Chapter 739: God helps those who help themselves
Tang Chen and Zhou Xuanying looked at each other, they didn't expect their classmates to meet each other, and it actually became a complaining conference, and they were listening to Xiao Peng complaining and complaining alone. Tang Chen could feel that Zhou Xuanying was actually very impatient. As the chairman of a large enterprise, the most unpleasant thing for her to hear is this kind of complaint, in her opinion, it is better to do one thing well if she has time to complain.
Fortunately, time passed quickly, Xiao Peng couldn't sit still, got up and said: "I have to buy coffee, my immediate boss will be angry after time, let's talk again when I have time." He took two steps and turned back and said, "If you don't know where to go on ......the weekend, you can call me, my phone hasn't changed."
"Okay, good, if you want to help, I'll find you......"
After Tang Chen said a perfunctory sentence, he looked at his back as he walked away, sighed, and did not speak.
"Tang Chen, what do you think of him?"
Zhou Xuanying asked thoughtlessly, but Tang Chen understood what she meant.
When he was young, he didn't have the strength to break through, and he was willing to work according to his family's arrangement. Tang Chen thought about it and said very earnestly. He understood what Zhou Xuanying meant, but in fact, he was a little soft-hearted, and he just wanted to help him when he heard Xiao Peng complain like this.
How can Zhou Xuanying help?
Of course, he used his authority to let Xiao Peng go to work in Daguan Group. But Tang Chen is not optimistic, he thinks that Xiao Peng will not go to Fujian Province to work, a person who can't even find a job by himself, if he wants to let him go out of the province by himself, I'm afraid it's impossible. Everyone has their own ambitions, and Tang Chen thinks that this matter cannot be forced. Because the road is chosen by yourself, those who help themselves are helped by God, and those who abandon themselves are abandoned by God, and no one can help you for a lifetime.
"Tang Chen, you know, my ears are soft, and I can't hear others complaining......"
Zhou Xuanying looked at Tang Chen pitifully, wanting to hear his opinion.
"This kind of person who likes to complain and doesn't change is like this for the rest of his life. Tang Chen smiled helplessly, "Say that the work pressure is high, the salary is very low, and I feel that there is no way forward in life; why don't you try to change your career and environment, don't try to improve your business level, and don't try to make yourself more and more valuable?
What Xiao Peng just said is nothing more than a lot of workload, low wages, and very strict leaders. He didn't think that with his current qualifications, lack of work experience, and weak business ability, even if he changed companies, careers, and leaders, he would still encounter the same problems, and frequent job changes would not be of much benefit to his career. But for his company, the work will not become less and less because of his complaints, the salary will not suddenly increase because of his complaints, and his leaders will not change their way of acting because of their complaints.
A company that can crawl and roll in the market for so long, will not be nepotistic and blindly mess around, it is looking for its own death. But anyone who has no ability will be swept away. Those who remain are elites. Even if it's a relative of the boss, there must be a skill. Let him do his work simply, it should be a requirement for efficiency. Xiao Peng has too high expectations, and the reality is a bit cruel, so he can't adapt to it for a while. I think it's better to let him hit a wall than to help him now, maybe he will reflect on himself. ”
Although Tang Chen spoke calmly, Zhou Xuanying could hear the helplessness in his words.
"He's a nice guy, but he's a little too ambitious......"
Zhou Xuanying also understood, if she was a different person, she would not be so hesitant. Because the relationship between Tang Chen and Xiao Peng was not bad, she still wondered if Tang Chen wanted to help Xiao Peng by herself. Fortunately, Tang Chen was not a hot-headed person, and he also knew that helping Xiao Peng now would hurt him. When Xiao Peng understands that he has to be down-to-earth, I'm afraid he won't need anyone's help.
In fact, whether it is a newcomer in the workplace, or an old employee, whether it is a manager or an ordinary employee, each has to bear its own responsibilities, and each has its own incompetence and powerlessness, and each has unsatisfactory things. Maybe many people will encounter unfairness, grievances, difficult moments at work, and occasional complaints, which are inevitable. But if a person only knows how to complain about any problem he encounters, then he will not only not be able to solve the problem, but will even become more and more unhappy because of complaining.
Maybe a lot of things, not trying to change can turn everything around. But if you do your best to change what you can change, your life will be a little bit better with this. But if you just complain, everything will go in a bad direction entirely.
Everyone will always encounter a lot of setbacks and difficulties in life, and they will also encounter a lot of grievances and pains, usually ordinary people will complain, and then they attribute everything that goes wrong to external causes. Smart people know how to start with themselves and try to make some positive changes. They will take failure as an experience and then try to grow, improve, and change the status quo.
However, the reality is that in most cases, people will immediately complain when they encounter a problem, but such complaints will only add to their own troubles. When you spend your time complaining about external factors, where do you still have the energy to improve yourself, and where do you have the heart to strive for a higher quality of work and life for yourself. Many times, people who are particularly complaining will only get harder and harder because of complaining. And those who try to change usually reap unexpected breakthroughs and good luck.
People who know how to be down-to-earth and take one step at a time often achieve certain results.
If you don't change, you will only complain, and you will only stand still, and then be eliminated.
Society is so cruel, people who mess with their lives will eventually be mixed to death by themselves.
Tang Chen could only silently pray that Xiao Peng would realize that something was wrong, and then seek to change. If he doesn't change, no one can help him.
Just when the two of them were drinking coffee and the topic was back to college, Tang Chen's mobile phone rang again.
Zhou Xuanying looked at Tang Chen's hesitant appearance and felt very strange: "Why don't you listen, is it another girl?"
"It's Master Zhuang calling......" Tang Chen said helplessly, "Do you think it's good to listen?"
"Listen, why don't you listen?" Zhou Xuanying felt strange, "Does he dare to do anything to you?"
"That's not it, he wants to ask me for help......" Tang Chen sighed and said, "I don't understand, can't he handle it too?"
"Listen, I also want to see how this old man keeps his breath down?" Zhou Xuanying smiled with a malicious face, as if a child had completed a prank.
(End of chapter)