01

When I was very young, I accidentally tripped over the road and fell, and I immediately cried and screamed to my parents. This trick worked very well, and immediately the parents would come and stomp on the ground a few times, saying "It's all weird, the ground is not good" to coax me.

But people will always grow up, they will get taller, and their weight will not be as light as when they were children, and they will be as lively as a little rabbit.

You can't keep your hands on clothes and open your mouth, and your parents can't be by your side forever.

But I can always see some people, obviously 1.7 meters, 1.8 meters tall, followed by their parents, carrying their luggage, they are idle, just wandering around. I don't know if they can't handle their suitcases, or if they still think they're young.

02

You can see this kind of news from time to time. On the first day of school, a certain college student didn't know how to make a bed, fold quilts, or even take a shower, and then cried and screamed for his mother in the bathroom......

I don't understand how they are spoiled, but when they go to college, they should be already or close to adulthood, so they have to take care of themselves and have a certain degree of self-care ability.

The term "giant baby" began as a simple description of the larger size of a newborn baby, but in the 21st century, it has become a derivative of the same nature as "orphan".

I once saw a cartoon in the first year of high school's ideological and moral book. An adult man lies in a stroller with a pacifier in his mouth, waiting for his parents to take care of him.

There are many such people, who may have never done anything since they were young because of their parents' doting parents, or because they are psychologically defective and overly dependent on their families.

But whatever the reason, it's always your choice to be what you want to be.

03

Most of the "giant babies", "mom bao men", and "princess diseases" have a universal excuse: everything is what their parents are used to, and it has nothing to do with them.

I can't do anything, my family hasn't taught me, I violate the rules, I say that my parents haven't warned me, I break the law, and I can complain that my parents hurt me!

Their parents are also a group of strange people, and they often come to this time with the phrase "He's still a child!"

At the age of ten, you say they are children, at the age of twenty, you say they are children, at the age of thirty or forty, when they have children, you still say they are children?

It's really a willingness to fight, a willingness to suffer.

In fact, it is the self that is responsible for all this.

Parents say that the family is poor and does not allow some children to go to school, so those children take branches and learn to write on the soil with difficulty.

Parents don't let some children play games and pull out the internet cables, but those children still find a way to have fun and forget to eat and sleep.

So at this time, can their later appearance be said to be influenced by their parents, caused by their parents?

Of course not! Everything is always in your own hands, and you will become who you want to be and work in that direction.

04

Seven or eight-year-olds should be able to wipe their butts on their own, instead of waiting for mom and dad to help you.

When you are a teenager, you have to learn to take care of yourself, and you have to know that you can do your own thing.

When I got to college, I lived alone, away from the haven of home, the hotbed of my bedroom. You have to understand that you are the baby of the family, and your roommates are also the treasures of your own family.

Don't be a beggar, reach out and ask for it. Don't be a parasite, stay in bed and do nothing. Only by helping each other and getting along with each other can we go further and better.

Time will come, parents will grow old, we will grow up. We are the ones who rely on our parents, not on them.