The corners of Chu Nan's mouth twitched, but then again, what happened just now was indeed a little boring for himself.

Seeing that he didn't speak, Leng Ruyan continued: "You just need to remember this, you can't change it, you can take your time." Now that you have not fully integrated into the family, you will later realize how naïve you used to be. ”

Chu Nan shook his head, "I'm such a person, I don't think that if I see more in the future, there will be any changes." ”

He then added, "But what you said just now, you are right, I will pay attention to it later." ”

Leng Ruyan was noncommittal, and said: "That woman, can it be broken or broken, Jiang Xue is good, that woman, there is no need." If you need a woman, you can go to the family women if you have the ability, as long as you have the ability, they are not only like flowers, but also have a better personality than ordinary women, more gentle, more virtuous, and more importantly, they will not be jealous, they can allow you to have other women, as long as you have the ability. ”

Chu Nan didn't refute her, she knew that it was useless to refute, the daughters of the Leng family were actually quite stubborn.

"How do you know that the women of the family will not care?" After all, they are all women, and they are all in this era, and they have all experienced modern education, Chu Nan will not think that people still have feudal thoughts, and it is right to think that men have lovers.....

Leng Ruyan chuckled: "It's very simple, they have a long-term vision and are more mature than ordinary women." ”

Chu Nan smiled, what kind of logic is this, the heart is stronger to this extent, and it is more mature?

Leng Ruyan looked at him and said: "You must know that the problems left over by historical inertia are very far-reaching, especially for our families, and the inclusiveness of women is far beyond your imagination." ”

Chu Nan does not deny this, women do have tolerance beyond men's imagination, but this tolerance is only in a certain aspect, and it is getting smaller and smaller.

"I ask you, what men do ordinary women like to find now?"

Chu Nan got up and went to pour tea, "Of course you are rich, powerful, good-looking, and ambitious, and by the way, there are those who are stronger than yourself." ”

"Then do you know why the divorce rate of your young people is getting higher and higher?"

Chu Nan scratched his head, this question was too complicated, he didn't think about it, "Maybe people lack tolerance and patience now." ”

Leng Ruyan shrugged his shoulders and said with a smile: "Isn't this enough, the gap has come out." Many women go in this direction, and the probability of cheating is bound to be high. If you have money, power, and good looks, there is a high chance that you will have all kinds of time, all kinds of money, and all kinds of capital to go out to waste. Those who are enterprising are very likely to abandon other emotions for the sake of their careers and their own interests. If you're stronger than yourself, there's a good chance that you won't be able to stand that you're worse than him. On the one hand, today's women can't see themselves clearly, can't sort themselves out, on the other hand, they still want these and that, and what's worse is that they actually lose their tolerance and patience. Divorce is normal, because they are looking for a marriage partner who is very different from them. ”

Chu Nan didn't react for a while, and looked at her blankly.

Leng Ruyan shook her head, "Let's put it this way, since a woman chooses a partner in the direction of a divorce, she doesn't want to divorce her partner in the future." This is obviously a thing that goes in the opposite direction. The problem is that they can't figure out their own, and their positioning is confused. As the old saying goes, the door is right. This is the best meaning of marriage. Of course, it's not that you can't do anything else, for example, you don't have the idea of being a man, and you're willing to get into it, so even if you and my sister are like that, our Leng family won't say anything about you, you and my sister are at most conflicting in some things, but there is no contradiction, and these ordinary women, they are looking for men who are stronger than themselves, but after marriage, they want to be like this, that, and they don't know how to converge. Hehe, it's strange if a man doesn't cheat and divorce. ”

After a pause, Leng Ruyan said again: "On the other hand, most of the women in our family do not have this kind of problem, because everyone is the right person, even if they are not the right person, they can also figure out their own positioning." For example, if you like the strong, those women generally don't care how many women there are in the man, maybe in your opinion, they are not smart, but stupid. But being full of love and being in a family is no longer a superficial thing, they clearly know what they have chosen, so they have thought of the consequences long before they choose. If you can't accept it, you will quit early and give up your pursuit. People are self-aware, Chu Nan, do you understand?"

Chu Nan looked at Leng Ruyan in a daze, he didn't expect Leng Ruyan to be able to tell himself such a big reason, but I have to say that this one is correct.

Isn't it just blindness in many marriages nowadays?

Leng Ruyan clapped his hands, got up and said, "Think about it yourself, in fact, there is nothing great about you and my eldest sister, you are a special case, hehe." ”

Looking at the back of Leng Ruyan and going out, the door made a soft sound, Chu Nan sat on the chair, and didn't know what to do for a while.

Can you figure out your position now?

Many times, people can see through other people's things and figure out some truths, but if it's really their turn, that's really another matter.

Sighing, Chu Nan got up from the chair, walked to the bed and sat down, and then lay down, he could still smell the fragrance left by the cold smoke in his snort, but Chu Nan didn't have the slightest crooked thoughts, all he thought about was his relationship with Jiang Xue and Qin Qiuying.

By the way, there is also Leng Zixuan, although this woman has nothing to do with him, Chu Nan always feels that the two of them may have something.

Is it okay to become stronger yourself?

For Qin Qiuying and Chu Nan, he thought for a while, and felt that people didn't ask for anything, no matter what, it was really shameless and hypocritical.

For Jiang Xue, this is the favorite person, and she doesn't have to run.

For Leng Zixuan, he felt that he should stay away as much as possible, because according to Leng Ruyan's theory, he was not worthy of her at all. Although he doesn't care about any strong women, the problem is that there are women around him. Unless he gets stronger.

Having said that, getting stronger seems to be a really good thing.

Anyway, no matter how he lived, he felt that his feelings were more clear when Jiang Xue was angry, and with the reconciliation of the two and no other problems at all, they fell into chaos again.

This can only be said that he was originally a merry man, and Chu Nan can now be sure of this.

Feelings, I really can't think about it deeply, but the more I think about it, the more chaotic it becomes, because I don't want to sort it out at all.

(End of chapter)