The agreed consultation time for Tao Jiahao is 3 to 4 pm.

However, Luo Nan waited in the office until 3:20, Cheng Guangli's consultation had been going on for a long time, and Tao Jiahao had not yet appeared.

Luo Nan had no choice but to ask Teacher Huang Yaokun.

Huang Yaokun took out his mobile phone and slowly flipped through the address book: "You call this number, it's Tao Jiahao's father's phone." ”

Luo Nan dialed the landline in the office, and after two rings, the other party answered. It was a dull middle-aged man's voice, a little hoarse, a little slurred, giving people the feeling of a hangover and not waking up, "Which one?"

"Hello, Mr. Tao Changlu, right? I'm Luo Nan from the Golden Wheat Field Psychological Counseling Room. We had an appointment with you to have a counseling session for your son from 3 to 4 p.m. today, but you haven't come here yet, so I want to ask what the situation is?"

"Oh, this, Jiahao doesn't want to go over. Tao Changlu said lightly.

If you don't come, you won't come, won't you call to let me know? Luo Nan only felt angry and didn't want to get angry. He said patiently: "Mr. Tao, I know a little about your son's situation, and it is better to continue to receive consultation." ”

"He doesn't want to go, what can I do. ”

You are his father, can't you persuade him? What do you mean by "what can I do?" is really speechless.

Skipping classes, fighting, threatening to commit suicide by jumping off a building, threatening to hack grandparents to death if they don't give him pocket money...... The child's condition is already very serious, and if he does not actively intervene in the treatment, he may be ruined for the rest of his life. You, a father, aren't in a hurry at all?

Luo Nan covered the microphone and asked Huang Yaokun: "Teacher Huang, he said that Tao Jiahao didn't want to come over." ”

Huang Yaokun thought for a while: "You ask him, is it okay for you to come to the door for consultation." ”

Luo Nan was stunned. There is no precedent for such a consultation in the Golden Wheat Field. If the client is reluctant to come, it means that he does not have a strong desire to ask for help, and the correct choice of the counselor in this case is to give up the consultation, because there is no point in continuing the consultation, and it will not be effective at all.

If you do come to the door for this consultation, then you will already lose half of the case competition.

Huang Yaokun said: "This child's grandmother...... I used to be a teacher at Shangyang Normal and a colleague of Teacher Lin Peiying, and I had a good relationship. This case was explained by teacher Lin Peiying. ”

Only then did Luo Nan understand. He could only nod helplessly and picked up the phone: "Mr. Tao, are you at home with your son?

Tao Changlu yawned: "Don't do it." ”

At this time, the voice of an elderly woman next to him said something, and he changed his words, "Okay, you can come here, we are at home." Galore is playing a game. ”

"Alright, I'll be right here. Luo Nan asked for the address and hung up the phone.

Huang Yaokun looked at him: "It is quite difficult to come to the door to consult. Home is a safe place, but it is also the most likely place for the client to retreat, and the client prefers to stay in his 'safe zone' and it is difficult to have an in-depth discussion with him, let alone make him change. So the main task of your visit this time is to persuade the child to continue to come to the counseling room. ”

Luo Nan nodded: "I understand. ”

"You can take a call, and the fare can be reimbursed. ”

Tao Jiahao's address is in the family area of Shangyang Normal University. When Lonan arrived, it was already 4 p.m.

This building is a small high-rise building without an elevator, the house is relatively old, and the exterior wall has long been mottled. Luo Nan walked up the stairs and knocked on Tao Jiahao's door.

A short, stocky woman with gray hair and reading glasses opened the door. "You ......"

"I'm Lonan, a consultant at Golden Wheat. You're Tao Jiahao's grandmother, aren't you?" said Luo Nan politely.

"Yes, my surname is Li, you can call me Teacher Li. Please come in, no need to change shoes, the floor is not very clean. ”

Luo Nan walked into the room and took a look. The room was messy, with a foul smell mixed with beer. There was a mess of blankets on the couch that someone had apparently slept on, and below the small coffee table was a mess of melon seed shells, plastic packaging bags, and a few empty beer cans.

Teacher Li, an elderly woman, nagged and introduced: "This is the old house I was assigned before, after my son divorced his wife, the house belonged to his ex-wife, and he took Jiajia to live here." The house is a little messy, I'm sorry, he's a single man who always doesn't pay attention to tidying up, and I only help them clean up when I come over. That room was Jiajia's bedroom, and he was playing a game in it, and no one paid attention to it. ”

Luo Nan didn't rush in to find Tao Jiahao, but wanted to learn about the situation from Teacher Li first. At this time, there was a sound of flushing water in the toilet, and soon a middle-aged man with messy hair, a big wine trough nose, and slightly swollen eyes walked out.

"This is Mr. Xiao Luo in the consultation room," Mr. Li introduced, "Mr. Xiao Luo, that's my son." ”

The middle-aged man Tao Changlu glanced at Luo Nan indifferently, then looked away with disinterest, and nodded perfunctorily: "Hello." ”

Luo Nan shook his head in his heart. It seems that the divorce has destroyed this man, and he no longer has the will to live well. However, it is also possible that because he is such a person, his wife couldn't stand it and divorced him.

In any case, Tao Jiahao's child's situation is inseparable from him, a father.

There is a saying in the field of psychological counseling: all problems in children can be found in parents.

The psychological problems of children must be the continuation and change of their parents' psychological problems.

If I had lived in such an environment since I was a child, maybe I would have been worse off than this child. Although he hadn't seen Tao Jiahao yet, Luo Nan was already full of sympathy for the child.

"Teacher Xiaoluo, I'm really embarrassed, I just called to ask and found out that Jiajia didn't go to consult. This kid was promised well, and I don't know why he didn't want to go. Please, please bother, this child needs help so much. ”

"It's all right," said Ronan, "I'll talk to him later, and I'll do my best to help him." ”

"There was a teacher Liu in your counseling room who had consulted him before, and he only did it twice, and the child said that he would not go to anything," said Teacher Li with a wry smile, "It is really a trouble for you." ”

"It's okay," Luo Nan had learned enough information from the case written by Liu Xin, and now there was only one question left, "Mr. Li, what kind of attitude did your grandson have when he refused to continue counseling?"