Chapter 783: Two-Way Choice
"That's how it should ......"
Zhou Yunheng, who forcibly cleaned up his mood, said in a doting tone: "Silly girl, in fact, it doesn't matter what you bring. The important thing is how you are as a person. But I believe that my daughter is the best!" This is the self-confidence that comes from education, Zhou Yunheng believes that the well-educated Zhou Xuanying has a temperament that ordinary people can't match. If such a girl can't be appreciated, it is difficult for Zhou Yunheng to imagine that any other girl can enter the eyes of Tang Chen's parents.
This is also a common problem of parents, always thinking that their children are the best.
However, Zhou Yunheng is also relatively rational, because Zhou Xuanying is indeed a good girl, so good that ordinary people dare not touch it easily - where do ordinary people dare to imagine that a girl's average monthly expenses are hundreds of thousands, or even millions? However, there are also many parents who can't recognize their children's flaws, but will harm him.
Zhou Xuanying felt the encouragement from her father, and also dispelled her own self-confidence. Yes, she is such an excellent girl, it's good to be herself, will Tang Chen's parents still look down on her?" "Dad, you're right!"
Hearing the change in Zhou Xuanying's tone, Zhou Yunheng also smiled slightly, and said, "Also, remember the etiquette I taught you, and the etiquette should not be missing." If there are other relatives around, don't call the wrong person. If you really don't know what it's called, you'll be called by the older generations. ”
Zhou Xuanying nodded, what she lacked most now was experience. "Dad, what else?"
And Zhou Yunheng's experience is the best textbook, which can allow her to absorb it for a long time.
"Also, when you speak, be sincere. If Don's parents ask you any questions, don't keep your eyes on Don't be there, and act according to Don's eyes. This is not good, if you do this, people will think that you are running away from something, or they will think that you and Xiao Tang are in a gang, and there is something important to hide from them and deceive them. This is what the elders don't like the most, so be more confident, and answer whatever people ask. ”
Zhou Yunheng's earnest teaching made Zhou Xuanying's mouth open. In fact, Zhou Yunheng had taught her these a long time ago, but Zhou Xuanying forgot everything when she was in a hurry.
After all, it is the parents who meet their boyfriend for the first time, and it is normal to have no experience, and Zhou Xuanying has already behaved better than many people. Zhou Xuanying once heard a senior sister say that the boyfriend who had a good relationship ended up without illness because of the fact that after meeting her parents. The reason is also very strange, his boyfriend is actually a mother's boy, just take her to see her parents, and bring a group of friends. One of them also went to the kitchen and told his mother that there was her future daughter-in-law inside. His mother was very shrewd, and she guessed it at once, and the reason was that she felt angry when she saw this senior sister. As a result, the senior sister had a big quarrel with her boyfriend because of this, and in the end, there was no follow-up.
"I know, is there anything else to pay attention to?" Zhou Yunheng's words, Zhou Xuanying remembered them all in his heart, and he was not so flustered.
Zhou Yunheng thought about it for a while, and then said: "There is also a problem of eating appearance, when you go to Xiao Tang's house, his parents will definitely want you to stay and eat......
This is almost certain, Zhou Xuanying also knows that Tang Chen's parents will not let her, a woman from other provinces, eat out, and may even let her spend the night at home!
"I'm not worried about you. Zhou Yunheng said confidently that the Zhou family is a very traditional family that has taught children the etiquette of eating since childhood, so Zhou Yunheng has never worried about Zhou Xuanying's ugly appearance. "Usually, everyone in your family lets you, you eat first when you're hungry, it doesn't matter. But when you go to someone else's house, if you do that, it's a joke. Be sure to remember these details, details are important. By the way, also, be diligent and have a ...... in your eyes."
"I know this, it's just rushing to wash the dishes after eating...... Zhou Xuanying said in a hurry.
Zhou Yunheng smiled bitterly: "Silly girl, it's not that you really want to get started, but you have to be diligent in your mouth." Whether you want to wash the dishes or not, you have to say it first. The first time you go to Xiao Tang's house, you are a guest, and anyone who can carry it clearly will not let you really wash the dishes. When the time comes, you can accept it when you see it, just be polite, there is no need to really work for his family. If Xiao Tang's parents really want you to work, it means that they don't know how to be polite, so you have to weigh it.
For girls, it's always good to be reserved. Don't come to his house, just like a nanny, you have to do everything, and it's still a free nanny.
It's the first time we've met, and it feels fresh, if you haven't passed the door and rushed to please someone, maybe people say that this girl is really sensible, but they have already looked down on you in their hearts. You will feel that you are in a hurry to stick upside down, and what is eaten by their son is all from his family, which is not right. ”
Zhou Xuanying suddenly realized: "I understand, Dad." ”
"Then are you ready to go to Xiao Tang's house now?" Zhou Yunheng said helplessly.
"Well, I've memorized everything, and I'll definitely behave to satisfy them!" Zhou Xuanying said confidently.
Zhou Yunheng smiled bitterly: "Silly girl, it's really stupid to say that you are stupid." Don't just let others examine you, you also have to see how the strange family you want to get along with in the future!"
"Huh?" Zhou Xuanying didn't expect this to happen, and she couldn't turn a corner.
"Silly girl, you have to look more at the family atmosphere in his house, whether his parents are loving, and whether the family is harmonious. I also want to see if Xiao Tang's mother is doing housework alone, and everyone else is playing. It is also necessary to see if his father is calling his wife around, teaching by example is much more important than words, and the attitude of the father-in-law towards the mother-in-law is likely to be the attitude of your husband towards you in the future......"
Zhou Xuanying was silent, because what Zhou Yunheng said was very reasonable, and she did listen to it.
“...... If they keep praising you in their attitude towards you, that's fine. But if you keep talking about how good Don Jr. is, then you have to be cautious. Xiao Tang's attitude in front of his parents is also very important, see if he listens to his parents for everything, if Xiao Tang doesn't have a backbone, you will definitely be angry in the future!"
"Dad, it's not that serious, I think Tang Chen is a person with great ideas......"
In fact, Zhou Xuanying didn't dare to pack tickets, because Tang Chen said that his mother was a very strong woman, and Tang Chen was also obedient to himself, which made Zhou Xuanying a little difficult to judge.
(End of chapter)