Chapter 221: Premarital phobia
"Then mother, can my son ask more?"
Mu Jinyu wanted to know how her mother thought about this matter.
"What do you want to ask, my mother knows very well, let's let my mother ask you first, do you want me to be with your father?"
"Hmm." Mu Jinyu nodded heavily.
The son naturally hopes that his mother can be with his father, but if his mother feels that he is not happy with his father, his son will not force his mother to be with his father. After all, it is not easy for the mother to make her son recognize his father, so the son is already very content. ”
"My mother knows, and my mother will think about this matter carefully. Go, go to bed, it's not early, you still have to get up early tomorrow to go to school, don't go to bed too late. ”
Mu Ran dyed and finished Mu Jinyu's clothes, then took his hand and went to his room.
On the way, she looked at Mu Jinyu's side face and thought, perhaps, she should really think about this issue seriously.
After sending Mu Jinyu back to the house to sleep, Mu Ran couldn't sleep because she was thinking about something, so she simply came out for a walk.
The bright moon was hanging high outside, Jin Yu was flashing in the night sky, Mu Ran looked up and looked quietly, looking at it, she smiled lightly.
"What? Can't sleep? ”
A voice suddenly sounded in his ears, and Mu Ran turned around and saw that it was Nangong Chuli, but he was a little surprised.
"Why haven't you slept at this hour? Can't you sleep too? ”
"Well, I can't sleep." Nangong Chuli admitted very dryly.
"Why can't I sleep? Something on your mind? ”
Looking at Nangong Chuli, who had never been heartless, but now there was a look of trouble, Mu Ran asked with concern.
Nangong Chuli hesitated for a while, and then said: "I actually don't know why I can't sleep, the more I get to the date of getting married, the more uneasy I feel in my heart, and I am not at all steady." ”
"Dyeing, you said that my family business was set since I was a child, and I also know very well in my heart that I will definitely marry Qingqing in the future. However, lately, I have been very panicked and uneasy, and I have suddenly become uncertain about the future. His statement is very similar to the symptoms of premarital phobia, of course, there is another possibility.
"Nangong Chuli, tell me honestly, do you have a crush on other girls?"
"Fancy another girl? How is it possible, I have been with Qingqing every day these days, how can I have time to meet other girls. Nangong Chuli categorically vetoed.
"I think, you misunderstood what I meant, I'm not saying whether you know other girls recently, but in your heart, are you thinking about other girls, not Tang Qingqing."
Mu Ran touched the location of the guide palace Chu Li's heart.
"Heart? How can there be any other girl, if you want to say that I want to be a good girl to her, it is you and Qingqing, except for the two of you, I have never had a good impression of other girls. ”
As soon as Nangong Chuli said this, Mu Ran was a little frightened.
"Nangong Chuli, don't say it, you, you-"
"Where do you want to go, Dye, I'm good to you, but that's because you're my good friend, and you're good buddies with me, not what you think."
"It's okay, it's okay, you don't know, what you just said scared me."
Mu Ran didn't want to see Tang Qingqing's whip again.
"I really don't know what to say about you, you're too daring. Besides, what's there to be afraid of, Qingqing also knows that you and I have a good relationship, and she won't misunderstand anything. ”
Nangong Chuli somewhat despised Mu Ranran's guts, but Mu Ran glared at Nangong Chuli speechlessly.
Where does this guy understand the thoughts of the girl's family, especially a woman in love, the heart eye is as small as the eye of a needle.
Although she and him are really pure friends, it is hard to guarantee that Qingqing's girl will be jealous.
This is really easy to understand, if she is Tang Qingqing's position, seeing that her man is so good to other girls, she will definitely feel uncomfortable.
"Let me tell you, Nangong Chuli, you really can't think like this, you really can't think like this."
"What do you mean?"
"The more she cares about your woman, the more she will be in your heart, and the more she will suffer from gains and losses, even if she knows that you have nothing special to do with other girls, but if you are close to other girls, she will still taste it, understand?" Mu Ran said this, changed his way of thinking and said: "In this way, I'll make an analogy, if there is a very good and outstanding man now, he revolves around Qingqing every day, and is busy for Qingqing, you see it, how will you feel?" ”
"How is that possible, Qingqing is my woman, which man who doesn't want to die dares to go around Qingqing, the master can't spare him first." Nangong Chuli said angrily.
"Look, I just made an analogy and you're annoyed. Think about what you do on weekdays, can you understand why Qingqing's girl is like this? ”
"But I, but I haven't been nice to other girls before, and I'm a little nicer to you as a friend, isn't that okay? In my opinion, since we are friends, if you are in trouble, isn't it a matter of course that I will help you? Nangong Chuli was confused.
"You're right, but have you told Qingqing what you really think?"
Nangong Chuli shook his head.
"No, right, it's because you have never told Qingqing what you think in your heart, Qingqing, as a girl, will definitely think more, your behavior makes her feel uneasy, so she will be suspicious. And if you tell her what you really think, then she will be relieved, and at ease, there will be no such problem as doubt. ”
"Is that so?" Nangong Chuli whispered.
"That's it, listen to me, absolutely. I'm a woman too, and women understand women, so you'd better be fine. Mu Ran said with a smile.
"It's okay, when I have the opportunity one day, I will talk to Qingqing about what I think in my heart."
Nangong Chuli knew that Mu Ranran's thoughts and concepts were always a little different from this era, but they were so reasonable, naturally, he was convinced.
"It's good that you think so. By the way, how do you feel now? Do you feel better? Mu Ran asked.
"It's better than just now, but I still don't know the bottom of my heart, I've never been so uneasy before, but now I'm inexplicably flustered, dyed, you know so much, do you know why?"
"It's actually quite normal for you to be so uneasy. Speaking of which, you are a premarital phobia. ”
Mu Ran was sure that Nangong Chuli had no one else in his heart, so he could conclude that Nangong Chuli's uneasiness was due to this reason.
"What does premarital phobia mean? Is this a new word? ”
"To put it simply, it is a person who transitions from one state to another, and has uncertainty about the state of change, which produces feelings of unease, panic, and helplessness."
In other words, you are unmarried, you are free, you are chic, you have things you like to do, you have your own dreams, and you are working hard to achieve your goals. But in the process of this, your state suddenly changes. You have to have one more person in your life, a person who will be with you for a lifetime, and there may be children for you in the future, this state of change, because you are not sure, because you are not confident in yourself, so you will be flustered and restless. ”
As soon as Mu Ran said this, Nangong Chuli immediately stared at her.
"Dye, how can you know so much, what you said is very much in line with my current situation, I may indeed be so uneasy about possible changes in the future."
"You're so right, you're really good. Sometimes I really wonder what books you have read, and it feels as if you have read a lot of books, and those books are things that I have never read. ”
"How did you suddenly have such an idea?"
Isn't this guy quite simple, when did he feel so sharp?
"I don't know, anyway, I just think that the books you have read are not the same as the books I have read, otherwise, why do you say those truths, I have never heard them. Don't tell me that you have learned all the great truths yourself, I don't believe it. ”
"Hey, hey, Nangong Chuli, am I that bad? Aren't people like me like people who can understand great truths? Mu Ran glanced at Nangong Chuli.
"If you really realized those great truths yourself, you don't need to add a source to the end of the sentence."
"Listen to you, have you peeked at me practicing * characters?" Mu Ran looked at Nangong Chuli unhappily.
"Don't look at me like that, I didn't peek at you practicing * characters, but I accidentally saw the waste paper you discarded, and I just picked it up casually with some curiosity."
Nangong Chuli argued in a low voice, and besides, he happened to like the two sentences on the waste paper, so he gave them to Qingqing.
"Also, dyeing, I wrote the two sentences you wrote on the waste paper and gave them to Qingqing."
"What kind of sentence are they?"
Mu Ran looked at Nangong Chuli in amazement, I really didn't know that this guy would borrow flowers to offer Buddha.
"It's nothing, that's it, if this relationship is long, how can it be in the morning and twilight."
"Okay, your brain is all used on this, then Qingqing should be very happy to receive these two sentences."
"Well, I'm very happy, but she thought I created it, and she was so happy to receive it at that time, I forgot to say it. So if that author jumps out, I don't know if it will cause you trouble. If you're really in trouble, let me know when the time comes, and I'll explain it to you. ”
Nangong Chuli assured, but Mu Ran shook his head with a smile and said, "It's okay, don't worry, the author who wrote these two poems has passed away, and he won't jump out to trouble me." ”