Chapter 36: I Must Be the One Who Remains
"What is the case assigned to Cheng Guangli?" Luo Nan asked.
"A young man who has just graduated and just came to work in Shangyang City from other places has symptoms of depressed mood, depression and irritability, and the initial judgment should be adjustment disorder. This kind of problem, you know, as long as the counselor gives him strong support, it will automatically get better after two or three weeks. ”
Luo Nan's heart sank. This case and his case are not on the same level of difficulty.
Generally, it is more difficult to give psychological counseling to children, because children's intellectual development is not complete, language expression ability and comprehension are limited, and adults have difficulties in communicating with children. In addition, the child's own problems are also relatively serious, and he was referred by a formal counselor who couldn't handle it, which made it even more difficult.
It can be said that his case is hell-level difficulty, while Cheng Guangli's case is easy.
"Why is this happening?" Ronan reluctantly spoke, "Teachers make this kind of mistake when assigning?"
"Maybe I want to put pressure on you and sharpen you. Deng Xiaoru looked absent-minded.
"Yes. Lonan didn't believe the answer.
"In short," Deng Xiaoru said, "you must find a way to find a breakthrough as soon as possible." I heard that your client was very resistant to psychological counseling, but was forcibly sent by his family. You first have to make him willing to receive psychological counseling. ”
Luo Nan nodded: "I will." Thank you, Xiaoru. ”
"You have to come on," Deng Xiaoru glanced at Luo Nan deeply, "You and Guangli are my friends, and you are both very good to me." I want you all to stay, but the reality is that you can only keep one. So, in fact, I hope Guangli can stay. ”
Luo Nan was stunned.
"Because he can't compare to you, and you are more talented than him in psychological counseling. Even if you leave the golden wheat fields, you can find food somewhere else. Guangli is different, if he loses this platform, it is likely that he will have to leave the industry. Deng Xiaoru said softly.
Luo Nan smiled bitterly: "I don't want to leave here either." He was not disgusted by Deng Xiaoru's words. There are differences between distant and close relatives, and compared with himself, Cheng Guangli is usually more warm and considerate to Deng Xiaoru, and he is almost meticulous. People's hearts are flesh and blood, Deng Xiaoru is more inclined to Cheng Guangli, and Luo Nan feels that he can understand it completely.
"I know," Deng Xiaoru said, "I don't want you to go either." If you can get this case done beautifully, maybe you can both stay. ”
Luo Nan was stunned again: "You mean, Cheng Guangli will definitely be able to stay, even if he doesn't do well enough in this case?"
Deng Xiaoru was silent for a while before lowering her voice and saying: "Guangli's cousin has a very strong relationship with Teacher Zhou Yuewen, and they often drink and clubhouse together, and the two families often move around. ”
Luo Nan nodded. Everything is clear. "Even so, I won't give up. If there is only one left, I must be the one who remains. ”
"Come on," Deng Xiaoru stood on tiptoe and patted Luo Nan on the shoulder, "Unleash your potential." ”
Looking at the back of Deng Xiaoru leaving, Luo Nan shook his head and smiled bitterly. "I must be the one who can stay", this kind of rhetoric is easy to say, but too difficult to do. The difficulty of the two cases is too different, and Luo Nan is not confident that he will be able to make the child better in two or three weeks. You can only take one step and look at one step.
Of course, he has the big killer weapon of "god-level hypnosis", which is a big advantage. As long as it is done properly, it may not be impossible to turn the situation around.
Ronan rubbed his temples. Don't think so much about it for the time being, let's focus entirely on Du Zhenzhen's case.
He rushed to the bathroom, washed his face with cold water, and began to prepare for the consultation with Du Zhenzhen.
At 3:45 p.m., Du Zhenzhen arrived at the door of the golden wheat field. She wears sunglasses, a black translucent silk short-sleeved smock with a tights underneath, a small beige satchel, a pair of washed denim shorts underneath, a pair of crystal-themed high-heeled sandals on her feet, and colorful toenails.
Luo Nan went to open the door for her, and she was amazed on the spot, only to feel that the hormones all over her body were restless. He finally suppressed the throbbing in his heart, and smiled gently in the appearance of Teacher Huang Yaokun: "You are here, please come in." ”
"I'll have something to do later, so I'm here early. Can you start earlier?" Du Zhenzhen took off his sunglasses and walked into the office.
"Yes, the consultation room is available right now. What kind of tea do you drink?"
"Plain water is fine. ”
Luo Nan went to the water dispenser and poured her a glass of purified water with a disposable paper cup, handed it to her, and led her into the consultation room.
The furnishings of the six consultation rooms are the same, one long and one short, and a small round table with a box of tissues, a transparent vase, and even the flowers in the vase are identical.
Luo Nan took Du Zhenzhen into the No. 4 consultation room, invited her to sit down on the short sofa, and took out a registration form for her to fill out.
After filling it out, Du Zhenzhen returned the form to Luo Nan, squeezed out a smile, and said in her crisp and beautiful voice like a yellow warbler: "This is my first time doing psychological counseling. ”
Luo Nan smiled mildly and said, "Don't be nervous, the consultation room should be the most relaxing place in the world." Here you say that anything is safe, I will not judge, and will keep it confidential for you. ”
Luo Nan no longer has to use the rights and obligations of the counselor and the client to relieve the tension, so he just briefly introduced two sentences and intervened in the main topic.
"Really, can I call you that?"
"Yes. ”
"You've been reluctant to do counselling before, but yesterday you suddenly agreed. May I ask, what happened yesterday?" Ronan asked with a smile.
Du Zhenzhen's expression darkened, she picked up the disposable paper cup, took a sip in disguise, and then held the paper cup in both hands and turned it unconsciously, and it took a long time before she made up her mind to speak: "Yesterday my girlfriend told me that she broke up." ”
Luo Nan looked sympathetic: "This makes you very sad. ”
"Yes," said Du Zhenzhen, gloomily, "I have always been very good to her, and I can say that as long as I have, I am willing to give her anything, and as long as I can do it, I will do my best." ”
"Sounds like you're giving in unilaterally. ”
"No, she also gave a lot," Du Zhenzhen said busily, "and she also suffered a lot of pressure in order to be with me." ”
Luo Nan nodded and did not speak. In counseling, the counselor does not need to talk non-stop. More often than not, only a nod and a gesture are needed to let the visitor narrate freely and freely, so as to better create an atmosphere and establish a consultative relationship.