Chapter 592: Teaching by example
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Yan Liushi looked at her reluctantly, and added a large paragraph of words uneasily, "It's confiscated, and you can't draw such a pattern in the future, do you know?"
What if someone finds out? It doesn't matter in our family, anyway, they are all our own people, and even if they are known, they will not fly out of Yanjia Village and spread all over the world.
But it's different in the capital, the Dingguo Mansion is too cold at a high place, you have to be careful and careful, from now on you have to learn to be restrained, learn to be low-key, don't say what you shouldn't say, don't do what you shouldn't do, don't even think about the thoughts that shouldn't be thought, prevent it from gradually, and slowly form a good habit, so as not to be caught by someone for some reason, causing an unfavorable situation. ”
"Mother, do I look like such a stupid person? Of course I don't know that it's dangerous and I have to do it like this, what's the good of me? You don't think your daughter is a complete stupid person, good at digging holes to bury herself, right?"
Yan Liushi glared at her when he heard this, "Look at you, talking nonsense again, hurry up and spit." ”
She folded her palms together as she spoke, muttering to herself and praying, "It's strange that the passing fairies are strange, and the little girl is just talking about it." The child's words are unscrupulous, and please forgive the sins......"
Yan Shunhua held her forehead, feeling that she really couldn't argue anymore, in fact, it was really good to be a quiet beautiful girl once in a while, at least, it wouldn't make the people around her feel pressure or worry.
She spat several mouthfuls of saliva in succession, bowed and begged the illusory God not to mind her little child's jokes, and at last she respectfully begged for mercy.
"Mother, okay, okay, don't worry, if you continue like this, even my sister-in-law will wake up from her sleep, and I will laugh at me for being a solid and honest No. 1 fool. ”
"If she sleeps enough, she wakes up and laughs because of you, which is a credit for your stupidity this time. ”
Yan Liushi couldn't help her daughter with such a hippie smile, she patted Yan Shunhua's shoulder helplessly, and went over to make the quilt for her daughter-in-law and sat down at the head of the bed.
"Your sister-in-law is also very hard, you have to take the lead in the future, don't let a few juniors do the same, always talk back to her, and disobey discipline. No matter what, she is also your sister-in-law. No matter what happened in the past, now that you have really reformed yourself, it is so bad that you have not yet married and had children, and you will not understand how the pain of losing a child is painful. ”
Fang Rouniang originally woke up, but later fell asleep again when the two of them were discussing the pattern of the wedding dress, although her brows were furrowed, her face was still calm.
"Mother, you really wronged me. Even at the beginning, when my sister-in-law has not changed, I will not complain to the little ones in public or in private, and the matter between adults and adults is solved by adults, and there is no need to involve children, this is my consistent concept, and I have always done it. You can rest assured. ”
Yan Shunhua said this with full sincerity, and it can be called justified at all. Because she really believes that no matter what kind of festival there is between adults, as long as it does not reach the point of hatred, then there is no need to involve children, otherwise it is easy for them to be caught in a dilemma between adults, so that they have been in a psychological conflict during their growth, laying hidden dangers for peace and happiness in the future.
A person who doubts the peace and tranquility of his family of origin is likely to grow up bored with family life and avoid marriage and hate starting a new family with someone else.
The world of adults is full of battlefields, swords, shadows, and cannons are roaring, even if there is no gunsmoke, it is full of dangers, and you have to tense your nerves at all times to avoid bleeding and injury. Children's world is like a blank sheet of paper, whatever is dyed, whether it is good or bad, they often accept it all, but even if they are on the battlefield, they also have the ability to play the battlefield as a playground.
Yan Liushi nodded, agreeing with her words, "I know you didn't express your dissatisfaction, but you didn't stop it before, but let Brother Yong'er and the others discuss and verbally attack in private." ”
Yan Shunhua sighed, "Mother, children don't need to be taught. Most of the time, what we adults are, they will be like.
Words are better than deeds, and that's the truth. Among them, the influence of parents is especially greater. Often what you teach him, he can't remember it in his heart, or he can't do it if he remembers, but how you say and do it on weekdays, he will learn ten out of ten subtly.
In the past, the reason why they would vent their bitterness in front of me as if no one was around, not only because I would not stop it, but also because they did not dare to say anything in other places, because if they said it, they would be disciplined or even beaten. And I think children also need to express their opinions and feelings, even if there are many negative aspects of the content, there are many wrong words, but this is also their right.
In fact, after the sister-in-law changed, Brother Yong'er quickly felt it, and knew the conclusion in the observation, that is, the sister-in-law has really changed for the better, not because she is a sister-in-law, not because she is an unchangeable identity like a mother and should respect her, but because the sister-in-law is worthy of our respect as a person, especially if she has really changed.
Many people can't take this step in their lifetime, but she did, and naturally got to where she is now, so the little ones now sincerely respect her. ”
Yan Liushi was silent for a long time, and found that he really had no way to continue, so he had to surrender, "Okay, what you said is reasonable, it's Niangbai who is worried." ”
"Mother is right at all times. You see, the head of our family is my father, and even he has to listen to you, so of course all of us must obey your orders. ”
Yan Liushi was instantly amused by her, "Give orders, this tall hat lady doesn't like it." Fortunately, your father is not here, otherwise he would have to lament that he is a 'strict wife', and his mother's reputation will not be good-looking, and he will definitely be criticized by the three aunts and six mothers-in-law outside for not being submissive and not respecting her husband enough. ”
Whoever says that, it means that she is envious, jealous and hateful in her heart.
My father really feels sorry for you and respects you, so he will tolerate and tolerate everything, and willingly be a 'strict wife', and others want such blessings. ”
Yan Shunhua smiled, and then the next second, she heard Shen Jingyuan's voice sound, which made her almost drop her jaw in shock. (To be continued.) {Chongqing University giant breast school flower selfie, real childlike giant breast photos, please pay attention to the WeChat public account to see the beauty online (beauty island search, press and hold for 3 seconds to copy)