Chapter 691: Get a Babysitter
Hearing Tao Yunfeng suddenly say that he had lost weight, Jiang Yiqian was stunned.
Then he smiled and said, "Are you thin?
He's been a little busy all this time, but he doesn't feel like he's lost weight, and he feels like this all the time.
Since Tao Yunfeng became pregnant, he and Mr. Huo moved in together, and he was busy, going to learn to drive and get a driver's license, and preparing three meals a day, especially taking care of Tao Yunfeng's diet, life was not as leisurely as before. After Tao Yunfeng gave birth to a child, he took care of her confinement, and after she was full moon, he helped take care of the child, and he was not idle all day long. But in the past few years since Huo Jinliang's mother died, he felt more fulfilled during this time.
It's not a matter of feeling, Tao Yunfeng saw that he was obviously thin.
Then she said: "After moving here, you have to take care of your grandfather, take care of the family's food and daily life, and help us take care of the children in the past few months, which is hard for you." ”
Tao Yunfeng was a little reluctant to go.
When she was not pregnant before, she told Qiao Xinman that she would not let her parents help take care of the child, but since she was pregnant, she has been taken care of by everyone, and now that the child is born, she still asks Jiang Yiqian to help take care of the child.
I think that Jiang Yiqian used to take care of his grandfather alone, and he was easy every day, and he also picked up some graphic design online in his spare time. Now he is busy all day long, coming to buy groceries, cook, do housework, and take care of the children, just like a nanny.
And Jiang Yiqian didn't feel hard except that he was a little busy, he shook his head and said, "It's not hard." I enjoy helping you with your children. ”
Late at night, after putting his son to sleep, Tao Yunfeng climbed into bed.
Huo Jinliang was waiting for her while reading a book on the bed, and when he saw that she was about to get into bed, he immediately put down the book in his hand and uncovered the quilt: "Wife, come on, drill the quilt." ”
In the winter, she likes it best. It was cold in winter, and even though the air conditioner was turned on in the house, it still felt cold. When she went to bed at night, Tao Yunfeng pushed Huo Jinliang to bed first, and when he warmed up the quilt, she went to bed and drilled into the quilt.
It's already more than April, spring is coming and summer is coming, and the weather is slowly getting hotter.
Tao Yunfeng went to bed after a long time and lay down beside Huo Jinliang. Huo Jinliang stretched out his hand to take her into his arms, she turned over and lay on his chest, her head rubbing against his shoulder armor.
Huo Jinliang laughed: "Wife, what do you want to do?"
Tao Yunfeng climbed on top of him in bed before, and when he asked like this, Tao Yunfeng's answer was often vulgar but excited by two words: you!
Now Tao Yunfeng didn't forget that aspect at all, but he was used to rubbing on him, like a pro-cat.
Hearing Huo Jinliang's question, she paused, then looked up at Huo Jinliang's chin, and discussed with him, "Husband, let's hire a nanny, shall we?"
"Huh?" Huo Jinliang was slightly stunned.
Why did you suddenly say you want to hire a babysitter?
The question of whether to hire a nanny, before Tao Yunfeng became pregnant, when they planned to have a child, the two of them discussed.
At that time, Tao Yunfeng felt that after giving birth to a child, she would continue to go to work, and it was impossible to revolve around the child for 20 hours a day like a housewife. She and Huo Jinliang both have to go to work, they are busy day and night, they can't take care of the children at home, ask a nanny to take them for two or three years, and after the children go to kindergarten, they can pick them up in the morning and evening, and they can take them themselves.
Huo Jinliang has no objection to this, it is impossible for him not to work and take care of the children at home. If he doesn't work, what will the family have to eat? If he can drink enough water, he will have to make money and pay the water bill! He can't ask Tao Yunfeng to take care of the children at home without working, which is not realistic.
After Tao Yunfeng gave birth to a child, before the full moon, everyone discussed this issue again.
This time, after some discussion, we denied the matter of hiring a nanny.
The main reason is that Jiang Yiqian thinks that the child is still too young, and everyone is not at ease when he brings it to the nanny. After all, the nanny is an outsider, not her own child, and she doesn't have so much patience. Everyone has heard a lot about the nanny's abuse of the child, and the child is still so young, it is really inappropriate to bring it to the nanny. Own children, their own family care, take care of it. Jiang Yiqian said that the child can bring it to him, so that it will not delay Tao Yunfeng's work or study. When the child is older, when he is two or three years old, he knows that he will shout to eat when he is hungry, and he will say it when he is hot and cold, and it is not too late to find a nanny to help him.
Old man Huo also said that it is good for the child to let Jiang Yiqian take it directly, he has experience, what kind of nanny to hire, and he spends money and is not at ease.
Seeing Jiang Yiqian insisted on not asking for a nanny, let him help take care of the child, Huo Jinliang and Tao Yunfeng are like this, wait for the child to be a little older, and then see if you need to hire a nanny.
Seeing the puzzled expression on Huo Jinliang's face, Tao Yunfeng said again: "During this time, in addition to taking care of grandpa, dad has to help us take care of the baby, it's too hard, I think he has lost weight." We hire a babysitter, and when I'm not at home, let the babysitter take care of the baby, and Dad and Grandpa just watch the babysitter. ”
Huo Jinliang thought about it and felt that this was redundant.
Ask a nanny to take care of the child, let his father look at the nanny, can you watch it? The baby is crying, the nanny doesn't stop in a hurry, his father is watching from the side, and he is even more anxious, and wants to coax himself. When changing the baby's diaper and washing the baby's PP, the nanny's hand was a little heavier, and his father was watching from the side, and he must be worried and have to do it himself. If you imagine it, you can't stand it at all! In this case, what would a babysitter do to make a mess for everyone!
"Husband, what do you think?" Tao Yunfeng saw that Huo Jinliang did not respond, and asked him.
Huo Jinliang shook his head and said seriously: "Wife, don't worry about whether to hire a nanny or not." Now the baby is good for the dad, there is no need to hire a nanny, and the nanny is not at ease enough. ”
"But. Tao Yunfeng couldn't take the child for granted to her father-in-law, and she felt uncomfortable when she saw Jiang Yiqian lose weight, "Dad has lost weight recently, and if it goes on like this, I'm afraid he will be tired." ”
Tao Yunfeng was worried about his father and didn't want his father to be too tired, Huo Jinliang could understand it.
But he still said: "He may not have slept well recently, and after a while, the little ghost head will stop crying at night, and he can sleep well at night, it should be fine." ”
In the first month of the child's birth, he woke up at night, ate and cried until dawn. The baby's cry is loud and penetrating, and even if the sound insulation effect of their home is good, it can't block the baby's cry. The baby cries every night, and everyone can't sleep well. For this reason, Huo Jinliang specially bought sleep earmuffs for Jiang Yiqian and Old Man Huo. Old Man Huo thought it was fresh, so he wore it to sleep, and he got used to it after a few days. Jiang Yiqian said that he was not used to it, he never wore it, and he also woke up from sleep at night, and sometimes he stayed awake longer than he fell asleep.
Jiang Yiqian's body was already a little thin, and he didn't sleep well for three or four months, so he would definitely lose weight again.
Now that the child is more than three months old, his sleep time has gradually become regular, and he wakes up less often at night, and he doesn't cry hard when he woke up, unlike when he was born. Now that he's awake, feed him again, and he'll stop crying and grab something to play with.
Tao Yunfeng still insisted: "It's not just the reason why I can't sleep well at night, it's still too tiring, right?"
Huo Jinliang said: "Wife, I think you are too worried. Dad doesn't work too hard now, he mainly takes care of grandpa. Only when you are not at home, he will help take the baby, and when you come back, the baby is still with you. If I get off work early, I will come back from grocery shopping, cook together in the evening, and take the baby. I don't have anything else to do on the weekends, and I'm basically at home. Dad is free on the weekend, and he goes back to the old house to clean up. ”
"I rarely go out now, what about the future?" Tao Yunfeng said, "If I pass the exam, I have to go to class, if I can't pass the exam, I have to go back to work? ”
"Let's talk about it then, I'll discuss it with my dad again. Huo Jinliang saw that the time was not early, and he didn't want to continue to discuss this issue with Tao Yunfeng, so he changed the topic and reminded her, "Wife, you still have an English interview tomorrow morning, go to bed early." The matter of hiring a nanny, when you finish the exam, we can discuss it slowly. ”
"Okay. Tao Yunfeng nodded.
It's really not early now, if she doesn't sleep again, she won't get enough sleep, and she won't be energetic the next day, which will affect her performance.
The matter of hiring a babysitter is not something that must be decided in a day or two, you can take your time.
In the English interview the next day, Tao Yunfeng felt very relaxed.
First of all, I will introduce myself, but I will introduce myself in English, and the time will be controlled within one minute. After that, the teacher interviewed her asked some questions related to her major and work, and also asked a factual hot question, talked about the current hot news, and asked her what she thought.
The teacher who asked the main question in the interview spoke American English and had a very correct pronunciation, and Tao Yunfeng didn't have to work hard. Tao Yunfeng's English pronunciation, after being corrected by Huo Jinliang repeatedly, is also much more authentic. She communicated with the teacher in the interview very smoothly and had a very open conversation.
After the English interview in the morning and the physical examination in the afternoon, Tao Yunfeng was completely relaxed.
From this time last year, I started to prepare, and now I have finally finished the exam, and I have been on a long road for the graduate school entrance examination for a year, and I have finally reached the final finish line.
During the period of waiting for the results of the re-examination and whether he was finally admitted or not, Tao Yunfeng did not immediately return to work at YAD. But she is not idle on weekdays, and all kinds of tedious things are enough for her to be busy.
The newly bought house will be handed over at the end of the month, and Tao Yunfeng will prepare for the decoration.
The cost of decoration is all-inclusive by Huo Jinliang, and there is no upper limit, but Tao Yunfeng still tries to save money for him and controls the total cost of decoration at about 100,000 yuan.