Chapter 576: Hold Your Heart
readx;?“ Dad, we can first quietly ask our sister-in-law's opinion on this matter, if she agrees, we will hide it from the Fang family first, quietly send someone to Fangjiaao, build the house, and publicize it there first, then it will be said that the sister-in-law is filial piety, and it will be a surprise for Fang Xin and his wife. Pen % fun % Pavilion www.biquge.info
Fang Xin's morale is so high, he will definitely not be able to stay in our house, even if Fang Wang is a person with ideas, he will definitely be dragged back at that time.
As soon as they leave, we can find a matchmaker next, and when the filial piety is over, we must urge Fang Qiangsheng to marry a wealthy wife.
Well, no matter what the other party looks like, he must have the strength to be a handle, and it is best to have a pungent temperament, keep Fang Qiangsheng to eat to death, and be able to stage a farce with Fang Wang's family at home every day. ”
Yan Shengguo didn't think it was right, "What kind of bad idea did you come up with? Even if they offended us severely, there was no need to ruin our marriage."
If the woman is a good one, it is a girl who is so blind with a fresh flower in cow dung. If she is not a good person, it will definitely bring new pain to the Fang family, and it is still a trivial matter to make the chicken and dog restless, if something big happens, how will you let your sister-in-law deal with herself in the future?
No matter how bad the character of the Fang family is, it is her mother's family after all. Don't say that the daughter who marries out is the water that is spilled. In the future, if you marry into Gaomen, presumably in the eyes of those powerful families in the capital, our Yan family is also not worth mentioning, is it because of this, as a daughter, you will alienate your mother's family and be ashamed of the Yan family?"
Yan Shunhua supported his forehead.
"Dad, one yard is one yard, I don't mean to let my sister-in-law dislike her mother's family. One side is in trouble and all sides are supported, not to mention their own original family. As the saying goes, 'A golden nest is not as good as your own kennel.' I would never have had that stupid idea on top of my head at any time.
But Dad, the situation of the Fang family is different. Fang Qiangsheng has such a temperament, someone must take care of it, otherwise it will definitely be someone who will bring disaster to future generations. Not to mention Fang Xin and his wife, one is reckless and ruthless, the other is snobbish, and they always have ghosts in their hearts. Is there still less time our family has suffered losses?
If it was in the past, we would have let our sister-in-law deal with her mother's family, but in the end, it would have developed to the eldest brother to bear it, and even you and your mother would solve the problem, whether it was up to the sister-in-law or not.
But it's really different now. Not to mention that my sister-in-law's heart has changed very much, and more importantly, now that she is still pregnant, even if her temperament has not changed as before, she does not have the mental strength to deal with her mother's family.
Dad, don't blame me for saying bad things, wicked people have their own wicked grinding, the reason why Fang Qiangsheng became like this is largely because Fang Xin and his wife were too doting, and they were not able to lead by example, and they never really disciplined their son seriously, and they have always been what they wanted.
The current situation is that Fang Qiang is better than the disabled, and Fang Xin and his wife are more and more afraid to say anything, especially after having a grandchild, they have already put all their attention on the newborn, you can see how nervous they are now.
Although our starting point is not for the sake of other Fang families, but to keep our family out of trouble as much as possible, it is not necessarily for the good of Fang family.
Marrying a rich girl with a domineering personality may have shortcomings that are unbearable for ordinary people, such as not looking good, such as being too strong, and having the shortcomings of body odor that are hidden and cannot be outside, etc., but as long as she has a decent heart and is not the kind of person who walks on the evil road, I don't think it is necessarily a bad thing for the other party. What do you think?"
was crackled by her and said this, what could Yan Shengguo think?
"You just don't want to have anything to do with the people of the Fang family, do you?"
Yan Shunhua didn't deny it, and nodded with a smile, "Daddy, do you want to have anything to do with their family?" Except for my sister-in-law, I don't want to see anyone from the Fang family again, and I can't wait to beat them up once I see them."
Do you still think that Fang Xin and his wife can reform themselves?
I feel grateful for being able to make Fang Qiangsheng change a little bit because he remarried a strong girl. If they don't want to be a reliable mother-in-law, at least they can't hold her back, which will affect the relationship between husband and wife, not to mention, but often affect our whole family. ”
Yan Shengguo snorted, his son is not there, and when facing his daughter, he will not hide his true thoughts at all.
"The dog can't change the ****, Fang Xin's person is a lot older, where else can he change it?
It's just that I don't think I should meddle in Fang Qiangsheng's marriage, if the person he marries is really good-hearted, it's okay to say, even if his family is upside down, our Yan family has a clear conscience. But what if the person he found was not suitable, and completely ruined Fang Qiangsheng, or even ruined the Fang family?
No matter how bad Fang Qiangsheng is, he is also your sister-in-law's younger brother, his life, Fang Xin and his wife can interfere, and even your sister-in-law can interfere, but our Yan family can't do this.
If you choose the wrong person, it will embarrass your sister-in-law and bring more trouble to our family. In case, in the future, bystanders will only say that our family has suffered by itself, since we have taken the trouble on our body, we must be responsible for the other party's strong life, and even take care of the three generations of the Fang family, which is even more depressing than eating Coptis chinensis.
Even if the person chosen is right, Fang Qiangsheng may not be able to be controlled. Wouldn't that hurt a good girl?
If we always see people talking about people, talking nonsense, swaying, swaying like grass on the wall, others will do whatever they want, instead of always acting openly and openly, then what is the difference between us and those who are not right-minded?
No, it's not appropriate. ”
Yan Shunhua was somewhat helpless about her father's upright attitude of repaying grievances with virtue, and she rolled her eyes directly without giving face.
"Dad, although my daughter said so, she is not the kind of person who is completely unreasonable and unreasonable. We just pick a few of the right people and then secretly match them up to create opportunities for both men and women. As for whether it will succeed or not, whether it is willing or not, that is, of course, it is up to the Fang family and the woman's family to decide.
I don't want to get out of the way, and I don't want to get into trouble enough to bring everything to our house, and they're not puppeteers, so I'm at my mercy.
What's more, your daughter and I are girls to be married, where do we have so much time to worry about the life's affairs of unrelated people?" )