuse anyway; Can a woman come out to work to satisfy a man? Ha, joke. If a woman's work is not good and she can't make achievements, you men will definitely look down on her, and you don't know how to be considerate and complain that women don't care about their families - it's better to just go home and take care of the children with that little money! But if you really want to go home and revolve around your children and you, you have to think that women are out of touch with society! โ
"If a woman does a good job and earns a lot, then you men can blame her for being too busy with work and not caring for her family, and not having children for the sake of career advancementโwe are women, and we are determined to delay time in order to have children, unlike you men who don't have to pay anything for children; A woman giving birth to a child is in danger of her life, even if medicine is developed now, but women are still more dangerous than you men who may die during childbirth! โ
"Men don't have to have children, so their careers can be done consistently, but as long as a woman takes maternity leave, she will already be a hundred years old! All the hard work has become a stepping stone for others, and who knows about this hardship? Other people don't know and don't understand it, but their husbands can't understand it, and they use this as an excuse to accuse their wives, do you men have a conscience? Anping just wants to have a child two years later - otherwise, if Lin Hao can give birth, you will exchange your career prospects, are you willing to give birth now?! You won't give birth, so I ask you what's wrong with her? โ
Zishan really didn't vomit or be unhappy, and the dissatisfaction that was pressed in her heart came out; She had heard all kinds of remarks after the divorce, even those who sympathized with her, including some women, accused her of being wrong, if she hadn't given everything to that little family, how could she lose Feng Dayong's heart?
But there are thousands of families in Bluewater City, and there are thousands of women who give everything for their families, why aren't their men like Feng Dayong? The root of it is that Feng Dayong is a scumbag, not that there is anything wrong with her Zishan.
"Also, what if women come out to work and earn more than you men? You will lose face, feel that you can't hold your head up in front of others, feel that your wife has made you lose face in front of friends and relatives, and the so-called husband is not good - this is also a reason for cheating. In short, what you do is wrong for a woman, as long as you meet a scumbag and unfortunately marry him as a wife, then it is your fault whether you work or not, whether you work well or not. โ
Zishan snorted fiercely: "It's your fault, don't put it on our heads; We didn't do anything wrong, Feng Dayong was able to work hard because he needed all my efforts. And Anping is not the same, you work together to have the life you now have a house, a car and money! If you dare to say a word again, it's our fault as a wife, see if we don't peel off your lawyer Lin and let the world see your true face. โ
She scolded quickly and quickly, and after scolding, her mouth was a little dry, and she stretched out her hand to Jiang Tao: "Water." Although she was a little breathless, after scolding, she felt that the blocked breath in her heart had finally disappeared, just one word: cool!
Chu Xiang was excited: "That's it, that is, what's wrong with us, how a family can survive the storms in life, it always requires two people to work together, and they have to work together; Well, halfway through us, the man was tired of us, but he didn't want to think about how he was today without me. His failure today is because he has no ability, and his success today has half of our credit, because we have given wholeheartedly and done everything we should and can do for that family. โ
Jiang Tao listened dumbfounded, and he didn't react until Chu Xiang finished speaking, and Zishan stretched out his hand again before he went to pour water, but obviously his mind was not on the water; He wasn't frightened by any remarks, but he was shocked by Zishan's excitement and expression, well, and a little excited: Zishan, it turned out that he was still the person he saw on the pedestrian street.
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