Yan Shunhua's appearance of smiling but not smiling made Yan Shengguo a little unbearable.

"I'm going to be upset, but I won't be so bad that I have to be more energetic, even if your mother is awkward for a long time, she can overcome it, it's not a big problem. ”

"Dad, men and women look at things differently. In your opinion, a child is your child wherever he goes, but if he changes his surname, he is not your own child.

In the eyes of women, no matter where the child is or what his surname is, as long as he is born in October, as long as he calls his mother, he will always be his own child.

If you make me unable to call my mother, it is equivalent to making me abandon my mother, which is a big problem, but it is not just a simple awkwardness. ”

Yan Shengguo almost sighed, "Is it so exaggerated? Are you sure you are not too exaggerated, and you also used the trick of three thousand feet of white hair?"

"Dad, don't think I'm exaggerating. If you really don't believe it, just ask your mother, don't kneel on the washboard and blame me. ”

Yan Shunhua shrugged her shoulders, Yan Shengguo glared at her for a long time, and was defeated.

"Well, I don't want that in my heart.

It's just that how should you get along with Yucheng and his wife? I see that her sensitivity will not disappear for a while, and today she can be so angry that she loses her temper three or four times, and finally runs away. Anyway, we are also guests to the door, and she is completely angry to the extreme. ”

"Father would say good things about her. In the past few years, she has actually gotten a lot better, but this time it was a sudden incident, and she panicked, and if she took her time, her reaction would be much soothed. ”

Yan Shengguo didn't believe her explanation, "We have been in Beijing for many days, and she also knew in advance that we would come to the Dingguo Mansion. In any case, there is already a predetermined understanding in my heart, so I should have some mental preparation. Even if she can't stand it because you called us daddy to your face, she shouldn't be so gaffe.

If she just came from Liyang, that's completely understandable. But she has been living in the capital for several years, and many things should be initially understood, such as hiding her emotions in front of guests and not embarrassing her daughter and son-in-law, after all, I am a guest of the Shen family, and I am still a serious relative recognized by Zhiyuan, even if it is the former Yue family. ”

Yan Shunhua couldn't refute his words, but just smiled bitterly.

"Let's give her more time. There are some things that I can't do directly with her, so I can only hope that my father will come forward. ”

Yan Shengguo also had no way to say anything, "Why don't I talk to Yucheng and let him be considerate and considerate? If it is too ugly, Zhiyuan will be unhappy when he comes back, and it will not be good if he has a pimple in his heart in the future." ”

Yan Shunhua shook his head, "Shen Jingyuan won't disrespect her mother because of her occasional gaffes. I've been telling him about it for a long time.

Forget it, it's useless to worry anyway, the key is to reverse this idea by herself, and it's useless to force it. Dad, you have to figure out a lot of things yourself. It's not that I haven't done her ideological work, the problem is that it's okay to say that there is no external stimulus, but if there is stimulation, she can't turn around. Give her some time, we're not in a hurry. ”

Although Yan Shunhua was not in a hurry, Yan Yucheng was in a hurry.

"Don't let you say when you wake up? I didn't say that you were in a bad mood just now, okay, I understand that your mood is too bad, but now that you have slept well, you can't say yet? Are you too much?"

Yan Zhang's face darkened, "As soon as you come up, you accuse me of this and blame me for that, isn't it too much? I'm nervous about what's wrong with my daughter? I've broken the law? Or is it in the way of your eyes? I feel sorry for my only daughter, I just don't want her to call other people's fathers and mothers?"

Yan Yucheng saw that the more she spoke, the more justified she became, and she couldn't help but rise in anger, but she didn't want to say anything excessive, so she forced her emotions.

"It's okay for you to spoil your own daughter, but there's no need to not allow other people to spoil their daughter too. The fourth brother and four sisters-in-law are people respected by their uncles, they are like their biological parents, they can also like Xiaoyue, which is the blessing of our Xiaoyue, and it has a promoting effect on the relationship between Xiaoyue and her aunt. ”

"You're a cliché. I know. My uncle respects his deceased wife's parents very much, and I don't need you to say it, I know better than you. I didn't mean to let Xiaoyue not get along with them, I just wanted her to know who her real father and mother were, instead of calling people indiscriminately. ”

Yan Zhang's mood was indeed much calmer after a sleep, but when her husband said this, it was naturally sunny and cloudy.

"Could it be that Xiao Yue followed her aunt to call the fourth brother and the fourth sister-in-law, and her father and mother were calling people indiscriminately? Let me ask you, if it weren't for my aunt, would Xiao Yue do this? Would we Xiao Yue casually call a strange couple her father and mother?"

Yan Yucheng asked like this, and Yan Zhang was silent.

"When Xiaoyue was very young, she was a lively and cute child, but she was never an easy to approach child, and she was very vigilant. Do you remember that when she was four years old, Yang Qi in the village tried to say that as long as she was willing to call her father, she would give her a gold ingot, but in the end she shouted?

No, she directly threw Yang Qi with a ball of wet mud. ”

Speaking of this, Yan Zhang laughed "poof", "Yes, who asked him to tease Xiaoyue? Dare to say anything, just throw a ball of mud, and not make him." ”

Seeing that his wife finally smiled, Yan Yucheng breathed a sigh of relief in his heart, and his face softened.

"Yes, when I heard his sudden suggestion, I knew he was joking, but when the others followed suit, I was very unhappy. So although I reprimanded Xiaoyue afterwards that I shouldn't treat my elders like this, I was happy in my heart, and I felt that what my girl did was good, what she did was wonderful, and what she did was croaking. ”

Yan Zhang's smile was even happier, "If you let Brother Liang see it like this, he will laugh at you." ”

"It's okay, he's still young. If Xiaoyue knew, she would only feel happy. Because she has been such a person since she was a child, I know that she can now call the fourth brother and four sisters-in-law father, first, she really feels the kindness of the fourth brother and four sisters-in-law to her, and second, she really loves her aunt. She did this from the heart.

If you can't turn this corner, you will only make it more and more difficult for your daughter to do, and your heart will become more and more uncomfortable. ”

"What can I do? It's not that I don't know she's right, you've said it many times, and she's said it, and every time I bring up this topic, I feel bad to see her cautiously turning around and saying good things for them.

I don't want to be like this, and I want to be as generous as you are, but when it comes to that moment, I can't control it.

You are a man, you have not conceived in October, you have experienced the feeling of a child dancing in your belly, two hearts beating together, and you have not experienced the heart-rending pain to give birth to the child The moment of despair and happiness coexists, you don't understand, you don't understand ...... at all"