The people I met with Ling Junsheng were all top collectors, with literati backbone, sincere love for collecting and culture, weak utilitarianism, and worthy of deep friendship.

Ling Junsheng picked up a book of poems on the table and said curiously, "This is Yao Ling's new poetry collection?"

"Hey, it's hard to say!" Speaking of her daughter, Gao Lingmei was instantly overwhelmed, and said helplessly: "She is upstairs, she stays at home all day, and she eats in the house, it is difficult for us to see her once!"

"What's going on?" Ling Junsheng said in surprise, "Sick?"

"If you get sick, you can still be treated, but it's a pity that you have a psychological disease!" Gao Lingmei said bitterly: "The girl doesn't know when she will become silent, socialize less and less, and basically cut off all contact with the outside world." I went to the doctor and said that he had depression, long-term development and even suicidal tendencies, which scared us ......"

Wen Yiming and Ling Tiancheng glanced at each other, and sighed why the rich second generation has mental illness? He took the poetry collection in the old man's hand and read a few chapters briefly, the style was literary and sentimental.

Ling Junsheng looked at Wen Yiming and introduced: "I haven't officially introduced you yet, this is Mr. Wen, a master of incense, and his methods are amazing, do you want him to try it?"

"Incense...... Master?" Gao Lingmei stared at Wen Yiming incredulously, originally thought that he was a relative of the Ling family, but he didn't take it to heart, Ling Junsheng's words made him a little moved.

Wen Yiming stood up, picked up the messy box, and chuckled: "How can Elder Gao rest assured, then let Wen give it a try, it's not a treatment, it's just a piece of incense." ”

Gao Lingmei nodded, a dead horse is a live horse doctor, a person who can be so respected by Ling Junsheng must have some ability, please Wen Yiming go to the study to prepare first, and go upstairs to let her daughter meet the guests.

As soon as Gao Yaoling entered the door, she couldn't help frowning, what kind of joke are you kidding?

Wen Yiming walked over to Gao Yaoling and sat down with a smile, and explained easily: "Elder Gao cares about you very much, let me talk to you, I heard that you like to write poems?"

Gao Yaoling sighed, a trace of loneliness flashed on her pale and delicate face, her weak body gently leaned on the back of the chair, her brows furrowed slightly, and she nodded.

Wen Yiming looked at the so-called poetess opposite, looking like Lin Daiyu, it seems that she is really sick!

"I just read the poems you wrote, and the literary temperament is very heavy, is it a little too pessimistic?"

"Pessimistic?" Gao Yaoling raised her eyebrows, and disdain flashed in her eyes: "Life is originally a process that has long been destined for a good destination, how about being pessimistic?

Seeing me, Wen Yiming was even more sure of his speculation, Gao Yaoling's family is rich, scholarly, likes poetry since childhood, and has also published several physical books, a standard literary female writer.

I stayed at home for two years, locked myself in my room, watched some tragic dramas, and my family didn't want to get in touch with society no matter how much I persuaded him, and his autism index was very high.

The body is getting worse and worse, the diet is not normal, and the people do not exercise. is in a state of illness, and can be sad when he sees anything, just like Lin Daiyu in the Dream of Red Mansions, and he can secretly feel sad when he sees falling leaves!

Signs of mild depression have already begun, and if they are not corrected as soon as possible, the condition will soon worsen and they will not be able to extricate themselves.

Intellectuals love face and are pretentious, she has been trapped in a state of self-setting for a long time, very resistant to the outside world, and unwilling to accept change from the heart!

How to find a suitable topic to open up the situation?

"Do you know how to look at the character of Lin Daiyu in psychology?"

Gao Yaoling was stunned for a moment, the topic of strange men obviously aroused her interest, Wen Yiming deliberately sneered, and said disdainfully: "In my opinion, the so-called Lin Daiyu is a weak person who can escape from life! A poor worm who can only live the world of his own imagination!"

"You ......"

Wen Yiming rudely interrupted Gao Yaoling and continued to state: "Lin Daiyu is narcissistic because of inferiority, and inferiority because of narcissism, this kind of narcissism is not simply loving herself, but a transfer of the inferiority complex that cannot be resolved, and her narcissism is a kind of self-dependence developed on the basis of inferiority. ”

Although Lin Daiyu is frank and unscrupulous, she often speaks harshly, arrogant, narrow-minded, suspicious by nature, and often makes a lot of temperament because of Baoyu. His mood has been in a depressed state for a long time, washing his face with tears all day long, and his bad mood in long-term depression and sadness is detrimental to his health, often crying for no reason and sulking at some trivial things, and he is willing to commit suicide after learning that Baoyu is married. ”

"This is the tragic personality trait typical of psychology!"

Gao Yaoling was stunned, she liked Lin Daiyu very much, and every time she watched Dream of Red Mansions, she resonated, and felt that she was the modern version of Lin Daiyu, born at the wrong time, sentimental.

Today, it is the first time I have heard someone analyze their idol from a psychological point of view, although it is a little harsh, but it is also the truth, and I really can't think of a reason to refute it for a while.

Wen Yiming saw Gao Yaoling straighten up, his expression focused, and he looked like he wanted to refute the battle, this was the effect he wanted. I'm not afraid that you are excited, but I am afraid that you will not react.

The psychologist Adler called it the inferiority complex, a word that has two main meanings. First of all, the inferiority complex refers to a complex emotion composed of a person's subconscious desire and emotion that he or she thinks that he or her environment is inferior to others; secondly, this complex refers to the literary role formed by a person because he is unable or unwilling to struggle, and behind the literary effect is the inferiority complex. ”

Lin Daiyu has been frail and sickly since she was a child, and she is a type of incurable disease, so her inferiority complex should first originate from childhood, and it is richer than a healthy child. ”

"From a psychological point of view, temperament is innate and has a lot to do with heredity, so Lin Daiyu's inferiority complex is caused by congenital depression temperament, poor health, and acquired love with parents without establishing a good attachment relationship. ”

Looking at Gao Yaoling's thoughtful appearance, Wen Yiming continued to analyze deeply: "Although Lin Daiyu has low self-esteem, she is unwilling to take a positive way to change her situation, but uses narcissism to transfer the tension caused by inferiority. ”

"Experiments in modern psychology have shown that narcissistic complexes exist in different degrees in everyone, and in young girls, especially those who are smart, beautiful, and talented, it is more serious. ”

"People with this narcissistic personality have difficulty interacting with others, easily causing disharmony in interpersonal relationships, casting an unpleasant shadow on their own and others' lives, and directly affecting their physical and mental health. Lin Daiyu is a beautiful girl with the temperament of a poet, which is why she can be narcissistic. ”

Wen Yiming's words cut through Gao Yaoling's heart like a sharp knife, and it seemed that she was talking about Lin Daiyu, but she was actually talking about herself!