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"Girl, it is normal for a man to have three wives and four concubines, not to mention people with a bit of status, even if they are ordinary people, with a little money, they are willing to marry one more concubine, otherwise the burden of spreading branches and leaves will all be on the wife, and it will be too much, just like the sister of A twenty-nine, who has been married for ten years, in order to get a son, he always holds two for three years, and his body has no time to recover at all, which is very hurtful. ”

"Huh, is this the reason? Are all the women in the world so unlucky, and the first child is not a son?

There are many people who can have sons, but not all of their husbands can clean themselves. Not to mention the beautiful wives and concubines at home, they always linger outside to mess with flowers and grass, making the house and the house miserable. He also boasted that it was to reduce the fertility pressure of his wife, and he lost the right side of your man's face. ”

Seeing that she was upset about what happened to the woman, the strange feeling in Shen Bang's heart became stronger and stronger.

"Girl, inheritance is the top priority in marriage since ancient times, after all, unfilial piety has three no queens, on the one hand, men must have their own heirs to inherit the family, on the other hand, there are indeed many people who are distressed about their wives and are willing to take concubines.

Of course, there are also those prodigal sons who are always mixed with flowers, but more people are really thinking about their families and wives, so they have taken such a solution.

You can't always live a life with feelings first, especially if both men and women are from big families, if you stick to that relationship and ignore the big things of the family, it will be criticized. Men will be ridiculed as having physical defects, and women will be regarded as jealous by outsiders, and even the sisters of the mother's family will not be able to find a good marriage in the future. ”

Yan Shunhua's expression was sluggish when he heard this, his words, if they were placed in modern times, would naturally not work logically, but in the context of Daqing, they could not be more appropriate.

Not everyone will be as lucky as her, and the person she met was Shen Jingyuan.

As soon as her thoughts arose, Shen Bang continued to work hard to dispel her notions that seemed immature to him.

"Girl, you take your subordinates and others as friends, so now your subordinates will also tell you, I hope they won't offend you.

The Shen family, at the beginning, relied on military merits to make a fortune, until now, although it has become a behemoth, outsiders do not dare to offend easily, but you also know that no matter how strong it is, there will always be opponents and enemies. To put it mildly, even if it is royal, there are a lot of headaches, but more people dare not go directly to them.

But the master, as a courtier, wants to do his best for Daqing, so it is inevitable that he will have to sort out the clues in the intricate relationship, be pure and upright, and be able to bend and stretch.

A big family, the person at the helm is very important, but more importantly, there must be enough children, otherwise there will be no success, even if there has been a helmsman who is very capable and has the means of vision, it can only last for a while, and there is no way to let the family continue, and the glory and wealth will continue.

It is only natural that the heirs are placed in a very important position by all families and tribes. Without people, the family will only slowly weaken until it dies.

Biological children, and non-biological children, are naturally better than the former. Because of the biological one, that is the continuation of the bloodline.

Otherwise, even if the children who succeed will eventually grow into towering trees and shelter the family, the descendants will not be their own bloodline, but just rely on emotional continuation, which will be different after all. To put it pessimistically but realistically, the people who enjoy all this later are all outsiders, and the dove occupies the magpie's nest, even if the surname is still the same, it is different after all. ”

Yan Shunhua raised his eyebrows, but he didn't expect that Shen Bang, who seemed to be able to be eclectic about many things, was a very traditional person in his bones.

Such people have deep-rooted ideas, so presumably the people around them also think the same way, right? Children are the continuation of bloodline, even if the biological ones may not be kinder than the non-biological children, they must be stronger, and they must know how to repay their kindness, people will still think that what they give birth to is the best.

It's not something that reason can decide. Human beings have multiplied from generation to generation, and what is determined by the genetic code has come from time immemorial and progressed step by step, moving forward, to some extent, while standing still, or even retreating.

"It's understandable that you think so, but it's too absolute. What if you enjoy all the glory and wealth? Everyone's destiny is just a piece of loess, and no one can be an exception. When it is dead, it will dissipate, and the real one will be a hundred.

The moon is cloudy and sunny, how can there be exceptions in life? The tide rises and falls, everything is just reincarnation, nothing is eternal, nothing is perfect, and nothing is perfect without the slightest regret or defect. Accept that, then there's nothing to dwell on.

The continuation of the bloodline, as you said, in addition to the bloodline, there is also the continuation of emotions.

So I'll give you an extreme example, if your own son is not angry, eat|drink|prostitute|Gambling and even killing people and setting fire to the lives of people and betraying the family and the country, lawlessness to the point of running out of bamboo, and although the adopted son did not inherit his own bloodline, he stood upright, brave, resourceful, benevolent and righteous, and did his best to seek well-being for the development of the family, for the prosperity of the country, so that the reputation of the family to a higher level, and laid a more solid foundation for the survival and development of the descendants of the entire family, which child would you like more?"

"The girls all said that this was an extreme example, and it didn't meet the standards of the mainstream public, and it didn't have much value to discuss. ”

Yan Shunhua shook his head.

"It's an extreme contrast, but that's not to say that there aren't such huge differences in real life. Just like the concubine, the concubine is not angry, and the unkindness always drags down the family, but the concubine is honest, reliable, affectionate and righteous, which is also a fact in many people's homes.

Of course, you will say that the concubine is also his own child, and he is also his own blood and blood, which is even more meaningless to discuss. But Shen Bang, if it is purely based on blood, then why can't his daughter inherit the family?

If there is really no way to give birth to a son, according to your thinking, a foreign child is an adopted son, and no matter how well he grows up, he is still an outsider. In that case, why can't you raise your own daughter as an heir?

Daughters are also in their own blood. If it's a big deal, the children born in the future will still have a general bloodline. In this way, there will be no problem for future generations to enjoy the glory of their family name, right?" )