Do you still want our family to pay for a down payment?

Qiao Xinman was stunned for a moment, and then made sure that he had heard correctly, Bai Ningmiao did say so.

Thinking about the tone in which she said this, and then looking at her look as if she had been cheated, Qiao Xinman's heart was not very happy.

Isn't it just beginning to discuss, as if our family is calculating their family!

Qiao Xinman looked at Liu Xinyue and asked Liu Xinyue to respond to her mother's words: "Xinyue, you pay part of the down payment for buying a house, this is what you said in person last night, not what we asked you to ask for." Your mom may have misunderstood, so let's make it clear to her. ”

It seems that Liu Xinyue and her family do not seem to have discussed clearly.

Liu Xinyue heard her mother talk like this, and she was a little big, and explained: "Mom, Yiming and I have already discussed and bought a house together." I will pay a part of the down payment for buying a house and repay the loan together in the future, so that both sides can share it together, and the burden is lighter. In this way, we bought a house together, and after we got married, I lived in my own heart and felt at ease. ”

The best way to buy a house is for both men and women, with a down payment of half and a half, and then repay the loan together. This is very fair, one person bears half of the money for the house, and half of the property rights of the house, even if there is a divorce in the future, no one will suffer.

However, after listening to Liu Xinyue's explanation, Bai Ningmiao raised her eyebrows: "Before you get married, you want to use the money to stick to other people's families and share it for other people's families!"

After waiting here for a long time before eating, Bai Ningmiao was already unhappy, and she didn't like Pei Yiming very much, she looked down on him a little, and felt that his family was too poor. Now that she heard her daughter say that she would make a down payment to buy a house together, Bai Ningmiao's anger was a little big, her mouth was open, and she would say whatever she thought of her daughter.

Hearing her say this about her daughter, Tao Yunfeng couldn't stand it.

What does it mean to take money and stick it to someone else's house? It is as if she took the money out to buy a house, and it is not hers to buy a house!

Tao Yunfeng looked at Bai Ningmiao and tried to reason with her: "Aunt Bai, in fact, many boyfriends and girlfriends are doing this now, they are ready to get married, and they will pay for a house together before marriage......

Without waiting for Tao Yunfeng to finish speaking, Bai Ningmiao interrupted her: "I have no opinion on other people's families doing this, but my family is not like this!"

The daughter she had raised with great difficulty was finally going to get married, and not to mention how much bride price she could exchange for and come back, how could there be any reason to go out with money, in that case, wouldn't she have raised a genuine money-losing goods! She also hoped that she would marry her daughter to a well-off family, collect more bride price, and save more money to buy a house for her son at home!

"Mom!" Liu Xinyue shouted, and then said to Bai Ningmiao with a slight dissatisfaction, "Mom, didn't we say yes before, just do what I said?"

Bai Ningmiao reversed his word: "Before you got married, you started to save money for other people's families, can you do what you say!"

Seeing Bai Ningmiao talking like this, this marriage can't be talked about properly!

Looking at her attitude now, even if the house issue is negotiated, it is not easy to talk about the rest of the matter.

Qiao Xinman reluctantly asked Bai Ningmiao again: "Xinyue Mom, then what should you do about buying a house?"

Bai Ningmiao was waiting for this sentence, and directly said her request: "Our family is happy, it is not easy to raise it to such a big age, and if I marry Yiming in the future and marry into your family, I will be a member of your family." It's not too much to let your family prepare a wedding room!"

"Yes, yes, not too much!" Qiao Xinman nodded and said repeatedly,

She couldn't help but think sarcastically in her heart, marrying her daughter is just like selling her daughter, bargaining with the buyer in front of her daughter! It is not easy for her daughter to be raised so big, and it will not be easy after she gets married, so why don't you think more about your daughter?

Qiao Xinman then made the words clear and said: "Xinyue Mom, according to what you mean, you are asking our family to buy a house and make a down payment for our family, right?"

That's what it means. Bai Ningmiao nodded affirmatively.

Anyway, if her daughter gets married, she won't take a penny and post it upside down!

"Since that's the case, it's okay!" Qiao Xinman had no choice, so he agreed first, but he still had to explain the relationship clearly, "Xinyue Mom, I'll put the ugly words in front of me." Our family made a full down payment, and it was okay to buy a house for Yiming and Xinyue to get married, and the house was bought and decorated, and Yiming and Xinyue lived after they got married. But this house, Hongqiu and I saved money to buy it, we have to write our names, don't even write Yiming's name, the house belongs to me and Yiming's father, not Yiming's, and it has nothing to do with Xinyue. If you think that's fine, you don't have to worry about the house. ”

Seeing Liu Xinyue's mother's attitude, Qiao Xinman began to think in her heart, just like Tao Yunfeng said, buying a house and writing her and Pei Yiming's names is a big deal for the loan in the future, and she and Pei Hongqiu will find a way to repay it. Even if this house is given to Pei Yiming and Liu Xinyue to live in after they get married, the property rights of the house will not do Pei Yiming's business, and it has nothing to do with Liu Xinyue at all.

As soon as I heard Qiao Xinman say that the house was not Pei Yiming's, it had nothing to do with Liu Xinyue, and Bai Ningmiao stopped doing it again.

Bai Ningmiao raised her eyebrows, and her eyes widened: "The house has nothing to do with our family's happiness? She will marry into your family in the future, she is the one you marry, and she will give birth to children and daughters for your family, and your family's house is your own, and it has nothing to do with her! You want my daughter to give it to you for nothing, right?"

The previous words are a bit ugly, but they are not wrong. In the latter sentence, giving away my daughter for nothing is too much.

If she wants to get married, and the marriage is her own, and she has children, and she is also her own children, how can she give it away for nothing! If you want to say that, after a man gets married, he mainly earns money to support his family, and he also has to take care of his wife and children, which is not equivalent to raising an irrelevant woman for nothing, providing her with food and shelter, and providing sperm for her to give birth to children!

If you think so, don't get married to a man or a woman!

Marriage is not a one-shot deal, although both men and women in the marriage have huge interests involved, but people who are sincerely married and lived, both men and women do not rely on marriage to make money, can only be as fair as possible, and no one suffers too much, unless one party is willing, has the conditions and capital to pay more.

"Aunt Bai, if you want to talk like this, it's not appropriate. ”

Hearing Bai Ningmiao say this, she was obviously a legal blind person in the marriage law, Tao Yunfeng couldn't help but try to reason with her again, "That's what the marriage law stipulates, no matter before or after marriage, whoever pays the down payment for buying a house will own the house." For example, our family paid a down payment to buy a house, even if Xinyue's name is written, she has no share in this house, and she will not be able to live with Yiming in the future, and if she divorces, she will also go to this house step by step. Therefore, the best way is to buy a house for the down payment, both of us pay for it, let Xinyue and Yiming make the down payment together, in this way, the house is two people, if Yiming has the big head, she will account for the big part, and Xinyue will account for as much proportion of the money as she wants. ”

"Is this really the case? Why haven't I heard others say this before?" Bai Ningmiao obviously wanted her daughter to occupy the house, and their family didn't want to pay for it, hearing Tao Yunfeng say this, she was skeptical.

Tao Yunfeng nodded: "If Aunt Bai thinks that I am fooling you, you can find the marriage law to take a look, or find a lawyer to ask, is this the case." ”

If you don't pay a penny, you still want to take possession of the house, how can there be such a good thing!

Their family is not a local tyrant, and the money is not blown by the wind, and the whole family has to save for more than ten years to save a down payment, so they are not so generous to give it away!

The most important thing is that in addition to Pei Hongqiu's satisfaction with Liu Xinyue, Qiao Xinman and Tao Yunfeng are not optimistic about her, thinking that she is not a woman who lives a down-to-earth life, what can Pei Yiming do if he wants to marry her, he can't help but let him get married and be resented by him, I am afraid that she and Pei Yiming will not be able to get married, and they will divorce not long after.

Liu Guihua, who had not spoken much all the time, was a little shaken in his heart, and said to Bai Ningmiao: "Xinyue Mom, I think it's like this, do what Xinyue said before." ”

But any parents who think more about their daughters, if they have money, are willing to pay for their daughters and marriage partners to buy a house with a down payment. But Bai Ningmiao obviously didn't think much about her daughter, and just wanted to make a fortune by taking advantage of her daughter's marriage.

In Bai Ningmiao's mind, even if the house bought by the man did not have Liu Xinyue's share, the house was for Liu Xinyue to live in after she got married, and as long as she never divorced, the house would always be lived. One day, my father-in-law and mother-in-law will die of old age, and that house is Pei Yiming's, isn't it Liu Xinyue's!

Thinking like this, Bai Ningmiao said again: "If you want to say this, there is no way. Our family has no money, and we can't afford a down payment. When it comes to buying a house, your family can do it yourself. Anyway, when the wedding room is ready, our family can marry if they are happy. ”

Hearing her say this, Liu Xinyue stopped doing it again: "Mom, I said it, I can make a down payment of 150,000 yuan!"

Bai Ningmiao deliberately asked: "Where did you get the 150,000, the family doesn't have any money for you!"

"I have saved it by working for so many years!" Liu Xinyue didn't care what her mother said, she decided by herself, she paid 150,000 yuan for the down payment of buying a house!

Before coming, she told her mother and father that she and Pei Yiming would make a down payment to buy a house, and as for the amount of the bride price, let her mother make the decision to talk to Qiao Xinman. She didn't expect that at the dinner table, when talking about buying a house, her mother would have such an attitude!

When Liu Xinyue looked at Pei Yiming, she had a bitter face, and she looked quite helpless.

Pei Yiming began to naively think that the two families had dinner together, re-discussed the things they had discussed last night, and then settled down like this, never expected that things would be like this.