Chapter 573: You Are Not Suitable
Thinking that this meal would cost more than 3,000 yuan, he only saw Lu Lanshi, and Sun Kui felt a pain in his flesh.
When he looked at Lu Lan again, he saw that she had a smile on her face, and she didn't stop Lu Yanchuan from ordering, and she didn't say anything, Sun Kui couldn't help but think, did they do this, did they want to test him, see him pick the door or be generous?
Even if it was a temptation, it made him feel very uncomfortable in his heart, and he was blackmailed as a wronged leader, and no one was comfortable. If he and Lu Lanshi have a good deal, if they only meet once or twice, and there is no future, then it is not too late for him to ask her for the money for this meal.
Thinking about it this way, Sun Kui didn't feel so painful, but he just pretended to be generous and told Lu Yanchuan that eating is to eat to the fullest, and to eat whatever he wants.
Before the dish Lu Yanchuan ordered came up, he picked up the chopsticks, picked a dish on the table, sandwiched a large piece of meat, put it in his mouth, and ate it in a big gulp.
Lu Yanchuan was still chewing meat in his mouth, so he asked Sun Kui vaguely: "What do you do?"
"......" Lu Lanshi looked at him like this, very speechless.
She and Lu Yanchuan don't know how many meals they have eaten together, and every time she sees him eating, she eats slowly and methodically, and she looks quite elegant. If she hadn't seen it with her own eyes, it would have been hard for her to imagine that when Lu Yanchuan was eating, he would be able to make such a rude appearance as he is now, and he would be very impolite to chew the vegetables and ask others.
She finally thought of it, this guy is purely here to smash the field!
Anyway, she has already denied Sun Kui, and plans to stop having contact with him after this meeting, so she will watch the excitement and see how Lu Yanchuan smashes this scene.
Since Lu Yanchuan asked, Sun Kui answered him seriously: "I work in an IT company and do network application development. ”
"Code farmer who writes code!" Lu Yanchuan looked very understanding, in fact, he did understand, he had friends who developed games.
Then he asked: "Then how much is your salary in a month, and how much is your income in a year, including bonuses and so on, and how much money do you have in the bank after working for so many years?"
These problems, in the blind date market, have always been sensitive and offensive, but they have to be understood.
Sun Kui is still honest, and roughly talked about his situation, thinking that he has an income of more than 100,000 yuan a year, a deposit of more than 300,000 yuan, and a house, and his living conditions are good after marriage.
I didn't want Lu Yanchuan to say with disgust: "That's it, it's not enough to stuff your teeth! If you marry my sister Lan Shi, and buy her some slightly more decent clothes and bags every year in the future, as well as all kinds of cosmetics and skin care products, and then go to do beauty, you will have to spend hundreds of thousands a year, right? You still have to give birth to a child, and the cost of giving birth to a child will be tens of thousands, and the child's milk powder money will be 100,000 yuan, right? If you hire a nanny, it will cost tens of thousands of yuan a year? In the future, if you give your child a good kindergarten or a good school, you will not be able to afford to go to a good kindergarten or school in the future, and your child will not be able to afford to go to a good kindergarten or school in the future! If someone is seriously ill again, can you still get the money to treat the disease? With such a small income and savings every year, if it were me, I would not dare to get married, and I would not be able to afford to get married!"
Seeing Lu Yanchuan say this, he shook his head, and Sun Kui looked embarrassed.
He thought for a while and said, "Actually, a lot of expenses can be saved a little, and they can't be spent so much." ”
"These are all necessary expenses in life, how can you save them?!" Lu Yanchuan really thinks that this is an indispensable expense in life, and he has already said less according to the consumption level of ordinary families.
Sun Kui felt that many of the expenses Lu Yanchuan said were quite wasteful, for example, buying clothes, bags, and cosmetics may cost hundreds of thousands of yuan a year, and his set of clothes of a few hundred yuan can be worn for two years, and women can buy more, 350,000 yuan a year is enough. Besides, it is completely unnecessary to eat in the restaurant, how good it is to eat at home, clean and save money. Besides, you don't have to travel on holidays every year, and you don't have to spend this money. The cost of giving birth to a child and the cost of milk powder cannot be saved, so just ask a nanny to forget it, and you can let the parents help take care of the child.
Lu Yanchuan shook his head again and again, thinking that this man was too picky, and said to him: "You think so, is it life? It's purely a boring life, why should my sister Lanshi give up enjoying her life, marry you to live a boring life, boil herself into a yellow-faced woman, and waste the good youth of her life?"
"No, there are a lot of things that can be discussed after marriage. When Sun Kui looked at Lu Lan again, he saw that she was beautiful and would make money by opening her own company, he liked it very much, thinking that if Lu Lanshi married him, he would definitely not let her suffer.
Lu Yanchuan asked again: "You said that if you have a child in the future, let your parents take it, will your parents help you take it, or let your mother-in-law help you take it?"
"My parents can take it. Sun Kui can be sure of this.
Lu Yanchuan then asked: "Then your parents, do you want to live with you? My sister Lan Shi is a single parent, her mother must live with her, and when the time comes, her mother will not have an opinion if her mother does not take the child, right? Besides, how big is your house, can it accommodate so many people?"
Sun Kui thought about it again and replied, "My parents live by themselves, and my family bought another suite, and after we get married, we will live in that suite." When the time comes, Mother Lu can live with us. ”
Then the question arises again: "If your parents don't live with you, how can they take care of your children? When you give birth to a child, you will leave it at your parents' house? You don't have to think about it! Mother Lu lives with you, can she take care of the children for you? Do you think that when the time comes, her mother will help take care of the children, so she will not need to hire a nanny, and she can save a sum of money? The problem is, your mother-in-law is not your nanny, nor is it your free labor, and if you hire a nanny, you will have to pay a salary, and let your mother-in-law help take care of the children, so you are not ready to give money?"
"Then it's no problem to hire a babysitter then. Sun Kui thought again, when the child is too young, it is okay to ask a nanny to take it for a year or two.
But Lu Yanchuan did not give up, and continued to ask: "Did your family buy another house, did you buy it yourself, or did your parents buy it?
"My parents bought it. They make a down payment and I take out a loan. "Sun Kui's only good thing is that he doesn't lie.
If this kind of big problem is also a lie, that is, the character is too bad!
As soon as Lu Yanchuan heard this, he immediately had a new question: "Your parents paid the down payment to buy the house, and you repay the loan, can you add your wife's name to your house, divide half of her, give her the property right certificate, and share it with her?"
"This ...... It depends. Sun Kui was a little hesitant, feeling that this question was not easy to answer, "If you want to add a name, you have to agree with my parents." ”
Seeing that he hesitated, Lu Yanchuan decided that he was definitely unwilling to let his wife add his name to share the house, and he was worried that if he divorced in the future, his wife would take away half of his house, and he would lose a lot! In fact, according to the current marriage law, if one party buys a house, the other party only adds his name, and it is for nothing, unless it is given to the other party, so that the other party can jointly enjoy the property rights of the house.
Lu Yanchuan said again: "Actually, your house has nothing to do with your wife. If she marries you, she won't even have a toilet, and there will be no basic security, and the future will be swept away at any time and left with nothing! If you have a house, you and your future wife will each make half of the down payment, and take the property rights of the house from your parents, and you and your wife will jointly own the property rights, and the two of them will repay the loan together. Otherwise, you don't want that house, let your parents repay the loan, and you can buy another house. Otherwise, there is no need to talk to you, let alone think about getting married. ”
Sun Kui originally thought that if he and Lu Lanshi got married, they could discuss which side of the parents would live with and help take care of the children in the future, but listening to Lu Yanchuan's words, he wanted him to give the house to Lu Lanshi! As soon as they met for the first time, they began to beat him up on the idea of a house! His parents bought a house for him and helped him make a down payment, so what was the problem with him taking out a loan! Another house was a good idea, where did he get so much money!
Sun Kui felt very uncomfortable, and said a little angrily: "We just met, and we haven't talked about marriage yet, so you said that you want to give the house, which is too calculated!"
Lu Yanchuan sneered sarcastically: "Hmph, how can you be calculated to protect your legitimate property rights and interests! The house your parents bought has nothing to do with your wife." After you get married, your income is the joint property of you and your wife, which is equivalent to you taking your and your wife's money to help your parents pay off the mortgage. When she gets married, she wants to stick people upside down, and she gives you money upside down, and she doesn't have any guarantees, can this marriage be concluded? ! If you want to talk about calculations, you haven't gotten married yet, and the object hasn't been negotiated yet, but you have calculated your future wife first!"
Sun Kui couldn't refute this, and said: "Two people get married only when they have a good relationship, and they don't go for divorce!"
"Hehe!" Lu Yanchuan smiled again, "What is the essence of marriage? The essence of marriage is a profound social and economic relationship, to put it bluntly, it is a business, a transaction. I said that if you want to get married on a blind date, don't you just see that the other party is about the same, and the family economic conditions are about the same, so you think it's okay, and then get married, what feelings do you have, where do you get the feelings? Even if you have feelings, can you guarantee that after you get married, you don't need to divorce?"
The concept of marriage that Lu Yanchuan said is not derived from love, but has seen too many marriages that are combined because of interests, and has a thorough understanding of the essence of marriage. However, whether such a view of marriage applies to himself is another matter.
Seeing that Sun Kui was speechless for a while, Lu Yanchuan said with disdain: "Sun Kui, I think, your conditions are too poor, you don't meet the requirements of the economic foundation for marriage, and it's not suitable for my sister Lan Shi, you are not suitable, forget it, there is no need to talk about it!"
Listening to him talk endlessly like "the woman's mother who is worried that her daughter will suffer all kinds of losses when she marries", and then watching him disdain to hit Sun Kui directly, Lu Lanshi finally couldn't bear it anymore and glared at him vigorously: "Lu Yanchuan, you are enough!"
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