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The last sentence, which sounded like a question for him, Huo Jinliang replied: "This is the greatness of women." Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info: >

"Can you eat a great woman, if she is great, she will only cheapen a man" Tao Yunfeng didn't buy it, she didn't want to be this kind of "great" "selfless dedication to the family" woman, if a woman dedicates herself to the family like this, why don't men do it themselves

"Men can also be great, why don't men dedicate themselves selflessly, why don't men be the same as women, while making money for the family, while leaving their parents, going to their mother-in-law's house, washing and cooking for their mother-in-law's house, and taking care of children, what do you do with a woman's surname and a man, do you see which man is so selfless and dedicated to the family"

This sound extreme, but Huo Jinliang was speechless.

He asked himself in his heart that after he got married, he would leave his parents and live in his mother-in-law's house, and everything would be based on his mother-in-law's house, but he couldn't do it. This is the same as a door-to-door son-in-law, who is not a door-to-door son-in-law must not accept it.

Everyone is only accustomed to accepting that after marriage, women go to the man's family, and everything is based on the man's family, otherwise they will be labeled as "not virtuous and unfilial", and if they don't want to live with the man's parents, they will be accused of all kinds of things, and they want their parents to live together, but the man does not agree, but it is taken for granted.

Of course, Tao Yunfeng said this, not to ask him to focus on his mother-in-law's mother's family, he can only take care of her mother's family as much as he can in the future.

Tao Yunfeng continued: "Someone has to do housework, the elderly have to be taken care of, children have to be born, and they have to be brought after birth, so women do housework, take care of the elderly, give birth to children, and take care of children, yes, but these are not only what women should do, men also have a share, it can't be said that women let men share housework, she herself is lazy to do." In addition to the fact that men can't have children, women should do it for the family, men should do the same, and men also have this obligation, they can't throw a brainwashing bag, sweep the floor, laundry, cook, and take care of children is a woman's business, so all the things are pushed to women, and men go home and be uncles, and don't do anything."

Huo Jinliang understood what she said, that is, she wanted men and women to share housework, and women had to do housework, and men had to do it too.

At this point, she shouldn't be dissatisfied, he also does housework

They are now two people sharing the housework, he buys vegetables and cooks, she sweeps the floor and washes clothes, and cooks when she has time, she organizes things, decorates the house, and makes their home clean and tidy, beautiful and warm, and he buys vegetables and cooks, and he thinks about it, he seems to have nothing else but cooking, so she is unbalanced

Now they just live with two people, not with the elderly, and without children, you can imagine, after having children, living with her father and grandfather, she is tired from work for a day, and when she comes back from work, she has to mop the floor, wash clothes and cook, take care of the children, take care of grandpa to eat, drink and Lazar, and he cooks, if he comes back late, he doesn't cook. After late at night, when everyone else has nothing to do to sleep, she has to teach her children to study, put them to sleep, and do laundry. Finally, she was busy and finally went to bed, and she had to cooperate with her husband to pap well, thinking about it like this, it really makes people feel unbalanced.

She is complaining now that she feels that men and women are unequal, and other women who have been brainwashed by the "brainwashing bag" have been instilled with the idea that "women should be like this and should be like that", I am afraid that she doesn't even realize where the problem is, and will only silently "selflessly dedicate" her life to the family.

After a pause, Huo Jinliang suddenly found that his thoughts and thoughts were taken away by his wife

He pulled Tao Yunfeng back into his arms again, and said with a smile: "What my wife teaches me is that I will follow my wife's teachings"

Huo Jinliang did not stubbornly believe that women should be like this and should be like that, which was influenced by the family he grew up in. His father Jiang Yiqian is a door-to-door son-in-law, and after getting married, he lives with the woman's family, mainly the woman's family, while making money to support the family, he also takes care of the elderly and children, and shares family work with his mother. Huo Jinliang grew up in such a family, so he would resonate with the strings of opinions that Tao Yunfeng just said, but he didn't have the idea of straight male cancer, just because he was a man, he "didn't do this or that", but thought that women "should be like this and should be that".

Crackling vented the thoughts in his heart and the unbalanced anger in his heart, Tao Yunfeng finally felt happy and quiet.

She lay on Huo Jinliang's chest, and after a while, she sighed again: "Husband, fortunately the person I married is you, so considerate, it's really good to change to another man, the kind of man who thinks that marrying a woman home is to give birth to children, wash clothes, cook and take care of his parents, a woman like me must be disgusted to death, accused of being selfish, lazy, not diligent, not virtuous, not filial, not a qualified woman, even if she is cheated on by her husband and divorced, she is not worthy of sympathy for marrying that kind of man, I can only bear the name of my wife and be a nanny for the family"

She knew very well in her heart that only a man like Huo Jinliang could fully accept her and stand her, and it would be difficult to say if it was another man.

Therefore, she felt that it was her luck to marry Huo Jinliang and have a husband like him, and as her mother said, it was her blessing to be able to marry him.

Huo Jinliang's big palm, caressing her back, deliberately teased her and said: "Wife, if I want you to quit your job, teach your husband and children at home, and be a nanny, would you be willing?"

"Definitely not," she blurted out, a little annoyed.

Dare to love what she just said so much, all in vain

He then asked, "Then if you really love me, why don't you agree to me?"

She was really annoyed, propped herself up, left his arms, and said angrily: "Don't come and kidnap with love at every turn, and love a ghost, really love a fart"

"Well, no kidnapping. Huo Jinliang saw that she was really angry, pulled her back again, and apologized to her: "Wife, I'm sorry, don't be angry, I just teased you." My wife is a woman in the new era, she can go to the hall, go to the kitchen, write code, find out abnormalities, kill Trojan horses, climb walls, drive good cars, buy new houses, fight juniors, and fight hooligans. Marrying a wife who has mastered eighteen skills, how could I ask her to be a nanny at home. ”

"That's it" Tao Yunfeng listened to him apologize, and he was angry.

She didn't have the eighteen skills, but she had all the skills and had the ability to work and make money, so why should she be a nanny at home.

After talking for a long time, she went back to the beginning of the topic, she didn't say much, but just made it clear: "I can work, I am a designer, pursue my own career, fight for my life, and create more value for the society, why should I be a nanny at home and waste social talent resources." ”

Huo Jinliang smiled lightly: "When you are a talent, you are not modest. ”

"I'm telling the truth" worked as a nanny at home, and was beaten into a rice worm, so she didn't do it

She said this only for housewives who put all their energy into the family and did not participate in social work, not for workers who were real nannies. She goes to work to do design work, and compared to nanny workers, the two are equal, and she is not superior to nanny workers.

"I can do the job of a nanny at home, and I do the job of a designer, nanny may not be able to do it, I have more skills than nanny, relatively speaking, I am a talent, right"

This explanation is a bit far-fetched. What a nanny can do well, she may not be able to do well. But the design work she can do can't be done by ordinary nannies, and from this point of view, she has a lot of skills and is a talent, and it's not wrong.

Huo Jinliang was afraid that she would express her own opinions, so she would go around this topic again, and she didn't have to sleep tonight, so he turned over and pressed her down, kissed her lips, and said in a deep voice: "Talent has to sleep, even geniuses have to sleep, wife, it's time to sleep,"

"Well, just go to sleep, why are you pressing me" She has to get up early tomorrow, and she doesn't want to have a fight with him now.

was kissed by Huo Jinliang's fine kisses and kept kissing her, a little fire burning rhythm, she quickly closed her eyes, indicating that she was about to fall asleep: "Woo, don't make trouble, people are going to sleep, you don't let people sleep well." ”

"Okay, don't bother you, let you sleep well. Seeing her sleeping obediently, Huo Jinliang immediately let her go.

On the first day of work after the year, everyone's hearts have not all returned, they are still in the holidays, and they are not motivated to work, whether it is in a meeting in the conference room or in the office, they all chat a lot.

Each person gets a red envelope of 100 yuan, and colleagues in the whole office can chat all morning, discussing how to use this 100 red envelopes, whether to go to eat together, or tired of eating any dishes during the New Year, it is better to go to KTV to sing, but in the end they did not discuss a unified decision, and they will go back to their respective homes after work.

On the second day of work, everyone slowly entered the working state, and they did what they had to do.

During the lunch break, Zhao Jing chatted with Tao Yunfeng and others, saying that the work of the indoor group at the beginning of this year was a little weak compared with previous years, and the ongoing projects were not large, and if the big projects were not won as soon as possible, the performance in the first quarter would definitely decline.

But what their indoor group can negotiate is some small projects with very thin margins. The real big project has to rely on the company to pull the overall project.

Luckily, the big project was coming soon

Zhao Jing received a notice that there were two new bidding projects, and the indoor team should cooperate with the project department to carry out the bidding work.

The two projects, a 28-storey complex in City F are open for tender, and the other is an invitation for bidding by the vocational and technical school of City G.

After reading the bidding content and company documents, Tao Yunfeng thought about it and asked Zhao Jing: "Sister Zhao, these two projects, our focus is on AJ school."

"Both projects are priorities, with AJ Vocational and Technical College being a top priority. ”

After Zhao Jing answered, she remembered an important thing and told her: "Yunfeng, I heard that AJ Institute of Technology also invited GS company for this bidding. ”

It's not good news, Tao Yunfeng couldn't help frowning: "So, our main competitor is GS company."

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