Chapter 175: Be a man, don't be a silk flower

"Not to mention that your mother came to work in my workshop because she was just right, that is, she has been working with me for so long, and I can see how diligent she is,"

"So, there's nothing I can't help, and now these are what your mother deserves by her own efforts."

Qi Ling slowly said word by word.

The reason why she wants to be so serious is because she feels that Chengzi should not put all the credit on herself.

From his eyes, Qi Ling could feel the kind of gratitude and respect he had for himself, and even some curiosity.

Xu is because Chengzi is a child who rarely goes out to see people, and he has no dealings with people, and his eyes are exceptionally clean.

The little emotions contained in it are undoubted and clear.

Seeing these clear eyes, Qi Ling was moved by his pure heart.

But moved to moved, Qi Ling felt that he should still explain things clearly, and he couldn't blindly respond to the identity of this "savior".

Since she came to this time and space, she has changed her mind, and if she is poor, she will be good alone, and if she is good, she will help the world.

I decided to do something on my own, at least to benefit the people around me, to help them change their current lives and live a better life.

But with this kind of help, Qi Ling didn't want to put himself in a noble place.

The kind of help she wants to exert is a "guide"-like existence, helping these backward villagers to find their own value, and then work hard for it.

It is to provide them with a guide, but the rest of the way is up to them.

So Qi Ling didn't want everyone to help, what helped them all the way to the end, in the end, she was not a "virgin cancer".

Just like the kind of social welfare system that people often caricature in modern times, the original intention is to help people.

But the result is that on the one hand, it does benefit many people with poor conditions, but it also raises a lot of people who sit on the mountain and eat nothing.

In Europe, for example, the social welfare system is arguably the highest priority in the world, but every year there are lawsuits and news about it.

It is the young man who is physically strong and relies on social support, has nothing to do, wanders around the house, and has no pursuit at all.

On the one hand, he kept applying for various subsidies from the government, and on the other hand, he simply did not do anything at all, and he did not even have the idea of looking for a job.

Are such people rare? It's really a lot, when Qi Ling used to take the subway to work every day, he would always meet "Isn't this the kind of person a professional beggar?"

What do you mean by a "professional beggar"?

It's just a person who is dressed very brightly and is very healthy, but the only job is to hang a sign around his neck and let others scan the code to give him some money to live.

And their name is still very good, what kind of "start-up fund" is just a gimmick.

The people who were in a hurry on the subway were some office workers and student parties, and some of them were impatient, so they turned around in three or two.

In this way, at the end of the day, they can have a fast income of several hundreds, indeed, this money may be more than some people earn at work, but Qi Ling really spurns these people.

All their lives, they have fixed themselves in a position of "begging", like silk flowers, and they need to rely on others forever to survive.

But to be a man, you can't be a silk flower!

Qi Ling felt that the first thing to make clear was that those who want others to save must first save themselves.

What do you mean?

For example, some people who have lived a very hard life really need help from others, but they themselves must have the idea of working hard, which is the so-called self-help.

So what she likes most on weekdays is the kind of person who is very active and working hard even if her current life is not good.

For such a person, helping them, Qi Ling felt very good.

is like Aunt Zhao, Aunt Liu, and Tian Lazi, although life always sets a lot of problems for them.

But in the face of these problems, they were not defeated because of this, but gritted their teeth and worked hard to get through their lives.

This is the person Qi Ling really wants to help.

Listening to Qi Ling's words, Chengzi's eyes were a little confused, and he still didn't understand these words.

But because of his personality, he didn't argue with Qi Ling, but just memorized these words in his heart first, and decided to think about them slowly after he went back.

Qi Ling looked at him so well-behaved, his heart moved, and he said a few more words.

"Chengzi, if you don't want to rely on the help of others for the rest of your life, you still have to become strong yourself."

"When you become strong, your mother can be blessed by you, you have to know that you are strong is really strong."

"I heard Aunt Liu say that she wants to send you to study, what are your plans?"

Hearing Qi Ling talk about reading, Chengzi's eyes lit up and he nodded.

"I want to study, I heard from my husband that when I am admitted to Xiucai, my family will not have to pay the land tax, and I can also have food every year, and I can open a school and be a gentleman."

Qi Ling smiled slightly after hearing this, and spoke.

"Then you didn't expect to continue to work hard after being admitted to Xiucai?"

"After being admitted to Xiucai? So what else can I do, listen to my former husband say, after Xiucai, there can only be a few people in a continent, so it can't be my turn. ”

The small private school where Chengzi studied before was opened by an old Xiucai in a nearby village.

This old Xiucai was admitted to Xiucai when he was in his twenties, and after many years, he was already in his fifties and sixties, but he didn't touch the edge of lifting.

So one of the things he said the most was that reading and being admitted to the show was already a breakthrough.

If you want to go back again, it will have to be a fate like Wen Quxing. So ordinary people must not have this idea.

After being brainwashed by him for a long time, Chengzi felt that his greatest wish was to be admitted to a showman, and he didn't dare to think about anything else.

But what Qi Ling has to do at this time is to let him have this idea, he, a child, will know that there will be great things in the future at a glance.

Why Qi Ling is so sure, she doesn't know, anyway, her intuition is that this child will not be an ordinary person in the future.

Because of this determination, Qi Ling seems to have made him take a long-term view from the beginning.

Don't take being admitted to Xiucai as your ultimate goal at the beginning, so that your eyelids will be a little shallow.

After all, as the old saying goes: take the law from above, only get it, take the law from it, and take care of it.

What does this mean, that is, human goals must be set more ambitiously.