Lu Wen came to Qian Xiaoming with several students.

This side just solved the matter of the fight between Japanese students and American students, and by the time Lu Wen and them arrived, this side had completely returned to normal, and the next thing was Qian Xiaoming's debate competition.

Debate competitions are generally debated by several people together, with one debate, two debates and three debates, but the competition in the primary school is only debated by one person, which reflects the level of students more.

On the other side of Qian Xiaoming is a student from a small Italian college, and the topics of the debate are also a little representative, which can be said to be related to their students, and these topics are carefully selected by UNESCO.

The topic of Qian Xiaoming's debate is: the generation gap between children and parents, the main responsibility of the generation gap lies with the parents, and the main responsibility of the generation gap is the children.

Regarding this debate topic, Qian Xiaoming and these students have personal experience, the generation gap between children and parents exists no matter where it is, and the generation gap between children and parents is an objective thing.

Qian Xiaoming's debate is that the main responsibility for the generation gap lies with the children as the opposite, and the Italian student is called Albert, and his debate direction is that the main responsibility for the generation gap lies with the parents, and it is the positive side.

When the topic comes up, two people draw each other to their own direction of debate, and then give each one ten minutes to think, this is the time to test them, and their breadth of knowledge will be reflected here.

When the time comes.

The referee said directly: "Now please clarify your point of view first." ”

Albert was obviously very confident, and after listening to the referee's words, he said directly: "My point of view is that the responsibility for the generation gap between parents and children lies with the parents. Parents who have lived for more than a decade are mature and know a lot. You Chinese people have a saying, our parents eat more salt than we eat. Obviously, parents know a lot more about the world than we do.

However, times are constantly evolving, and the life experience they have accumulated is not applicable in today's fast-moving society. And we are young people in the new era, we are constantly making progress with the times, and the pace of our parents cannot keep up with us, and we cannot stop the pace of progress to wait for our parents to keep up with us.

Not only did our parents not understand us, but they sometimes used their old ideas to resist our development, and the generation gap between the two generations was created. Therefore, we believe that the responsibility for the generation gap between parents and children lies with the parents. ”

Albert has a very wide range of knowledge, and he also knows the Chinese saying, which Qian Xiaoming didn't expect, but he didn't get scared, he has his own self-confidence, for so long, he didn't learn in vain, and he still feels that his mind is very clear, just like every time it's his turn to take the exam, his mind is very clear, which is also where the confidence in his heart lies, of course, he doesn't know that this is because of the intermediate learning aura that Lu Wen specially blessed them.

Qian Xiaoming said solemnly: "Chairman, judges, friends, hello everyone! First of all, I point out a few mistakes of the other party:

The generation gap can be clearly defined as the differences between two generations due to values, psychological states, living habits, etc.

Responsibility has two meanings: one is to do what should be done, and the other is to fail to do what should be done within the division and should be borne. Having mastered these concepts, from the generation, manifestation, development and nature of the generation gap, we can make it clear that the main responsibility for the family generation gap lies with the children.

The generation gap is mainly manifested in the disagreements, misunderstandings, suspicions, complaints and even antagonism between parents and children. Generally, as the children mature, the generation gap will gradually ease.

The first is the drastic changes in the physical and mental state of young people. The upheaval prompts us to discover ourselves, pursue independence, subvert the ideas of childhood, and begin to choose and pursue career, friendship, love, and life values. In today's single-child families, the parents' lack of knowledge and experience makes them unprepared for the changes in their children and can only cope in the same way as before. Only by making this mutation clear to parents can teenagers bring about corresponding changes in their concepts and consciousness, and can they eliminate misunderstandings and estrangements. ”

Qian Xiaoming talked eloquently on the stage, his face was confident and free, at this moment, he didn't have the kind of funny head in front of Lu Wen, nor the kind of unobtrusion in front of his classmates, he has now substituted himself into the role that the teacher customized for himself, if at that moment, he imagined that he could scold Fang Xuan for the sake of his national interests.

Lu Wen also looked at Qian Xiaoming on the stage, his heart was very satisfied, after such a long time of study, coupled with the external practice in the school again and again, he has initially established his own self-confidence.

And a few classmates on the side are like ghosts, they have never seen Qian Xiaoming's appearance, is this still the same Qian Xiaoming who has been out of tune? Is this still the Qian Xiaoming who is full of hippie smiles?

Not only them, but even Qian Xiaoming's parents at this moment were full of surprise, they almost couldn't recognize their son, they looked at their son talking on the TV screen, they suddenly felt a little in a trance, their son seemed to have grown up.

The son who has been arguing with them at this moment, they feel that they have really grown up, they no longer know what they are thinking in their hearts now, and now their hearts are full of mixed tastes, all kinds of tastes.

There are both happiness and happiness, and there is also the idea that this cub has grown up and his father and mother can't control it, but there is still most joy in his heart.

Qian Xiaoming doesn't know what his parents below and outside think, he just wants to win this game now and realize his dream.

When Qian Xiaoming's time came, the referee showed a red card to signal the end of time, and Qian Xiaoming just said: "So I think the main responsibility for the generation gap lies with the children." ”

Albert's face became a little heavy, just now in Qian Xiaoming's one-minute debate, he not only refuted the reason for his debate just now, but also clearly expounded his own views, at this moment, he obviously felt that this was a strong opponent, not to be underestimated.

When it was time for Albert to elaborate, he took a deep breath and said slowly: "I also raise a few questions about the other party's point of view here, first, the point of view of teenagers is in line with social development, in this time, as a parent, you should not blindly deny your child's point of view, the child's point of view is not necessarily wrong, and some parents completely deny the child's point of view.

Second.............

Next, I would like to elaborate on my point that parents use their outdated ideas to guide their children, which can turn their children into rebellion. Parents think of themselves as elders and think that they have a point of being justified no matter what.

As a result, they fail to communicate well with their children, creating a generation gap between them and their children. Children want to have a pair of parents who understand them and want to talk to them about their troubles.

But at this time, parents either feel that their children are affected by some bad habits, or they feel that such troubles are completely insignificant. Repeating such responses will naturally make it impossible for children to communicate with their parents, deepening the generation gap between children and parents. Therefore, the responsibility for the generation gap between parents and children lies with the parents. ”

Qian Xiaoming: "The impetuousness, anger and self-righteousness of the children. Knowledgeable parents certainly don't buy it.?

The solution to the generation gap lies on both sides. Parents should strive to learn cultural knowledge, understand the characteristics of their children in advance, and strive to grasp the characteristics and concepts of the times; constantly learn and make progress; at the same time, adjust their physical and mental state, and strive to treat their children with an optimistic, cheerful and trusting outlook;

Children should be considerate, show concern for their parents, and adopt appropriate methods to guide their parents to understand themselves and understand the concepts of the times; at the same time, they should have a sober and profound understanding of their own youth and superficiality. However, the primary responsibility of parents is to provide for the family; Therefore, we believe that the responsibility for the family generation gap mainly lies with the children. ”

The two sides are arguing on the debate stage, complementing each other, everyone in the audience and the people in front of the TV can feel a dignified atmosphere, they look at the two people on the stage-for-tat, and their hearts are secretly admiring, two good guys.

The judges on the stage who watched the debate on both sides were all shining, and they had seen the debates in front of them, none of them were as wonderful as them, and the time passed slowly with their debates, and soon the time was up.

But there were no judges to stop them, and they continued to watch their debate, which they kind of didn't want to interrupt now.

At this time, whether it was Qian Xiaoming or Albert, they both felt that the opponent was strong, so they took out all the solutions of the whole body, while expounding their own views, while looking for loopholes in the other party's views, and thinking about what else they didn't understand.

This kind of thinking is very brain-consuming, and they are all improvised, and they have not prepared a little before, and now they are sweating on their faces, which is not physically tired, but the reason for overthinking.

And as time continued, they thought for longer and longer, and left more and more sweat, Qian Xiaoming didn't expect that he would encounter such a strong opponent in the first game, he didn't want to be eliminated here.

Thinking that the previous classmates were all promoted, and Zheng Chen and Jiang Yuning were both promoted in the first place, if he fell behind here, then he really had no face to see people, thinking of this, he was even more determined.

When Jiang Yuning was promoted to the first place, Xu Miaohan told him, he knew that he was also happy for Jiang Yuning, but it was more pressure, although Jiang Yuning was the first to become famous in their class, but in his heart he thought that he was no worse than her.

Albert is also thinking about Qian Xiaoming, he is not comparing with others, but purely does not want to lose this game, so the two of them are now a little bit of a needle-to-heart feeling.

At this time, not only did they feel it, but the audience and judges also felt it, and they also saw that the two people were almost at the limit, and several judges discussed with each other, and then waited until Qian Xiaoming had just finished explaining his point of view, and then stopped directly.