Chapter 438: The last thing they need is sympathy
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Until the New Year's goods were sent and lunch was over, Ruan Mianmian was in a daze.
In her mind, she kept replaying the embarrassed and aggrieved look on Hao Yingying's face, and the people around her were terrified, afraid that Hao Yingying would annoy the president's wife.
What Ruan Mianmian didn't understand was that when she knew that Hao Yingying had a speech disability, she was shocked, why she began to speak for Hao Yingying unconsciously in her heart and behavior.
She overlooks that it is this apparent help that hurts the self-esteem of people with disabilities even more.
"What do you think?" Fu Ting snapped his fingers in front of Ruan Mianmian, he held the cub with one hand, and while eating elegantly, he fed the baby meal in front of him to Fu Qian.
Ruan Mianmian came back to her senses, and pulled the food on the plate without energy.
"Do you know that Hao Yingying has a speech barrier?" Ruan Mianmian asked, a trace of confusion flashed on her delicate and delicate face.
When Fu Ting heard this, his eating movements stiffened, and then he asked gently, "Who is Hao Yingying?" โ
Ruan Mianmian: ...
Seeing his wife's speechless face, Fu Ting hurriedly made up for it and asked, "Do you mean the last female employee today?" โ
Ruan Mianmian nodded, biting the spoon, full of chagrin.
"I feel like I did something wrong today." Ruan Mianmian bit her lip and said, she put it on the spoon weakly, and her delicate little face was full of regret.
Fu Ting, who watched it, was distressed.
Throwing the baby into the child seat on the side, he walked to Ruan Mianmian's side and half-squatted down, and pinched her face with his big hand.
"What's wrong? Kindness? Fu Tingze's voice was like moonlight falling on a country road, gentle like a layer of white veil caressing his face.
Listening to Fu Tingze's gentle voice, Ruan Mianmian felt more and more that she had done something wrong.
"I scolded that little grandson today, do you think Hao Yingying will be bullied by them?" Ruan Mianmian asked.
Fu Ting frowned slightly, although he couldn't understand what his wife was saying, but he roughly understood the meaning of this passage.
"Why do you think that?" Fu Ting asked.
Ruan Mianmian looked down at Fu Tingze, her eyes were soft, and her long hair was draped behind her, covering her sharpness.
"Hao Yingying is a special group, she can't speak, and she can only swallow it in her stomach when she is wronged. She can't sue, she can't complain. Ruan Mianmian said in a low voice.
Fu Ting heard what she meant and understood what she meant.
He stretched out his big hand and touched Ruan Mianmian's little face, and then said softly: "If you look at her with special eyes, you will naturally feel that she will be bullied." In fact, you're looking at her with pity. โ
Ruan Mianmian was stunned and didn't react for a long time.
She came back to her senses, looked at Fu Tingze cutely, and then asked slowly, "You... When you hear that she is a person with a speech disability, don't you have any special thoughts in your heart? โ
Fu Ting shook his head decisively and said, "As long as she can do her job and complete it on time or overdue, I will treat the rest equally." Whether she can speak or not is not directly proportional to her ability. โ
Even sometimes without talking, only doing things, you can exceed the quota and complete your own work perfectly.
Ruan Mianmian was stunned when she heard this.
She didn't have Fu Tingze's psychology at all, she was just thinking about how to make herself look more natural, but she forgot that this kind of contrived naturalness was obvious in Hao Yingying's eyes.
"Won't you sympathize with them?" Ruan Mianmian asked, her eyes clouded with a layer of haze.
Fu Ting shook his head, got up and rubbed Ruan Mianmian's head, and then returned to his seat.
While feeding Fu Qian's children, he answered Ruan Mianmian's question: "Your problem is that you sympathize with them. Squish, you see, the last thing they need is sympathy. โ
When Ruan Mianmian heard this, he was immediately stunned, and Fu Tingze's words were like a slap in the face, awakening Ruan Mianmian's wrong cognition in the past.
"More than anyone else, they want people to treat them properly, and they probably hate the strange, caring look you look at. For them, these are heavy mental baggage. Fu Ting analyzed rationally.
Fu Ting is rational because he has lived abroad for a long time, and no one in a foreign country will treat people with disabilities specially, they can take what they need in life, and they don't need too many people to help them live.
Each building has the right to use it, for example, the elevator has a special button for the disabled, the blind road on the road is always for the blind, and there is a special instruction carving for the blind in the elevator.
All of this has led to the ability of people with disabilities living abroad to take care of themselves.
But it's not the same in China.
There are always cars or sundries on the blind road, there are no special buttons in the elevator, and even some large shopping malls have no passage for the disabled to enter and exit.
When they go out, they will always be followed by 1-2 adults to help them carry them in and out.
This is inherently unfair.
Fu Tingze's words gave Ruan Mianmian a huge reminder. And she also understood from this time that the most important thing is to treat special groups normally.
"What you say seems to make sense." Ruan Mianmian said.
Fu Ting chuckled, made a gesture of gratitude in return, and said softly: "It is my honor to be recognized by Editor-in-Chief Ruan." โ
"In that case, you're going to pay for this meal." Ruan Mianmian said.
Fu Tingze: ...
I was just kidding...
...
Fu Tingze's words were full of philosophy, which made Ruan Mianmian grow a little more.
In life, we may often encounter people with disabilities, and you can't deny that you will see them several times.
Then, it was this "more look" that hurt them alive.
Do you find that they look at you in a dodgy way? Because they are afraid of everyone's love or strange eyes.
They long to live with a smile in the sun, but they are always bound by the words "love" and "help", and are even forced to live on the moral high ground.
Of course, love and help are the mentality of the majority, but what is even more terrifying is the sarcastic mentality of the minority.
...
After sending the New Year's goods to the employees, there is only half a month before the New Year.
In mid-January, the annual meeting of the Fu Group began.
The venue was set up in Haitian Hotel, and the three large private rooms were specially opened, and this annual meeting was held with the theme of "masquerade".
Where there's a misunderstanding, there's someone you don't want to meet.
Soon after the president and the president's wife appeared, Nangela and Ruan Sisi also arrived at the scene.
Squeezed in front of Fu Tingze from the crowd, Nange was dressed as Snow White, which was in obvious contrast with the costume of Ruan Sisi Witch next to him.
"Brother Ze, this year's annual meeting is very good! This theme is definitely what you're thinking about! Nange excitedly.
Dressed as Snow White, she is exceptionally beautiful and simple.
Fu Ting didn't speak, Ruan Mianmian next to him pulled the corners of his mouth and said, "I'm sorry, it's my aunt and grandmother who I thought." โ
When Nange heard this, the expression on his face suddenly turned bad.
And Ruan Sisi didn't speak from beginning to end, pursing her lips all the time. There is no domineering at the beginning, and there is no arrogance in the middle.
She tried her best to narrow down her presence in front of Fu Erye.
[Author's digression]: I hope that this plot can make everyone look at the disabled with normal eyes, don't stop looking, don't pity your eyes.