1069. The little emotions of the rice grains
1069. The Little Emotions of the Rice Grain (Page 1/1)
Lu Wen's words have made many parents agree, and they actually tend to discipline their children's education.
However, in recent years, almost the whole country has set off a trend of European and American education, praising the European and American education systems as incomparable, and criticizing Chinese education as useless.
This makes them feel a little self-doubting and don't know how to educate their children.
And if ordinary people say it, they may not believe it, but now that Lu Wen has the title of the first division in Huaxia, they are still willing to believe what Lu Wen says.
This is also Lu Wen's heart, don't look at Lu Wen's almost free-range for the students of Starry Sky Academy, but everything he does has a degree, and there is a standard.
If this standard is exceeded, then Lu Wen will start to rectify.
Moreover, the students of Starry Sky Academy are all seventeen or eighteen years old, and they already have some independence, and they have a vague impression of the world.
It's not like these children, who seem to know a lot, but they don't have real values and worldview.
In this regard, parents need to set some rules for them.
"Dean Lu, then how do you say we should treat me like this?" someone asked, which is also a question that everyone is concerned about.
Lu Wen thought for a while and said, "I'll give you an example, let's talk about my daughter Mi Li." ”
"Well, if my children could have half of the rice, I would die of laughter. ”
"yes, so do I. ”
Everyone was quiet and listened to Dean Lu. ”
Hearing that Lu Wen was going to take rice grains as an example, everyone was a little excited.
They all saw Mi Li's well-behaved and sensible during this time, especially Mi Li's guqin, which made them yearn for it.
Lu Wen said: "I basically don't care about rice grains, and she takes the initiative to learn many things.
In this regard, I would suggest that you want your child to learn some extracurricular skills, which is a good thing, but it is best to follow your child's interests.
Forcing children to learn this and that is not good for children's learning and growth, and their learning speed will not be too fast.
There is a good saying that interest is the best teacher, and there is no doubt about that. ”
"In addition to learning, we need to pay more attention to some of the children's behaviors.
Don't look at Mi Li and look well-behaved, but she is no worse than others when she misbehaves.
In this regard, I have a criterion of what she does will do for her future growth.
For example, once again, Mi Li went to a farmhouse near Starry Sky Academy to eat, and after eating, she also brought some things back.
Although these things are not valuable, and the host knows about them, this matter is still inherently bad, and if she develops the impression or habit that she can take as long as others know, then it will not be good for her growth.
So that time, I sent the things back with rice grains and apologized.
This kind of thing may not seem like a big deal, but it has a great impact on children's growth. ”
Lu Wen said on the side, everyone was listening very seriously, Lu Wen just said some simple things, narrated some simple truths, but in the ears of these parents, there are some wise sayings.
Today's parents are a little scared by those educators, the child has done something wrong, they want to punish, but they are afraid that as those educators say, this is erasing the child's nature.
This makes them very embarrassed, punishment is not, and no punishment is not.
The reason why I listened to Lu Wen seriously was not because of how reasonable Lu Wen said, but in fact, could they not understand these truths?
It can be said that the so-called big truth is understood by almost everyone, but in the face of the real situation, many people will hesitate.
Lu Wen's current fame is here, and Lu Wen's words gave them some reassurance and made them have some confidence in their education.
Lu Wen's purpose is no different, he now finds that many parents blindly follow the so-called European and American education in educating their children, which in his opinion is biased.
It's not that education in Europe and the United States is bad, but that the environment, national conditions, and cultures are different, and many things can't be copied in a rigid way.
Lu Wen spoke carefully, and the parents listened attentively, and the time passed quickly.
When Lu Wen came back in the evening, he saw millet grains pouting with an unhappy little look.
"What's wrong? Who bullied my baby girl. Lu Wen picked up the millet grains and said.
Millet pushed her father's chest with her chubby little hand, and pouted, "It's my father who bullied me." ”
"Huh?" Lu Wen was puzzled.
Yu Zhengyao on the side couldn't help laughing at this time, she was taking care of her daughter's emotions at first, so she had been holding back, and now that the main lord is coming, she doesn't have to scruple anymore.
"Haha, did you tell more about the rice grains?" Yu Zhengyao said with a smile for a while.
Lu Wen suddenly understood, he was too involved in what he said in the afternoon, and he actually forgot to take care of the little emotions of millet grains for a while.
"It's all Daddy's bad, Daddy's wrong. Lu Wen decisively admitted his mistake.
Millet didn't forgive her father so easily, when she came back, many uncles and aunts made fun of her, and Millet was unhappy.
"Dad bullied Mi Li, and Mi Li ignored Dad. Millet grains' pouting mouth did not mean to be gentle.
However, he did not leave his father's arms, and it can be seen that millet grains are still very dependent on his father.
Lu Wen said kindly: "How can I forgive my father, my father knows that he is wrong." ”
Millet Grain tilted his little head and thought for a while: "Dad has said that the child who admits his mistake is a good child, so Millet will forgive Dad for the time being, but Dad must promise that he can't say bad things about Rice Grain anymore." ”
Mi Li actually doesn't want to have conflicts with his father, and the little guy still likes his father very much.
Lu Wen looked at the well-behaved little appearance of his baby daughter, and immediately rubbed it affectionately on the little guy's face.
Dad promised that he would not speak ill of rice grains in the future. ”
"Hee-hee, it's so itchy!"
Millet grains were pricked by Daddy's beard.
"Haha, is it okay for Dad to take the rice grains out to play?" Lu Wen said and carried the millet grains on his shoulders and let her sit on them.
"Oh, ride a big horse. Millet grains suddenly became happy, and the original little unhappy mood suddenly dissipated.
"Took off. ”
"Giggles. ”
Yu Zhengyao looked at the cheerful appearance of the father and daughter, and couldn't help shouting, "You guys also hurry back for dinner." ”
"Play for a while and come back. ”
"Mom, you cook first. ”
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