If it was something else, Tang Chen would definitely say, "Do you like it?"

It's just that this piece of jade pendant is Tang Chen's most important thing, and it must not be given away.

"Xuanying, I ......"

Tang Chen suddenly felt a little guilty, he seemed to remember that when he was leading the dragon just now, he did "see" Xuan Ying, but he was too attentive and ignored the most memorable people in the past.

Xuan Ying had already forgiven Tang Chen in his heart, smiled, did not speak, but held Tang Chen's hand, this move was tantamount to a thousand words.

After Zhou Deqing saw this scene, he sighed and said, "The female is not staying!" and then said to Tang Chen, "Xiao Tang, didn't you say that you don't want to know my granddaughter, why are you ...... now?" Huh?" There was a bit of stern meaning in his words, and Tang Chen felt like thunder exploded in his ears.

"Xuan Ying...... She's your granddaughter?!"

Tang Chen was taken aback, his mind couldn't turn around all of a sudden, he knew that Xuan Ying's family background was good, but he never thought that her family was so rich! And Xuan Ying had never said anything about her family, so Tang Chen naturally didn't ask.

This is the preciousness of campus love, as long as the two people are in love, they can ignore what is right and what practical problems they have. Love is the most important thing, isn't it? But as soon as they leave school and talk about marriage, these young men and women become realistic.

Naturally, when love wants to go further, it rises to the point of talking about marriage, but it is often this step that becomes a mountain of flames that many couples can't get through, and a roadblock to the road to marriage, as if you have to make yourself have the ability to subdue demons and eliminate demons, in order to cross the wall in front of the two, and to pass, you will hold the hand of your son, to create poetry and distance in life;

The reason for this is that there are practical issues involved in talking about marriage, such as houses, cars, tickets, and door-to-door matches. Two people or even two families can talk about it, they are all happy, and they are ready to get married many things, and they can't talk about it, and since then it has formed a watershed, you go to find the one who can accept the conditions you provide, and I will find the one who can meet my conditions, so you will finally collapse in front of reality, but you always believe that each other is not defeated by love, but by reality. In the face of reality, there is a gap in your love, the small cracks are constantly torn and expanded, and it is a bottomless pit to be filled with more love, there is no future, and in the end it becomes ruthless, evaluating the other party is too realistic, too materialistic, and she is completely different from the first acquaintance, and even adds up viciously, telling that he has met scum, saying that the other party is useless, and the original advantages are gone, from love to hate, and deviates from the original intention.

What is the reason for this?

Many people will attribute it to social reasons, what mother-in-law is snobbish, what girls hate the poor and love the rich, what social atmosphere makes it...... But don't forget, two people have to live after marriage. Since you can't be like a wise man who does not stain everything and retreats to the mountains and forests, then you have to be tired of the lifestyle of food, clothing, housing, transportation, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and you have to experience miscellaneous trivial things in the red dust.

In love, couples can look up at the starry sky and look at the sky, thinking in their hearts that as long as there is each other, it will be very sweet, and his world is equivalent to the whole world, and they are not afraid of any problems, because they always believe that love can transcend all forms of hardships and hardships, and the love words spoken can linger for 10,000 years, and torture single dogs to death 800 times. But in marriage, it may be the mortgage, car loan, water and electricity bills to be paid this month, the child's milk powder money, the registration fee for the specialty class, the stumbling of a little problem between the two people, similar to whose house to go home for the New Year, how to spend the money and other issues that are very likely to lead to quarrels between the two, the intensification of contradictions, and finally the cold war.

As long as they are out of society, girls will understand one thing, either find someone with better conditions, or find a potential stock. After all, in marriage, you can't avoid vulgarity, you will encounter all kinds of mundane things every day, there is no romance in those love words floating in the clouds, and some are more down-to-earth and down-to-earth. This is where the reality of marriage lies, not an illusory creation in the imagination. Love is not a panacea, and sometimes it fails. Two people always have to calculate their lives, and shouting love every day can't solve the substantive problem. There is not only love in married life, but also many derived things, which will definitely make you happy and make you sad, and even send out in the end: "What will I do to save you - my life".

If a girl wants to find a man with what conditions to marry, don't blame her for the reality, because she knows what kind of marriage she wants, and is no longer simply stupidly waiting for the god of love to come, thinking that love is to win everything. Although marriage is not clearly priced, it is certainly indispensable for material foundations. The conditions can be worse, but people can't live a lifetime with love alone. In life, you always have to think about how to live first, and then think about other things. When it comes to marriage, there is nothing wrong with being realistic. If a man can't even create this condition, but will only complain, it is better to work hard to make money, which is the top priority.

This is also why the old saying "poor couples mourn everything", the poor are not having a good time, and they often fight for a little money. What about the rich? There is only one word for the need, "buy"!

Possession of material things is not the original sin, everyone has the right to pursue better material things, and even this is human nature. You must know that Qiong Yao's style is all produced in the rich and noble, to put it bluntly, it is only the rich and noble who have nothing to do when they are full of food and have nothing to do to think about these things. In the old society, love was only a matter for scholars and young wealthy classes, and they used to flirt with their sisters, they could marry as wives, accept as concubines, and sing poems with prostitutes in Qinglou. But for most men, they are still struggling for "marriage", what the hell is love, they don't care at all...... In today's society, if you are tired like a dog at work all day and night, and work overtime until more than 10 o'clock at night, what kind of love will you still think? I'm afraid that if you are given a bed, you can sleep until the sky is dark!

"Why, isn't it like that?" Zhou Deqing asked rhetorically, his expression a little complicated.

(End of chapter)