Chapter 629: The Same Selfishness
Listening to Lu Lanshi's confession, saying that they want to have children before they are married, she has her own selfishness, Lu Yanchuan thinks that the selfishness she said is the same as his, and she wants to make his family accept her through the child, so as to achieve the goal of marrying him.
If it is such selfishness, then think of it with him, he has the same selfishness!
She decided not to have children for the time being, she didn't want to use them for personal gain, thinking that if she was not ready to have children, it would be too rash and not responsible enough for her children and herself, which is not difficult to understand.
In his opinion, she can't do this when Lu Lanshi uses her children to force marriage, she is too kind-hearted.
After being silent for a while, Lu Yanchuan spoke: "In the future, when are you ready, we will have a child again." ”
If he didn't want to let his mother accept Lu Lan through the child, he wouldn't be in a hurry to have a child.
He doesn't really care about whether he has children now, and in comparison, he prefers a noisy two-person world without children.
His words made Lu Lanshi breathe a sigh of relief and nodded: "It won't take too long, just wait until we get married." ”
After getting married, she began to prepare for pregnancy and childbirth!
If they can get married!
"That's what you want to tell me?" Lu Yanchuan asked.
Lu Lanshi nodded: "Yes." ”
"Then I'll tell you about mine. Lu Yanchuan continued, "My mother decided to meet with you and talk to you in person, let me arrange it as soon as possible, and see when you are free." ”
"What do you mean?" Lu Lanshi was surprised by this.
Every time Lu Liyuan came to her, she wanted her to leave Lu Yanchuan and not pester him with a dead face, but now she actually decided to meet her and sit down to talk?
Looking at Lu Lan with a surprised face, Lu Yanchuan smiled slightly. In fact, when his mother offered to meet Lu Lanshi, it was completely unexpected, and he himself was quite surprised.
But he thought that his mother was actually hard-mouthed and soft-hearted, so he explained to Lu Lanshi: "My mother has loved me since I was a child, and she will give me whatever I want." Now she refuses to agree to our affairs, and she is also a knife-mouthed tofu heart, and she can't do anything about me after all. ”
"I can understand her. Lu Lanshi said softly.
Although Lu Liyuan is full of gunpowder every time she comes to her, and every sentence she says is good, but if you think about it, she can understand it completely.
Not to mention Lu Liyuan as a mother, of course I hope that my son will marry a good and innocent girl, a woman with a lot of black history, it is really unacceptable, it is herself, when she went on a blind date with that Sun Kui before, I heard him say that he used to meet a friend in the game, and the first girlfriend met him by playing games, and she couldn't accept it herself.
Worried that Lu Lanshi had the idea of backing down because his mother had been opposing, Lu Yanchuan said comfortingly: "Lanshi, you don't have to worry too much about my mother. After I got married, I didn't live with my mother, and I didn't see each other often. She doesn't know enough about you now, so it's good to get to know you more in the future. ”
"I know that. When Lu Lanshi decided to marry Lu Yanchuan, she didn't worry about how to get along with his mother in the future, anyway, if she didn't live together, his mother couldn't run to quarrel with her every day.
The current problem is how to deal with Lu Yanchuan's mother.
Lu Lanshi was full of gunpowder as soon as she met his mother, and she was not polite when she spoke, and she would never be able to handle it.
She believed that Lu Lanshi would have a way to get his mother and get his mother to agree to their marriage. Now his mom offered to meet her, which was a good sign.
Lu Lanshi has been busy for the past few days, and she felt that she couldn't let Lu Yanchuan's mother wait too long, so she said to Lu Yanchuan: "I'll take some time in two days, in the afternoon or evening, is it okay?"
"It's all right, you decide the time. Lu Yanchuan has no opinion, his mother is idle at home and is free at any time.
Lu Lanshi thought about it for a while, and then said: "I have to make the design plan of Zou Ke's family in the past two days, arrange the materials to enter the site, and I can't spare time." When I have a plan, I can make some time to come out. ”
Where Zou Ke's family lives, a XXX factory dormitory compound, the location is relatively partial, Lu Yanchuan opened the navigation, and it took a long time to find the exact location.
The doorman let me go, and the car drove inside, but it was difficult to find a parking space. The buildings in the courtyard are old-fashioned six-story buildings, which look like the dormitory buildings in the school. There is no special parking lot in the yard, and there are all kinds of cars parked under each building, and some cars are parked quite unreasonably.
As soon as I found a place to put the car in good condition, Zou Kequan came down to pick them up.
Zou Ke's family now lives in a three-bedroom apartment, which is more spacious than their new house, but there are a lot of things inside, and every corner is crammed, which looks super messy.
After entering the house, waiting for them to make room to sit down, and after greeting each other, Lu Lanshi took out the floor plan of the new house and discussed the allocation of rooms with them first.
She thought that when she went to see the new house, Yu Guihong's proposed allocation method was not very reasonable, so she reassigned it to them.
"The most unreasonable thing is that Qingqing and her grandmother live in the middle room. Qingqing is still young now, she can live here with her grandmother, and when she grows up, she will have all kinds of problems. At the beginning, Lu Lanshi first talked about this most unreasonable question.
Hearing that their whole family called Zou Kequan's mother-in-law grandma, Lu Lanshi also followed them to say grandma. Grandma doesn't look very old, just an old aunt, she should be less than sixty years old, she looks quite healthy, and she should be fine if she lives for another twenty or thirty years.
Qingqing is the daughter of their family, she looks very cute, but she is more afraid of life, when they came in when they saw Lu Lan, they were a little timid, and she flattened her mouth and cried when she asked her to call someone.
Lu Lanshi analyzed with them that if the child lives in the same room with her grandmother, the living habits of the elderly and the child are too different, and there will definitely be all kinds of conflicts in the future. In the future, the child's learning and living habits will be influenced by her grandmother, and when she grows up, she will not have her own independent space.
Without waiting for Zou Kequan to speak, Yu Guihong explained: "The house is too small, they don't live in a room, so there is no place to live, which is also a helpless thing." Qingqing girl's family, when she starts junior high school, you can let her live in school. ”
Lu Lanshi asked again: "What about her winter and summer vacations?
Yu Guihong said directly: "On vacation, I squeeze with her grandmother." A girl's family always has to get married, and when she finishes college and has a job, she can rent a house to rent, and when she gets married in the future, she will come back to her mother's family. ”
Hearing her say this, Lu Lanshi couldn't help but think in her heart: I'm afraid her daughter won't even have a bed of her own in the future!
"What if your second child is a boy?" Lu Lanshi asked again.
This question was answered by Zou Kequan's mother: "The boy is so wow, don't you want a boy to have a second child." ”
Lu Lanshi asked again: "Which room will he live in in the future?"
This is a problem that they can't solve.
Zou Kequan's father seemed to be unhappy, and his tone of voice was a little rushed: "This is not a problem that you designers want to solve! We just can't arrange it, so we ask you to help solve it!"
"If you live in what I design, I can solve the problem. I'm just worried right now, I've designed it and it's not what you want. Lu Lanshi said what she was worried about.
This kind of problem, she encountered a few times, before the design and decoration, the owner kept saying to listen to her, how she designed how to come, the result of the design drawings are done, just said that they are not satisfied, and they have to be modified.
Zou Kequan, who had never spoken, finally said a few words: "You see how to arrange it reasonably, how to design it!"
After talking for a long time, this is what I have been waiting for!
Lu Lanshi repeated: "Then it's decided, how I design, you can live as you like." ”
Otherwise, what could it be! The others were okay and chimed in.
Seeing that everyone had no opinion, Lu Lanshi took out the sketch she drew again, and first told them the first plan: Zou Kequan and his wife did not live in the largest room facing south, and let their daughter and grandmother live together, and she would cut the big room into two semi-separated spaces in terms of design. If their second child is a daughter, they can let the two daughters sleep in the same bed. If their second child gave birth to a boy, there was no choice but to add a bed, and the grandmother and daughter's bed were next to each other, freeing up the other half of the space for the son to live. The room in the middle, like the south-facing room, has a south-facing window with plenty of light, which is suitable for the elderly. The north-facing room is a little bit more than that, so that Zou Kequan and his wife live, the reason is that the middle room is more suitable for the elderly, the north-facing room only begins to be illuminated by the sun in the afternoon, the sunshine is insufficient, the rainy season is relatively humid, and the winter is relatively cold.
Yu Guihong was not happy to live in the smallest room facing north, and wanted to live in the largest room facing south, and said in a suspicious tone: "The second child doesn't know if she will have a child, Qingqing and her grandmother live in the middle room, it's wide enough, right?
The smallest room is really small, put a double bed and it will be full, and then put a wardrobe, and there will be no place to stay after entering. Yu Guihong thought to herself, whoever lives in that room is fine, how can the two of them live in it! Who lives in which room, they have discussed it before!
Zou Kequan's parents also said that it was no problem for them to live in the north-facing room. The room I live in now is not the same, I have lived in it for decades, which is not very good.
Lu Lanshi didn't respond to her words, looked at Zou Kequan and said: "The middle and north-facing rooms, you can discuss who lives in which room, and this south-facing room must be for Qingqing and Grandma, otherwise I won't be able to solve your problems and can't meet your requirements." ”
It doesn't matter which room Zou Kequan lives in, it mainly depends on which room his wife wants to live in. Obviously, his wife wants to live in the largest room, and definitely not the smallest one. He made a show again and asked his parents for their opinions.
His parents didn't want to have a conflict with their son's deputy over the allocation of rooms, so they insisted that they live in the smallest room in the north direction.
Lu Lanshi had already said that the largest room had to be lived in by Qingqing and her grandmother, and Yu Guihong was reluctant and had no choice, so she had to agree to live in the middle room.
Expecting that this would be the result, Lu Lanshi then came up with a second plan, which was to allocate the room according to the result of the discussion they had just discussed.
Everyone had no opinion on the second plan, Lu Lanshi discussed the general design plan and style with them, and everyone had no problem, so it was decided.
When he came out of Zou Ke's house, it was already more than ten o'clock in the evening, and Lu Lanshi felt that it was not early, and wanted to go home early to wash and sleep.
Lu Yanchuan felt that it was still early, and proposed to Lu Lanshi: "Do you want to go for a ride?"