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Yan Shunhua threw the garlic into the hot oil, then poured the washed vegetables in the basket into it, picked up the wooden spatula and began to stir-fry.

Yan Liushi stuffed a handful of wheat straw to the mouth of the stove, looking displeased, "I don't even pay attention to your etiquette, he still wants to marry you?"

Yan Shunhua sprinkled a small spoonful of salt, waved the wooden shovel again and turned the half-cooked greens a few times, estimated that it was almost over, then added half a bowl of water to the pot and covered the pot.

"Mother, are you unhappy? It's not that he doesn't want to come, but he can't. Even if he comes, it's not convenient for him to attend, right?"

"He wants to marry you openly, and it's okay to watch the ceremony openly. Even if you can't come, knowing what day your birthday is, you should have sent a reliable person to give a gift in advance.

It doesn't matter if a man doesn't talk flatteringly to make people happy, he can be stupid with his mouth, but he can't not ignore your feelings in action and not be considerate of your mood. Not to mention this kind of behavior of complete ignorance, such a man, are you sure you want to marry him?"

Yan Liushi took a slender wooden stick and poked it into the stove, adjusting the fire to be more vigorous, and the two delicate eyebrows actually looked a little cold and hard against the firelight.

Yan Shunhua noticed that her expression was different from usual, and couldn't help but be stunned, and subconsciously said, "You don't have to worry. ”

"How can my mother not be worried? You child, you have been timid and soft since you were a child. Later, when I grew up, I finally learned to be a little tougher, and I didn't even know how to speak loudly like my mother and your eldest sister. My mother thought that I could finally put my mind at ease, but you would have accidents every now and then, which always made me scared.

Finally, I got better and came back from your aunt's house, and my mother thought that you could finally settle down and live a good life by our side, but who would have expected you to tell us that you were going to marry far away and not far away. ”

Speaking of this, Yan Liu's eyes suddenly turned red.

Yan Shunhua hurriedly walked over and hugged her. Comfort her in a low voice.

"Mother, didn't we all say it before? If you and your father think about me and my second sister in the future, you can go to the capital to see us, if you don't worry. You can settle down in the capital or in the suburbs where you like. Why are you suddenly sad again?"

"When you become a mother too, you will naturally know why your mother is like this. ”

Yan Liushi took out a handkerchief and wiped her eyes, reminding her to hurry up and shovel the vegetables, so as not to burn them.

"I've heard people say things like that. It is said that being a parent is like this, and when the child is young, he watches it with hard work. When they grow up, no matter how sad they feel, they will gradually drift away, leaving only their backs getting smaller and smaller, until the moment when they can no longer see them come. ”

Yan Shunhua picked up the pot, put the green vegetables on the side of the washed plate, and then began to fry the fish.

"But I won't go far, mother, don't worry. Although the capital looks far away from our home, you also said it. Shen Jingyuan is not an ordinary person. Even if we can't be together all the time, I'll let you see me when you and Daddy want to see me. Don't worry anymore. ”

"How can my mother not be worried? No matter how capable he is, there will be things that he can't do. Don't hope too much for people you don't know, otherwise you will only hope that the higher you get, the worse you fall.

You haven't experienced the life of a wealthy family, no matter how smart and clever you are, it takes a lot of effort and years to really be comfortable with the kind of life you have never seen.

Now you feel like you have a tacit understanding with him, so you think he's the best person in your range of options. But ask yourself, do you know all about his upbringing from childhood to adulthood?

What is his daily life? What do you like and hate? What are the things that can be joked about? Where is the place where you must not joke? How high and low is the upper and lower limits of his conduct in the world?

A man and a woman should truly have a peaceful and happy married life. It's really not as simple as you think.

This involves all kinds of details, but if there is any aspect where the two are not compatible, it will be difficult to adapt to the other party's requirements when touching that aspect, and then involuntarily dissatisfied with each other's performance, and even complain. Even if it's a small problem, it's a long time. It will slowly add up and eventually become a big problem.

It is not until the day of the outbreak that you will realize that you know that there are many problems in marriage, but you think that they are just minor problems.

Now it is so intolerable, it is impossible to ignore, and the old things are brought together in a daze, but there is no way to find the root of the problem. Or finally find that problem, but don't have the strength to spend countless hours and efforts to solve it in order to live a good life together.

At that point, I am afraid that your life will become a pool of stagnant water, and you will no longer be able to feel the beauty and joy of the past.

Do you want to live like that?"

Yan Shunhua listened while sprinkling salt evenly on both sides of the fish in the pot, and then watched it slowly turn golden brown before adding a little water, throwing a few slices of ginger into it, and covering the pot.

Sure enough, the ginger is still old and spicy.

Even if Yan Liu's family looks tepid on weekdays, in fact, as Xiucai's daughter, she has read a lot of books at home since she was a child, which is naturally different from ordinary rural peasant women.

It's just that in the past, the bookish spirit on her body covered up her too soft and cowardly temperament and non-stop busy work all day long.

"You're right, there will be problems of one kind or another. Just like you and your father, you have always been affectionate and loving, but when you were young, you must have experienced many days of disagreement, whether it is you or your father, I am afraid that you have also had such and such emotions. ”

Yan Shunhua took out a plate from the cupboard again and put it within easy reach.

"But mother, husbands and wives in this world all live like this. No one's married life has always been only happiness and no sorrow, only tacit understanding and no disagreement, only calm and no noise, only happiness and no misfortune.

Shen Jingyuan and I are also ordinary people, living the life of ordinary people, when it should be good, when it should be noisy, as long as we can respect each other, keep each other's bottom line, and help each other in the same boat, then life can always go on, we will definitely encounter difficulties, but we will definitely reap the happiness that only belongs to the two of us.

Just like you and your father, we have been together for a lifetime, laughing and crying, but we are still glad that the person we met was each other, not anyone else. ”

(To be continued.) )