Seeing that her daughter didn't speak, Luo Ying glanced at her ex-husband.

Yan Qijun understood, "It's nothing to go and see you, anyway, it's just a meal, it's a big deal, if you feel dissatisfied, sit down and drink a few cups of tea, just make an excuse to leave in a hurry." ”

"Your dad is right.

Marrying a man, marrying a man, dressing and eating, looking for a man in the past, is to find someone who can live. Times are different now, both men and women have hands and feet and can make their own money.

Our family's economic conditions are good, and the most important thing is that you are also out of the hall and into the kitchen, whether it is a spring snow or a lower riba person, everything can be played around, so you can pick it high, and it doesn't matter if you pick your eyes.

Don't blame your father and mother for nagging, it's true that when you get older, you yourself will say that men are not popular when they are old, and women are even worse. In this regard, we women are inherently disadvantaged.

Even if you are not afraid that you will not be able to marry in the future, you have to think about your offspring, right?

As soon as a woman is over the age of thirty-five, the ovaries will age on their own, and this trend is simply irreversible, no matter how good you are at maintenance and hard exercise, it is useless.

Mom and Dad still want to be able to hug their grandson, while the two of us are still young, when your child is born, no matter which family it is handed over, we promise to help you bring it well, so that you have no worries. ”

Yan Shunhua looked at his parents, listening to the two of them singing and playing double reeds, and couldn't help but think of some scenes when he was a child.

At a very young age, the relationship between the two of them was very good. At that time, although their respective jobs began to get busy, no matter what, they would always find some time to go out with her only daughter.

It was the happiest day when she still had that only home, and the only day full of laughter and laughter that she remembers most clearly.

Her parents are also like now, always pretending to be black and white in front of her, so as to talk about it, in order to want her to be happy, hoping that she can live a steady and unsuccessful life as they taught, and grow up healthy and peaceful.

At that time, they worked together seamlessly, and even now that they have been divorced for many years, they are still able to work together perfectly.

Suddenly, she felt a little tired, she hated being urged to marry by chatter, she hated to think of the old days of life that were too happy.

It's good that she grew up alone, she didn't become crazy, she didn't have schizophrenia, she didn't have a nervous breakdown, and she didn't have a body that was really weak.

She was lonely, but not lonely. She has a serious job to support herself and, more importantly, to live the life she wants.

Quiet, simple, pure.

After so many years, she has become very, very good at getting along with herself.

In a person's life, there will be a lot of people who will become passers-by in their lives, whether it is parents or siblings, whether it is relatives and friends or neighbors who meet day and night.

Some people spend a long time with you, but not all of them are sincere in their efforts to you. Some people have only been with you for a short time, but they have done their best to accompany you on that journey seriously.

But whether it is true or false, whether it is long-term or short-lived, it is not as good as a person's casual gestures.

The most important companion in a person's journey in life is not his parents, not his siblings, not his friends, his neighbors, not even his lover's spouse, but himself.

Accompany each other for life, like a shadow.

Yan Shunhua doesn't understand why so many people spend their lives pursuing the companionship of others, and instead of spending time with their best partner, they waste a lot of energy on outsiders.

Man is a social animal, but social animals are not always with their own friends, relatives or a specific person.

He needs his own territory and space, and he will need a moment of solitude, but with the development of science and technology, more and more people are addicted to the excitement, or the false prosperity built by this excitement.

"What your mother said is also good, in terms of raising children, we can both help you, no matter who it is, you should be able to rest assured, that is, adding a pair of chopsticks and a bowl. ”

Yan Qijun's words caused Luo Ying's eyes.

"It would be nice if it was so simple to take care of the children, you treat them as cats and dogs, just feed them, and you have to play and sleep with them, and learn to coax the children. As far as your old antique idea is concerned, my daughter can rest assured that she will hand over the child to you, but I am not at ease. ”

"Why don't you feel at ease? With children, how old can one thing be more difficult than doing business?

How many things have we experienced over the years? It can be said that we have passed five levels and killed six generals on our respective battlefields, and we have gone through ups and downs all the way. ”

Yan Qijun didn't think it was a big deal.

"If you give birth to a daughter, let your mother take it, and if you give birth to a son, your father will help you take it.

The teaching methods of boys and girls are different, daughters have to be spoiled and rich, and boys have to be strict, and they can't follow him in everything, otherwise they will grow up in the future and be lawless. ”

"That's a nice thing you say. I don't see you spoil your own youngest son a little less. As a father, he spoils his son like this, if he is a grandfather, he will be able to pay it back. ”

Luo Ying's words immediately drew his rebuttal.

"Don't say that you don't spoil your own children, don't you want those little ones that you don't spoil?

I show off all day long, I can't wait to take it with me every day, people who don't know still think that you are the first marriage, who would have thought that you are already married for the second time, and you are so interested in married life. ”

"Yan Qijun, we finally got together, do you have to provoke me like this? Don't say that you are unhappy in your married life now.

You were also very happy to divorce at the beginning......"

Luo Ying's words came to an abrupt end.

Yan Shunhua casually threw the tissue that had wiped her lips on the table. The white paper was light and weightless, but at this moment, this action suffocated the breath of the two of them.

"I won't go on a blind date anytime soon, and I don't want to get married. ”

Thinking of the man with a familiar voice that still confused her, Yan Shunhua paused.

"I'm an adult, even though I'm still a child in the eyes of my parents, but you forgot one thing, I started to take care of myself at a very young age.

Whether it's eating, drinking, sleeping, or emotional ups and downs, I take good care of myself.

Whether you want to admit it or not, the undeniable thing is that I am very good at enjoying myself, and accordingly, you did not restrain me when I needed you to take care of me, so now I am not used to being bound by you.

I know that you are doing it for my good, and all your care and concern is done in the name of love.

I am glad that you still have me in your heart, that you still love me deeply, and that you see me as the crystallization of your only irreplaceable love. I am a testimony to the wonderful past you once had, and a bridge to your current harmonious coexistence and laughter.

But Mom and Dad, everything is in the past, and I don't care about the past anymore, but that doesn't mean that I haven't been saddened by your relationship. ”

Speaking of this, Yan Shunhua paused again, as if he didn't know how to continue, so he looked at the two of them quietly.

Yan Qijun and Luo Ying couldn't help but be stunned.

"What's wrong with you? What sad things did you encounter, so you remembered the unpleasant experience when you were a child? We were too young and too ambitious, so we didn't take good care of you, I'm really sorry. If you do it all over again, your father and mother will definitely do better, and even if there is no way to save your marriage in the end, they will definitely settle you properly. ”

Yan Shunhua shook his head and couldn't help but smile bitterly.

"No, you should have divorced earlier, and you shouldn't have been painfully tied together because of me, so that both parties lived so painfully in the years that followed.

If I had divorced earlier, I would have been young at that time, and after a while, I would have forgotten all the pain, and I would not have gradually felt the rift between the two of you in the process of growing up, and I wanted to help but couldn't help. ”

The powerlessness of watching her home be destroyed step by step, from a complete home to a little bit of fragments, made her feel the malice and impermanence of fate.

So when she was a teenager, Yan Shunhua had a sense of disillusionment with marriage and family life.

She believes in the existence of love, but does not believe that growing old together will definitely be the embodiment of happiness, in fact, many marriage relationships can't even be done for a hundred years.

"I think it's nice that you're now able to sit down and speak calmly, both for me and because you've woken up from your nightmare.

You've done your best for me, and you've worked hard for each other. So don't feel guilty about me, even if I couldn't accept it when I was young, now I can look at the past from your standpoint.

A long, long time ago, I learned to ease myself and accept myself, and as an adult, I have been taking care of my own life, having a job, friends, being alone, and spending time with my peers.

You have your own family to run now, so don't bother with me, if I have a problem and need your help, I will definitely speak.

You are my parents, and I will not be polite to you, just like in your minds, I will always be the pearl of your palm, and I will always be a child.

The truth is the same. ”

Before Yan Qijun could say anything, Luo Ying became excited.

"What is our own family? Isn't Mom and Dad's home your home? Do you want to live in your own little apartment forever? You're almost thirty, how can you still be so naïve?

The times are advancing, but the concept of the whole country is still very backward, not so much backward as a long-ingrained habit of thinking. If you don't find a good person to marry now when the prime is right, it will be difficult to find a suitable person in the future.

You'll be pointed, and we'll be poked in the back. Mom and Dad's home will always welcome you, but Mom and Dad will also grow old one day, and we can't really watch you grow old together.

Even if we can really live a long life, after a hundred years, you still have most of your life to live, do you want to live alone for the rest of your life?"

Yan Shunhua suddenly remembered that man, he had sworn when he was drunk and dreamed of death, whether it was heaven or earth, he would find her.

So she smiled.

"No, I'm just expressing my views on marriage. Mom, you don't need to be so excited. I don't have to be single, but if I can't meet the right person, I don't want to settle down.

I don't have to worry about food and housing, I also have hobbies that I am interested in, and I have friends to talk to, so I can live alone for the rest of my life.

The cost of getting married and maintaining a marriage is high, and the cost of living alone is also high, and there are pros and cons to both, and I think I can accept and afford both.

Mom, don't worry about me, go and be a matchmaker for Brother Wu. ”

Luo Ying became even more angry after hearing this.

"It's complete nonsense, don't think I can't hear that you're setting some language trap for me.

Mom doesn't ask you to find someone to marry in a short time, she just wants you to give it a try.

You don't even want to try, but you're still trying to convince me that you don't mean to resist getting married, you think your mother is ignorant, right?

Your brother Awu is responsible for his own father, you don't need to worry, and I don't need to worry about it, don't always use him as an excuse whenever you talk about this issue.

Although he is older than you, he is a man and you are a woman, and the urgency of age cannot be compared at all.

If it weren't for the fact that you and Ah Wu were brother and sister, I would have sent the two of you directly to the pile, saving me from annoying looking at it!"

Luo Ying was angry, Yan Qijun looked at it coldly for a long time, and finally frowned.

"I think you're crazy, talking nonsense. No matter how good the Awu people are, how can you be a mother and come with your mouth open, and you are not ashamed? The emperor is not in a hurry, and the eunuch is in a hurry. ”

"Why am I crazy? Aren't you in a hurry to get angry, like an ant on a hot pot? Don't say it, it seems that I am the only one who worries about my daughter.

If Ah Wu wasn't a good one, I wouldn't bother to mention it even if it was my own son.

Anyway, both of them are getting along well, just try it, this one doesn't want to marry that one doesn't want to marry, it's not a person inside and out, and those who don't know really think that you have a physical problem and that psychological problem. ”

"Luo Xiaoying, pay attention to your wording! Don't parrot your words, learn all kinds of nonsense to your children, are you annoyed?!"

"Yan Qijun, my daughter was born to me, I'm distressed if you're not in a hurry! Also, it's my business to be annoyed, we have already broken up, and you don't have to be responsible for cleaning up the mess, what are you annoyed about?!"

A day of husband and wife for a hundred days, the love is not broken, but it is over, it is better to miss each other.