Although Yan Shengguo was not the roundworm in his daughter's stomach, he could also see that his daughter just didn't want to argue with him, and she didn't really agree with his words.

"You can tell me, if, I mean, if you and Zhiyuan don't know each other like this, will you get married when you reach marriageable age?"

Yan Shunhua smiled slightly, this tentative question really made her unavoidable.

"Does Daddy want to hear me tell the truth or lie?"

"Let's talk about it. ”

"The truth is, I don't want to get married. I wish I could live with my father and mother for the rest of my life, serve you for the rest of my life, and then grow old peacefully.

But you also said that unless the people of Daqing can't get married, even if they die, the conditional parents may also hold a secret marriage for their children, so in order to avoid the humiliation of others for myself and my family, of course I will get married, choose a good-tempered person, even if the ability is average, as long as there is no eating, drinking, prostitution, gambling and violence, I naturally have the ability to manage the family.

Is it a lie, that is, my father and mother will marry whoever they want me to marry, I just put on a wedding dress and marry a living single man, with the identity of a married woman who is justifiable, serving her in-laws with low eyebrows and pleasing eyes, and revolving around her husband and children all her life, pots and pans, firewood, rice, oil and salt. ”

"I knew you would. If your mother was here, she would have been fooled by you just now. In this way, it's good that you met Zhiyuan, otherwise I wouldn't know what to do with you. If you are so concerned about your marriage, how can you expect to be more motivated after you get married?

I can't imagine you just spinning around the stove, it's terrifying. ”

Yan Shengguo shook his head, inexplicably feeling that his daughter was born to be the Duchess of Dingguo, if she didn't marry into such a family, but went to live in a small family, her life would definitely be like a pool of stagnant water.

"Dad, I have heard the saying that if you make your life according to nature, you will never be poor, and if you make your life according to people's ideas, you will never be rich.

Sometimes I think that no matter how mediocre and trivial my life is, as long as I can stick to what I love to do, I can be proud.

Marrying is only a small part of life, whether you marry or not, it is a small wave in the river of human growth, and it is a wave of turbulent waves, but as long as you can learn to control the wind and waves, whether it is calm or turbulent, you can adapt to changes at any time, such as walking on the ground. ”

"Don't underestimate the experience and lessons of the predecessors, as the saying goes, eat a trench and grow a wisdom, although our old bones are poor in the ability to adapt to new changes, but the life experience is much richer, even if it is a rural villager, a lifetime of life, there are always a few truths to support the old age. If young people only want to do what they want to do and don't listen to their elders, they won't be able to go far. ”

Yan Shengguo didn't want her to become a self-righteous person, so he continued, "Your status is too high now, except for Zhiyuan and Mr. Huang, I'm afraid no one around you will dare to say anything bad to you, but Xiaoya, you have to remember, if you listen to it, you will be clear and biased, and you will be dark, and there will be my teacher in the threesome, and you will never underestimate anyone."

Even if that person is just a small character, only a little clever, there is no great wisdom at all, a grain of mouse feces can spoil a whole pot of good porridge, on the contrary, everyone gathers firewood and the flame is high, and ordinary people get together and really help you, even if one person's ability is not high, three stinkers have also competed against one Zhuge Liang. ”

Yan Shunhua smiled dumbly.

"Dad, what you're saying now is all from the picture book I drew for Brother Yong'er, right?"

Although he grew up in the countryside and has a bold and unrestrained temperament, Yan Shengguo has always regarded himself as a scholar, and he would never say such a metaphor as rat poop in the past.

"Come on, Dad is afraid that you will be complacent. Everything you do today is your own credit, including your own efforts to win Zhiyuan, so you should be proud, but don't be too proud, everything must be low-key. ”

"Yes, yes, yes, my daughter obeys orders, she will definitely do things honestly and low-key, and be a more low-key person, Dad, you can rest assured, you don't know what your daughter has done. ”

He couldn't laugh or cry.

"It's okay if you don't mention it, but when you mention it, I find that I really don't know what you've done since you got married. Do you want to take advantage of the time now and tell them one by one?"

Yan Shunhua supported his forehead.

"Dad, just let your daughter take a breath.

If I told you and didn't tell my mother one by one, I would have to repeat it to her word by word when I went back, so it would be better not to say it from the beginning.

If both of you say it, the next time you meet with my father and mother, you will become more aware of what I have done than they know what I have done when you talk about something related to me, and you will be unbalanced again, and then I will have to be a head and two years old. ”

Yan Shengguo was really afraid of Yan Zhang's family.

"You have a point. I really didn't think it through. I already know the big event, forget the details, anyway, it's nothing more than that little bit of psychological process, even if I don't ask, I can guess eight or nine without leaving ten. ”

She smiled.

"I just said that it's not a roundworm in my daughter's belly, when it comes to the point, you don't want to be humble at all? But speaking of which, apart from Shen Jingyuan, Dad, you are really the person who knows me best. ”

"Aren't you afraid your mother will be angry?"

Yan Shengguo looked at his daughter amusefully and touched the bridge of his nose in embarrassment.

"Well, my mother used to dislike me like my mother, and after saying anything, she only kissed my father and not her. It's really my mother who was too busy at that time, the eldest brother and sister have to help my mother work, the second sister basically can't find anyone except for the meal, and the only one in the family is you who is as idle as me, who am I not looking for?

Yan Shengguo laughed.

"Even if this is true, if you learn from your mother like this, you have to beat you all over your head to keep her, and say that the thin padded jacket with no conscience is not warm when you wear it, it is really for nothing. ”

Yan Shunhua smiled, "No, my mother is so gentle, even if you want to beat someone, you will definitely say that you are not, you have taken away all my attention, who has let you keep holding me a book, and urging me to learn calligraphy?

Speaking of which, Dad, you're really going too far, and if you hadn't talked about it today, I really wouldn't have thought you were completely premeditated. Dare to wait here, just to make my mother think that I am biased towards you?"

"Hey, everyone knows that you are a firm father, Er Ya is a centrist, swaying at any time, Eldest Girl and Zhaoming are thunderous mothers, Brother Yong is the third sister, what you say is what, such a comparison, it is obvious that I win, otherwise how would your mother listen to me? ”

Yan Shengguo was so proud that he seemed to have a long tail wagging behind him, and his smug expression was beyond words.