After moving over, she lived close, and Lu's mother came to visit the door, and by the way, she took a look at Tao Yunfeng and the baby, that is, she sat for a while, and she didn't plan to stay long.

At the end of the year, Lu Lanshi was busy at work, often didn't go home for dinner, and continued to work overtime after eating in the company, and came back very late. Now seeing that she is busy again, Lu's mother thinks that when she comes to pick her up, it will not be faster than her going back by herself.

Although Lu's mother is also very familiar with Tao Yunfeng, after all, they are two generations, there is a generation gap, and there is no common topic. The two chatted casually for a while, chatting about children, chatting about confinement, and then chatting about Lu Lan, but they couldn't talk about anything else.

Jiang Yiqian was at home, helping to greet Lu's mother, seeing that Tao Yunfeng was chatting with her about the same, and the child was busy breastfeeding the child when he cried, he chatted with Lu's mother for a while and asked her: "Lu's mother, are you retired now, are you idle, are you used to it?"

"Not idle. "Lu's mother worked until she retired, and now she doesn't go to work anymore and can't be idle.

She broke her bones just after retiring, and after more than three months of rest at home, she felt that she was about to get moldy when she stayed at home. Then prepare for Lu Lanshi's wedding, and after Lu Lanshi's wedding, she and Lu Lanshi were busy with the decoration of the new house and the move. In fact, she doesn't have to worry about the decoration and moving of the new house, Lu Yanchuan and Lu Lanshi are both arranged, she just wants to see if there are any omissions.

After her leg was good, Lu's mother was still idle most of the time, but she couldn't be idle, so she followed a volunteer group and went to the nursing home to volunteer every once in a while.

Hearing Lu's mother say that she went to a nursing home to volunteer, Jiang Yiqian's eyes were full of admiration.

How high does a retired old lady have to be a retired old lady who does not dance a square dance, but goes to a nursing home to volunteer!

In Lu's mother's own words, she just can't be idle: "I'm retired, I have a pension, I don't have to work anymore, I just can't be idle, I always want to do something to pass the time." I see those old ladies and sisters, some of them are like me, retired and idle, and go to volunteer every once in a while, which is very good. If you can't work or make money anymore, it doesn't mean that you don't have to eat and waste food, but you can still do something meaningful, and I feel that I still have some use, which is good!"

Listening to her words, Jiang Yiqian nodded again and again, and echoed: "When you retire, you are free, and you can do something you like to do, which is good!"

Then Lu's mother talked about the situation of various nursing homes. Nursing homes with good conditions, good environment, standardized management, professional nurses, the elderly live very comfortably, but it is a little more expensive, and ordinary citizens like her can't afford to live. Nursing homes with poor conditions are really too bad to say, lifeless, the elderly live in the same place as house arrest, no life, no popularity, looking at it makes people feel that sending the elderly to such a nursing home, how unfilial the child is!

Lu's mother said, and changed her words again: "But there is no way, there are many elderly people living in such nursing homes, and they are helpless, and they can't take care of them at home, so they voluntarily move in." I used to think that when I was old, I couldn't take care of myself, Lan Shi was busy with work, busy with my own life, and I couldn't take care of me, so I also lived in a nursing home and didn't drag her down. ”

"Mother Lu, what you say, just kidding. Now that Lan Shi is married, on the condition of your son-in-law, it is okay to ask a few nannies to take care of you, how can you let you live in a nursing home!" Jiang Yiqian's concept is still more traditional, thinking that if there are elderly people at home, no matter what, let the elderly take care of them at home, how can they be sent to a nursing home!

"When people are old and can't take care of themselves, the family has the conditions to hire a nanny to take care of them, which is good. Do you think that now so many families, two young people, have to pay off the mortgage, have to raise children, and have to take care of four old people, can they take care of them? In the past, when our generation was young, whoever wanted to send the old people to the nursing home would be unfilial to the old man, and it would be a great rebellion! But we are old, our next generation, there is no way to take care of the elderly, and we can understand that there are still many old people who voluntarily go to the nursing home!

Lu's mother is really, I really thought about it before, in the future, Lu Lanshi will not get married and live alone, there is no way to take care of her, or she is married, she has to take care of the children and go to work, and she can't take care of her. She has a monthly pension, which is enough for her to live in a nursing home with good conditions, professional nurses to take care of her, and a group of dying companions to watch the sun and sunset together.

Lu's mother couldn't have imagined that her daughter was finally married, not to an ordinary family with similar conditions, but to marry a rich second-generation local tyrant who could make money, and to live in a luxury villa with tens of millions of decorations! If Lu Lanshi and Lu Yanchuan could last a long time and grow old, she would naturally be easy to be a mother, and there was nothing to worry about. When she gets old, she doesn't have to worry about no one to take care of her, and she doesn't need to live in a nursing home.

"Speaking of which, that's the reason. Although Jiang Yiqian felt that if he had the ability, it would be a family to leave the elderly to take care of him at home, but he couldn't refute Lu's mother's words, and he still felt that it made sense.

He is taking care of Old Man Huo now, and he thinks it is a natural thing, and he will definitely not be able to send Old Man Huo to a nursing home. However, when he is old, he can't take care of himself, and he can't take care of himself in daily life, Huo Jinliang has his own career to be busy, family expenses are high, and financial pressure is high, so he can't take care of him, and if he wants to send him to a nursing home, he won't blame Huo Jinliang.

Tao Yunfeng fed his son, and when his son fell asleep, he put it on his small bed, and then went out of the room to see what Jiang Yiqian and Lu's mother were talking about. She thought they would talk about their children, but she heard them talking about the elderly living in nursing homes.

"Dad, Lu's mother, they all say that life begins with retirement, you are young now, and the years to leave the nursing home are still early!" Tao Yunfeng heard them say that they couldn't take care of themselves, and it was a good choice to go to the nursing home, so she accosted her, "Having said that, our younger generation is working hard to make money now, and do a solid job in the family's economic infrastructure, so that you can take care of you in the future, so that you can live comfortably at home, enjoy the joy of family, and spend your old age in peace, without going to a nursing home." ”

Hearing her say this, Lu's mother was happy: "Yunfeng is more funny when she speaks, and it makes people happy when she listens." If it was our Jialan, she would definitely say this: What kind of nursing home to live in, do you think I can't afford to raise or take care of you!"

When Lu's mother spoke, she also learned the tone and tone of Lu Lan's usual speech, which amused Tao Yunfeng.

After chatting for a while, seeing that the time was not early, Lu's mother got up to say goodbye.

Jiang Yiqian was also about to go grocery shopping, so he said, "I'm also going to buy groceries, I'll send you back." ”

"No, it's not far, it's only a few stops by bus, you don't have to bother. Lu's mother excused herself.

Tao Yunfeng persuaded her: "Mother Lu, let my dad send you off, you have to walk a long way to get out of me, take the bus, and you are not familiar with this side." ”

Lu's mother said again: "It's okay, I'll go out to take a taxi, which is quite convenient." ”

"What's polite, I'm going to drive out to buy groceries, and I'll give you a trip by the way, no trouble. Jiang Yiqian said again.

In fact, Jiang Yiqian usually doesn't drive to buy vegetables, although it is a little far away from the vegetable market, and it takes more than 20 minutes to walk, he still likes to walk, so he should exercise.

Hearing Jiang Yiqian say this, Lu's mother couldn't refuse, so she asked him to send it.