Chapter 395
In fact, if you think about it carefully, a child of the age of "Mo Ming" suddenly became unwilling to tell his family about anything, he didn't learn anything outside, ate and waited for death, and was beaten and endured silently by himself, this situation is nothing more than three reasons:
First, because there is an estrangement from the family, in fact, it is very normal for a child of the age of "Mo Ming" to be estranged from the family.
Every child will have such a rebellious period at this age, always feel that they have grown up and understand the world, while their parents do not understand themselves......
Normal children will have this kind of rebellious thoughts, let alone "Mo Ming".
After all, "Mo Ming" is a child from a reorganized family, who originally thought that his family was complete, his mother was his mother, and his sister was his sister, but as a result, he was suddenly told by his peers that his mother was not his mother, his sister was not his sister, and his home was not his own home, what is this called?
If you just talk about it, you must know that once this situation spreads in the mouth of children of this age, it is easy to cause all kinds of problems, and those children of the Yan family around them often use this kind of remarks to stimulate "Mo Ming", and even use this as a laughing stock to make jokes about "Mo Ming" and ridicule "Mo Ming".
How can a teenager withstand this kind of pressure?
The second is that the child is reluctant to say it, basically for the so-called "face" issue.
Children at this age are actually very funny, their minds are in the growth stage, they have some superficial cognition of the world, and their own hearts are gradually developing, first of all, they have a cognition of such a thing as dignity.
They feel that they are fighting with others among their peers, relying on their own face to find a place, even if they are beaten by the other party, there is no problem, but if they tell adults about it, they feel very ashamed.
This logic seems to be full of flaws and very brainless, but in fact, children in this grade are like this!
Mo Ming had seen one or two children chatting before, and one of them belonged to the same person as these family gangsters, and he knew to hang out with a group of fox friends and dogs all day long.
And the other one belongs to the kind of people who study hard.
The two children didn't know how to get together to discuss the fight, and the child who studied hard said that he should tell his parents and tell the teacher that he could call the police if he didn't work, and there was nothing wrong with this logic.
But, do you know what that little gangster kid said?
He said directly: "Are you ashamed to be so embarrassed?"
It is clear at a glance who is right and who is wrong in these two ways of thinking, but these children just don't understand.
There is nothing wrong with this way of thinking to solve your own problems, but the key is where to put this way of thinking?
It's not right for you to put this on top of fighting!
But "Mo Ming" doesn't understand this, although he is not a person with these gangsters, he also has some such tempers, and he feels a little embarrassed to tell his parents.
Here I have to talk about the special family environment of "Mo Ming", his mother is not his own mother, and his sister is not his own sister, this kind of estrangement can easily cause various impacts, so that "Mo Ming" must pay more attention to his face in front of this family.
As for whether this so-called "face" is really "face", it's a second word......
As for the third point, it is "Mo Ming" who does not dare to say it.
After all, "Mo Ming" is also a person who has been in this class for many years, and he is quite familiar with the methods and styles of these peers.
Knowing that these people are not easy to mess with, if you really want to get involved with these people, I'm afraid you won't have a good life in the future.
What do you mean by that......
Actually, to be honest, according to Mo Ming's experience, if you are caught by this kind of gangster, the best way is to beat these people at once and convince them, only in this way, they will not dare to toss you again!
When these little gangsters encounter something, they basically fight themselves first, and if they can't beat themselves, they will call someone and besiege you halfway.
If you don't let them be afraid of you, they will bully you every day.
People are like this, they see that you are so bullying, they bully you every day, if you are hard, they are afraid of you!
If it is the current Mo Ming, it will definitely make these people afraid of him to the core, not only to make them afraid, but also to let their parents and family members die with the fear of him.
But "Mo Ming" doesn't have this ability, he is so cowardly and incompetent, and he can only be bullied under his nose.
The logic of a child is like this, a teenager, he has never experienced these things, where does he know so much? When he encounters this kind of thing, he only knows that he is next to him, and he is not willing to let Yan Qingcheng and Yan Ningxue help her.
Even if Yan Ningxue and Yan Chengcheng helped him for a while, it was impossible to protect him for the rest of his life, and these little gangsters of the Yan family could find an opportunity to bully him at any time.
Some people think that those children who are beaten are stupid, after they are beaten, they will neither tell their parents, nor teachers, nor directly call the police, children at this age are basically the same way.
How do you say this......
In fact, when encountering this kind of thing, the most correct way is, of course, to tell the teacher, tell the parents, or call the police directly, I believe that a normal person knows what to do.
However, you must know that a teacher can't really protect anyone for a lifetime!
I often see many people on the Internet saying that they told the teacher that the teacher didn't ask, or the teacher punished the child who was beaten......
There must be such a teacher in reality, after all, the forest is big and there are all kinds of birds, but I believe that most teachers still have the ability to distinguish between black and white.
If you really say it, in most cases, the teacher can't ignore it.
But!
Note that it's "but"!
Teachers are also human beings, teachers also have their own families, have their own lives, educating students is just work, and they have to go home to live after work, how can they watch students all the time?
But those violent elementary school students are different, they are classmates, they are all people of the same age, they are the pervasive existence.
When you are in school, there are teachers watching, and those people may not dare to do anything, but when you leave the school, who is watching?
Parents?
Yes, parents can pick you up and drop you off at school, but if one day misses, it's time for them to pick it up.
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