Chapter 42: Tao Jiahao's Problem

After asking this sentence, Luo Nan hurriedly transported the "qi" and sensed Tao Jiahao's thoughts.

"I want to play a lot of games. ”

"I want to be a leader for justice in the world of the 'walking dead.' ”

"I want to get good grades and be respected!"

But one of the strongest and strongest thoughts is:

"I want to be a police officer!"

Tao Jiahao was silent for a long time, as if he was thinking.

Lonan smiled, "What do you really want to do? Be a police officer?"

Tao Jiahao showed a shocked expression, and then pouted awkwardly. "No, you're talking nonsense. ”

"Whether I am talking nonsense or not, you know very well yourself. But if you continue like this, can you become a police officer?" Luo Nan said with a smile, "Now that civil servants enter the entrance examination, you must first graduate from college before you are eligible to take the civil service examination." If you don't get good grades and you can't even get into college, how can you become a police officer?"

"Don't worry about it!" Tao Jiahao said stiffly.

"It's really not my business, it's your own dream," Luo Nan said, "If you want to make it happen, you have to start making changes now." But change is a very difficult thing, and each of us has the weakness of preferring to stay in a comfortable safe zone rather than make a change, and in the end we can only waste time and have no way to do what we really want to do. ”

"I'm fine now, nothing to change. Tao Jiahao twisted his neck and looked to the side angrily.

"Ask yourself, are you happy with who you are? Do you really not need to change?"

As Luo Nan spoke, he sensed Tao Jiahao's thoughts, and suddenly stretched out his shoulder, reinforcing one of his thoughts.

"I'm not satisfied with who I am now, I want to change, I don't want to go on like this!"

This thought continued to amplify until it occupied Tao Jiahao's entire consciousness space. His expression struggled for a moment, and he hesitated to ask, "What if...... I mean, if I want to make a little change, what do I do?"

Luo Nan smiled and withdrew his hand: "We can discuss this issue in the consultation." ”

Tao Jiahao pouted: "Say whatever you want." ”

Luo Nan Zhengse said: "If I say something casually now, will you believe it? Will you do it? Only in psychological counseling can you make profound changes and become what you want." And if you want to do psychological counseling, you must not be in your home. If you want your consultation to be effective, please come to our consultation room. ”

Tao Jiahao lowered his head and was silent.

"Tomorrow at three o'clock in the afternoon, ask your dad to take you to the consultation room. "Luo Nan hit the railroad while it was hot.

Tao Jiahao still didn't say anything, didn't say he was going, and he didn't clearly say that he wouldn't go.

Ronan sensed his mixed thoughts.

"Do I really need help?"

"Is it really impossible for me to go on like this?"

"It's so uncomfortable, I miss my mother. ”

"It's good that Mom is here, Dad doesn't understand anything. ”

"Do you want to go? It's the most annoying to preach, and if he preaches me too, he'll be annoyed to death. ”

"I'm not sick, so why do I need to do psychological counseling? ”

"Why don't you try it, it's not fun to go on like this anyway, why don't you try and see if this person can really help me make a difference." ”

This last thought was exactly what Luo Nan needed. He quickly crossed over a "qi" and let this idea take root and grow.

Then Luo Nan didn't wait for Tao Jiahao to speak, and stood up: "Then so be it, tomorrow at three o'clock in the afternoon, I will wait for you in the consultation room, don't be late." ”

Tao Jiahao still sat there quietly, not making any statement.

Luo Nan opened the door and walked out, Teacher Li was cleaning in the living room, she was staggering and slow, Luo Nan hurriedly stepped forward and grabbed the broom in her hand and helped clean it.

Teacher Li smiled and wiped the corners of his forehead: "Teacher Xiaoluo, how is the child?"

"Let him go to the counseling room tomorrow, he has agreed," said Ronan, "don't worry, I will do my best to help him." ”

Teacher Li sighed faintly and nagged, "This kid wasn't like this before. When his mother was still there, she was very strict with him, and at that time he was a child with excellent character and learning, and his grades were always in the top 10 of his grade, and he also passed grade 8 in piano. But after his parents divorced, he began to take classes seriously, and later even skipped class, playing games and watching TV at home......"

Luo Nan knew all this background information, so he didn't interject, just nodded.

Teacher Li showed a sad expression: "His father only knows how to drink every day now, and when he comes back from work, he just drinks, and he doesn't care about him at all, and he can't care about it." If we don't come and cook for them, they're just eating KFC, and they're not nutritious at all. ”

The KFC bag on Tao Jiahao's bed says it all.

"My eldest grandson Xiaozhi has good grades, I gave Xiaozhi a laptop, and Jiajia quarreled with us, saying that he wanted it too, otherwise he would jump from the building. I lent money to my eldest son, and Jiajia's uncle bought a trolley, and Jiajia said that he wanted me to buy him a trolley, and the quarrel was unpeaceful. ”

"He skipped class and played games every day, and my wife and I sometimes couldn't stand it and wanted to take care of it. I can't help it, if we say a few more words, he will annoy us and threaten to kill us. ”

Luo Nan kept nodding, his heart heavy. He can fully understand the pain and helplessness in Mr. Li's heart.

As he spoke, Mr. Li's cloudy old eyes began to flicker. She quickly wiped it and barely squeezed out a smile: "Teacher Xiaoluo, my grandson will please you." ”

Luo Nan nodded: "I will do my best." Mr. Li, I want to know about it, Jiajia's parents divorced last year, why did they divorce in the first place?"

Teacher Li thought for a moment and said, "The reason is quite complicated. The biggest reason, I think there are two, one is the concept of children's education is different, my daughter-in-law is very strict with Jiajia, the requirements are very high, since he was a child, he has been given this tutorial class and that training class. My son hopes that Jiajia will be relaxed and enjoy a happy childhood, and the two of them often quarrel over this. On the other hand, it was my daughter-in-law who always felt that my son was not motivated enough, did not work seriously, and had no future in his career. ”

"Where is Jiajia's mother now? I learned that she rarely comes to see Jiajia now, only once or twice a year. ”

"She just got divorced and found an American who went to China on a business trip, and now she is married to the United States," Mr. Li's expression seemed to be disdainful, "It's rare to come back once." ”

"Won't she video chat with Jia Jia or something?"

"Nope. The woman had no conscience. Mr. Li summed it up in one sentence.

Ronan was thoughtful. Judging from these descriptions, he can roughly sort out the reason for Tao Jiahao's current problems.

It is nothing more than rebellion and backlash after being severely disciplined, and the sudden loss of my mother in my life, the hesitation and fear are difficult to adapt, and the whole person becomes inferior and sensitive.