Chapter Thirty-Eight: Peeling Back the Cocoon
Jiang Lin smiled helplessly, "You two are really a pair of living treasures, how to solve your problems depends on our three emotional consultants." Okay, let's get into our emotional puzzle session now!"
"Let's talk about the female guests first!"
As Jiang Lin's voice fell, Lin Jiajia picked up the microphone, "Female guest, why are you so unconfident?"
Wheel appearance, you are no longer inferior to the vast majority of girls.
Internally, you have many virtues that other girls don't have.
You don't spend money randomly, you don't value famous brands, you are filial to the elderly, and you can still be completely financially independent.
You know, girls like you are a sought-after commodity in society right now?
Let's not talk about whether the male guests will be attracted by the temptation of the outside world, even if they are really attracted, then you should not be discouraged by the gains and losses. He doesn't cherish you, there will be many men, even men with better conditions than him, who cherish you.
Therefore, what I want to advise the female guests is to build up your own confidence, bravely use your advantages to defeat your opponents, believe in yourself, and you will win.
Another point is, don't be too restrained by male guests, many cases have proven that the more strict a woman is with a man, the higher the man's cheating rate and heart rate.
You're doing this now, you're actually pushing him to the girls you talked about, you must understand that!
Let's talk about the male guests......"
Lin Jiajia looked at Xiao Lei and said, "You may have been pampered since you were a child, and you are not able to understand and understand the feelings of the people around you."
Let's imagine, if you are always surrounded by many successful and handsome young and handsome men around the female guests, can you treat them as if they were nothing?"
Xiao Lei thought about it, but still shook his head.
Lin Jiajia, "Yes, you can't feel at ease, how can you make the female guests feel at ease?"
Love is a wonderful thing, sometimes it represents selfishness, sometimes it also represents tolerance.
But in a situation like yours, it can only be selfish, you know?
So what I want to tell you is to try to understand the mood of the female guests as much as possible, but those who don't mind that you have close ties with other girls are not the ones who really love you.
That's all I have to say, thank you!"
After Lin Jiajia finished speaking, Ye Zhenguo picked up the microphone, "Male guest, please tell me, do you love female guests?"
"Love!" Xiao Lei nodded affirmatively.
Ye Zhenguo, "I also believe that you love her, but what I want to say is that if you love her, please put away your lofty eyes, as if looking down on her eyes and tone."
You must know that men and women in love are equal, and there is no distinction between high and low, unless it is the kind of love that is not pure!
Just now the female guest said that she bought a massage chair for your father, and I can see from her demeanor that she is very sincere.
But what you said gave me the feeling that you looked down on her.
Of course, maybe that's not what you intended. You have lived in a privileged family since you were a child, and you have lived a carefree life with clothes and food.
Because of your family background, others need to look at your face to speak or do things. If you are happy, others have to pretend to be happy even if they are sad, and if you are sad, others have to pretend to be sad even if they are happy. Growing up, you haven't seen a sincere face.
It wasn't until the appearance of a female guest with a simple and upright personality that you broke your self-centered situation.
Male guest, you touch your conscience and say, do you agree with those advantages of female guests?"
Xiao Lei, who seemed to have seen through his soul, nodded a little disappointed.
Ye Zhenguo, "You agree, but you can't do it, that's why you will use your advantages to treat her."
What are your strengths, just money?
So what I want to tell you is that if you really love this girl, please restrain your personality, learn to respect her, and learn how to fall in love with her from her point of view.
Let's talk about the female guests......
Don't try to control him. You must know that everything can be controlled, but people cannot control it.
He is such a big person, and he is the kind whose career has been formed, so he doesn't even dare to go into a better restaurant to eat a bowl of beef noodles.
If this spreads, he will have no face. What would his parents think if it reached their ears?
Your daughter-in-law who hasn't even entered the door is already like this, if she does, what will it look like?
Therefore, if you really love him, you should let him have his own way of life, otherwise, sooner or later, there will be problems between you.
That's all I have to say, thank you!"
The recording scene was very quiet, and there was no applause, which was not because the group performers were not responsible, but because all the group performers fell into Ye Zhenguo's words at this time.
To be honest, perhaps due to the traditional concept, the audience at the scene is actually very optimistic about the couple Xiao Lei and Wanxin, the man not only has a superior family background, but also dares to fight and has a strong sense of dedication.
Women are not only naturally beautiful, but also have the virtues of filial piety to the elderly and thrifty housekeeping.
The two love each other, and it seems that this should be a natural pair, and there should be no big problem. But when Ye Zhenguo said this, the audience seemed to feel something, but they didn't seem to be able to say it?
Maybe I can't see through whether this couple loves or not, Huo An has already turned on the emotion index telemetry as soon as they come on the field, Xiaolei 70%, Wanxin 75%, judging from the data, this should be a very loving couple, but why are there so many problems between them?
Integrating the first article of the emotional treasure book, Huo Anxin already has the answer.
Just when the recording scene was quiet and almost able to hear the sound, Huo An picked up the microphone, "Your problem is actually very simple, in the words of the old people, the door is not the right door."
In addition, your three views are different, and they can't reach a kind of resonance, so those problems arise.
Although you have been in love for more than a year, you have never established a concept of consumption that can be accepted by both of you.
Let the male guests go to eat roadside stalls, and he must be reluctant to be pampered. Let the female guests go to a high-end hotel for a big meal, with her character, she must be reluctant.
Rather than all being so uncomfortable, why don't you try to work together to find a balance that is acceptable to both of you?
For so long, they are all working on their own, and no one is willing to make concessions, so there is more or less selfishness in your love.
Let's talk about the female guests......
Yes, I admit that there are many good things in you, but if you have to impose these good things on him, don't you think you are very strong?
You must know that people are individuals with self-awareness and judgment, and what they want to show is their own unique character, rather than using their own bodies to carry the character of others, understand?
It is right to have advantages, and we also give affirmation and praise, but your advantages may not necessarily be advantages in him.
He is a man with a successful career, but he can't afford to eat a bowl of expensive beef noodles, how much you hurt his self-esteem.
You have to know that on some occasions, men have a good face. If you are a smart girl, the first thing you need to learn is how to save face for your boyfriend.
Okay, after talking about the female guests, let's talk about the male guests......"