Wenwen was actually very unhappy when he brushed the dishes, because he hadn't brushed at all, but the most unhappy thing was to continue to write his homework.

From the age of four, Wenwen carried a huge pressure on his shoulders, and began to learn piano and English at the age of four, learn Olympiad mathematics at the age of five, and memorize Tang poems at the age of six. Although adults praised him as a little prodigy, he was not happy at all, had no friends, did not know how to socialize, and had to practice extra after returning from school.

Her mother is a person who always strives for higher things, and when she can't make more progress, her hope is placed on her son.

When you go to someone else's house, you have to do your homework by the way, and you can see without wasting a minute that this mother's pursuit is over, and she wants to pin all her unfinished dreams on him.

And the aunt herself wanted not to let Wenwen wash the dishes at first, because after all, this precious son had never washed the dishes, but she was afraid of leaving Chen Tian with an impression of dishonesty, so she could only watch from the side.

While watching and guiding, Chen Tian also touched his nose and was speechless for a while, this kid has never washed the dishes with such a big feeling?

is a seventeen-year-old sophomore in high school, and I think Chen Tian himself, he has been a boarder since the beginning of the junior year, and he doesn't have to wash his clothes, pants and bowls every day.

Seeing his hurried appearance, he couldn't help it: "Auntie, if I'm not mistaken, Wenwen is going to go to college in the United States?"

"yes, Statham University, or Coconut University. My aunt said proudly.

Chen Tian couldn't help but say: "Why don't you forget it, Wenwen dishes won't be washed, go to the United States alone, you can rest assured?"

"It's okay, the United States has a canteen, you don't need him to wash the dishes, and the apartment has a washing machine, I've thought about it. The confidence on my aunt's face didn't seem to be able to hear the deep meaning of Chen Tian's words.

But Chen Tian continued: "Then have you ever asked Wenwen if he wants to go to the United States?"

“......”

Wenwen put down the bowl in his hand, and seemed to have questions about this question.

Yes, do you want to go? What is it like there, from childhood to adulthood, it was my mother who arranged everything, and Wenwen never thought about whether she wanted to or not.

My aunt said: "How could Wenwen not want to go, how good is the United States, the most developed country in Bluestar, the world's financial technology center, tell Xiaotian that you want to go!"

“...... I, I don't know......" Wenwen stammered, "I haven't thought about this problem, I don't know what US imperialism is like at all......"

"Then you just think about what you want in the future, what you want to do, and then you can do it towards that goal. The road of life is to be walked by oneself, isn't it?" Chen Tian continued.

"......" Wenwen was silent, thought for a long time, and said, "I want to learn to paint...... I don't want to go to the US imperialism. ”

After speaking, he secretly glanced at his mother, and felt a wonderful relaxation in the whole person.

My aunt looked incredulous: "Don't make trouble, don't you listen to your mother now?"

Chen Tian interrupted: "The path of life is originally chosen by yourself, is it because you are your mother that you can decide your life for him?"

My aunt seemed to be about to cry: "What do you know, how much effort I have put into him, I don't go for a walk every day, I don't play mahjong, I ask him for the best tutor, and I make the most nutritious breakfast, and now the American emperor says that I won't go?"

Chen Tian said: "You are not for Wenwen, you are just for yourself, in terms of family, you already have enough economic strength, but you have your own unfinished dream, and now you are forcing him to complete it for you, you pay a lot, but Wenwen is happy? He can't shout at the dinner table, can't speak, can't handle interpersonal relationships, and can't even take care of himself when he leaves home, can he force him to do things he doesn't like if it's good for him?"

Chen Tian's words, the bombardment of the crowd, Wenwen himself was inexplicably sad, he remembered his childhood, other people's children were playing outside, and he could only play the piano at home.

There were no toys in the room, it was all books, and the people in the school talked about games, celebrities, and pop songs, and he couldn't say a word.

Everyone in the class seems to be isolating him, because he hurts people when he opens his mouth, and he never thinks about how to speak.

A girl once rejected his favor and said: "We have different views, I said that the sea is beautiful, but you said that many people have drowned." ”

Now he suddenly wants to think about whether he wants to go to the United States and whether he can live happily like others.

And these, Chen Tian has basically guessed, from his behavior and life, you can roughly guess his past with a few words, Chen Tian himself is afraid to make friends because of bad luck, but he is because of family reasons, feeling his fate, Chen Tiancai can't help but want to help him.

My aunt said, "Wenwen, let's go home and talk about it!"

But Wenwen seemed to have made a lot of determination: "Mom, I really don't want to go to the United States, I don't even know how to deal with Chinese people, I still want to stay in China!"

"You...... Are you going to be angry with your mother?" said my aunt in a hoarse voice.

And Chen Tian sighed: "Auntie, listen to my advice, Wenwen is not your private property, and his ideas need to be respected." ”

At this time, my uncle, who had not spoken, came over: "Lili, what Xiaotian said is right, the text has come to the city for almost a year, and I have the qualifications to make my own decisions, I used to say don't force it too hard, and now it's normal to have today." ”

Chen Tian has always felt that there is nothing wrong with his parents' hope that their son Jackie Chan is not wrong, but he does not work hard to complete his dream, but entrusts his child to let him complete it for himself, which is originally a way to shirk responsibility.

Don't children have their own dreams, they inherit the dreams of their parents, and in the future they will pass on their dreams to the next generation, and so on from generation to generation.

In the end, my aunt's eyes were red and I left with my uncle Wenwen, and my uncle decided directly before leaving, Wenwen's university applied for it by itself, and he wanted to take the exam wherever he wanted.

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In fact, I also feel uncomfortable, and it may cause dissatisfaction, and the atmosphere is full of depression, but I want every character in the book to have flesh and blood, not a face-painted villain, and forget it after hitting the face, this person doesn't exist, and there is no memory. And real people, where is it so simple, I think when everyone recalls this book, they can still have some memories, can tell a special story, my writing may not be good enough, can not be perfectly controlled to make everyone laugh.