Chapter 786: Jumping into the sea today, but remembering the pond
In his previous life, when he was still a stupid and cute teenager, Fang Tian accidentally read Zhang Ailing's article, and there was a sentence that said: "Sitting on the tram and looking up at the people standing in front of him, there are as many dignified and unconventional appearances as possible, but the nostrils are rarely clean." ”
At that time, Fang Tian was really taken aback.
Because he had never looked at his nostrils before.
At that time, except for lamenting that the perspectives or concerns of men and women are quite different, there is basically nothing else. At this time, Fang Tian recalled these words again.
Certainly not by chance.
Rather, it is naturally triggered by the reflection on the theme of "perspective".
It's just about height, when you're taller or lower than a person, the result should be different. In fact, the normal relationship between the world, height is the least, and in addition to this, there are too many other things.
Appearance, grooming, decoration, bearing......
These are relatively direct, and through these directness, many times the background, status, money, and power are considered......
Then, synthesically, a relationship between the other and the other is established.
Extending from here, it touches on the issue of "superiors" and "subordinates". The upper and lower positions here do not have to be compared with the official positions of the system or anything, let alone simple superiors and subordinates, but can be extended between all two individuals.
Fathers and sons, husbands and wives, brothers and sisters, friends, grudges, strangers, all are fine.
between the parties. As long as there is a difference in any aspect, it is possible to lead to a certain difference between the upper and lower positions, and then one side becomes the "superior one". The other side is the natural "inferior".
Generally speaking, the inferior has different attachments to the superior.
Cheng dù light, called "good, like, like", that is, your opinion I always support, Cheng dù general, called echo. Cheng dù is slightly heavier, called Bajie, Fengying, Cheng dù is heavier. It's called dependence, and no matter how heavy Cheng dù is, it's called a slave and a knee or something.
Even between two people who are completely strangers, once one party positions himself as an "inferior" in his heart. Then it's for the "superiors". You will involuntarily become restrained, and many times, you will involuntarily appear to be attached.
In Fang Tian's previous life, there was a time when he was a little strange about this.
Because if there is an intersection between the lives of the two parties, then it is normal to converge. But many times, it is clear that it is impossible or unlikely for the two sides to intersect in the future, what benefits can you get by "pleasing others" like this?
The answer is, nothing good.
So the reason for this. It can only be the instinct of life to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages.
In other words, it is a matter of principle. It is not a question of how much benefit is actually received or how much damage is suffered. -- This is also the reason why many "superiors" who understand this principle can command the "subordinates" without having to pay anything, or just by paying a small amount.
This is usually the case for the inferior to the superior.
And what about the superior vs. the inferior?
The situation is a little more complicated.
Because there are more routes to choose from, it can be override, affinity, or indifference. -- This is especially the case when it comes to indifference.
At first glance, it seems that indifference is better than overbearing, because indifference is nothing more than indifference, and overriding is contempt, bullying, and even bullying and persecution.
But the essence of indifference is not to put oneself and the other party on the same platform to compare, more directly, not to see oneself and the other party as the same kind.
One person bullies another, and this is overpower.
A person sees a corner of the house covered with sugar or something, crawling with ants, and then pours a bowl of hot water on it, scalding all the ants to death, this is called indifference.
When a person is indifferent to the whole world because he has no one close to him......
In the myths and legends of the previous life, the so-called destruction of the gods is almost like this. Because of indifference, it doesn't matter if the whole world is destroyed in the palm of your hand.
Fortunately, this is just a myth, just a legend.
Whether it is in a previous life or in this life, in reality, there will definitely be many people who have similar thoughts, the only difference is that they are not capable.
Fang Tian's initial feeling of the next step of the "fog period" is mysterious, but in fact, to put it bluntly, it is what kind of principles, positions, and attitudes are used to face the problems of the outside world. This outside world includes people, but also other living beings, or the whole world in the larger sphere.
"With a sharp weapon, the murderous intent arises. In his previous life, Li Hongzhang said.
Regardless of whether the evaluation of this Excellency among future generations is positive or negative, as a person with power in his hands, it is obvious that he has personal feelings when he says this.
The instinct of life is to stretch, this stretch, when in a weak position, the table is resistant, stubborn, when in a strong position, the surface will come out of the rough and crushing, the outside world is slightly disobedient, that is, a palm to slap over......
People generally appreciate resistance and understand stubbornness, but they hate roughness and crushing, perhaps because most people are not in a position of weakness in some aspects.
But in fact, these two situations are essentially the same.
In other words, strong people appreciate directness (roughness), approve of decisiveness (crushing, one-size-fits-all), hate indecisiveness (listen to the opinions of many parties), and despise mud and water (weighing the interests of all parties).
And basically, people in a three-dimensional environment are a composite of weak and strong. A person is always strong in front of some people, weak in front of some people, strong in some environments, and weak in certain environments.
It is rare to find someone who is always strong or weak, and most of the time, always changing.
So many times, it will contradict itself.
Take a chestnut casually, for example, I think I'm a good person, but, "I know you're not doing well, so I'm at ease." - Do you really think you're a good person?
It really would.
Inside. There is no falsehood.
The real situation is much more complicated than this, and a person's total "consciousness" is actually a collection of many contradictions. At this point, the idea takes over. After a while, maybe just by turning around, the idea changes, or even becomes the opposite of before......
For such a situation, ordinary people actually don't care, because everyone is the same.
As the so-called "people are not sages", there is no need to be too demanding.
But cultivators are exceptional.
Cultivated by cultivators. This is what it is, "body", "mental power", "consciousness", "heart", this is the cross practice system established by Fang Tian before.
"Consciousness", "Heart". For Fang Tian, in the past, these two things were only related. Influence each other. And after this recent step, it has become a one-two, two-and-one relationship.
From the moment a person is born, no, in fact, it starts before birth (prenatal education makes sense), and from the moment life is established, the guò body is constantly feeling the outside world, receiving and feeling all kinds of information, and this information is synthesized. It's called "consciousness."
Consciousness is stained with dust.
"There is a leak in the body, and there is an infection in the knowledge. For the earthly body and mind. "I said so in the Six Realms.
Fang Tian had summarized and told Gallodos and others about the three things of "original heart", "dust heart", and "Dao heart", and at that time he thought that "dust heart" was just a person's various prejudices.
But now after taking this step, he realized that he was wrong.
Or rather, superficial.
The truth is that a person's consciousness, all its things, is prejudice, and there is nothing unbiased at all!
How can you not be biased?
You are from an average background, so you are envious and jealous of a good background, you are average-looking, so you are envious and jealous of a good appearance, you have an average brain, so you are envious and jealous of a good brain, you are average, so you are envious and jealous of a good person, you have an average career, so you are envious and jealous of a good career......
For some reason or experience, you like to eat sugar or spicy and sour food......
For some reason, you ......
"Consciousness" is mere information, while "mind" colors this information.
In other words, "consciousness" is a house, and everyone has a house like this, but the size of the house is different, and those who have more experience have a larger house, and those who have less experience have a small house.
And the "heart" is the doors and windows of this house.
Then a person's activity is to pass through these doors and windows, so that the "consciousness" can communicate with the outside world. (The so-called hypnotic interrogation in the previous life was to bypass the screening and restrictions of doors and windows, and directly engage in dialogue with the overall consciousness.) )
As far as Fang Tian himself was concerned, when he came to this world and received the body of that "little stone", his own consciousness had almost dissipated, but even if it didn't dissipate at all, Fang Tian's actions would be different from him.
In addition to his own consciousness, it is also because Fang Tian's "doors and windows" are different from the "little stone".
In my previous life, there was a term called "washing the mind and changing the face", and from the perspective of a cultivator, this term is very meaningful. -- That person's "consciousness" has not changed, or has not changed much, but the entry and exit door of his consciousness, that is, his "heart," has changed, and then the whole person is very different from before.
It's a very common thing that happens and continues to happen to almost all people, such as being obsessed with something when you were a child or a teenager, and later, although the things are still those things, you can no longer get into the concentration and enthusiasm of that time.
Or, on the other hand, he has been impetuous, but slowly or suddenly, he has sunk down......
This is the fact that the consciousness does not change (in fact, there is also a change, but it occupies a secondary position), and the mind changes greatly.
Fang Tian's promotion this time was exactly the opposite.
In this promotion, his heart has basically changed little or little, but his consciousness has completely changed.
In a previous life, there were many fishing enthusiasts. - Fang Tian also used to play elegantly for a while, but later found out that he was not that material.
Every time you catch a fish, you are happy and happy.
Even every fish you catch will be carefully examined.
The growth of consciousness is similar.
Because it is not easy to come by, every period of growth is worth cherishing. When I look back, I often sigh and miss it. In other words, not everyone is a fishing enthusiast, but it is true that everyone has the mood of a fishing enthusiast.
For Fang Tian, the previous cultivation of consciousness was fishing.
Fish one by one.
And after this promotion, suddenly, he found that there was an extra thing called a fishing net in his hand, and he only had to catch it with a net at will, and the fish he caught would be much more than the fish he had caught in his previous life and this life combined......
What kind of mood is this?
Joy, the joy of harvest?
Perhaps.
But there is also something called melancholy, called nostalgia. -- In any case, some of the sensations are hard to find.
Therefore, the day before yesterday, Fang Tiancai would say to Lobel: "But when I was not an adult, there were only so many people I knew, and there was no more chance." So I cherish, cherish that time in the past, and cherish the people I met during that time. ”
It's really not hypocrisy.
"Jun asked that the return date is not due, and the night rain in Bashan rises in the autumn pool. He cut the candles in the west window together, but when it rained at night in Bashan. ”
This situation can be recalled, but it was already clear at the time. ”
Combining these two poems by Li Shangyin, the appointment can describe Fang Tian's mood at this time, but it is only about touching. As for the more specific, it's really hard to tell.
In any case, a new path has begun.
New experiences are also coming.
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This is the end of this volume. Enter the next volume, the night rain of the rivers and lakes. In order to meet the future, Fang Tian walked into history. (To be continued......)