readx;? A piece of paper was written, Tao Yunfeng took out another blank piece of paper, and continued: "Men are responsible for making money to support their families, and women are responsible for being beautiful like flowers, what do you think of this sentence?"

"Not entirely agreed. "Huo Jinliang never considered this kind www.biquge.info of question, and after thinking for a while, he replied, "This sentence should be said about men and women, because of gender differences, each has its own division of labor, each does its duty, and each does its duty." Men are responsible for earning money to support the family and are responsible for the material economy of the family, while women take care of the housework and take care of the family, groom themselves for the man, and maintain beauty and vitality in front of the man, so as to maintain family relations with each other. I think that if a woman has the ability and willingness to support her family, a man does not have to earn money to support her family, but he must have the ability to take responsibility to give the family economic security and a sense of security. Women and men are in an equal relationship and can be dependent on each other, but not one is completely dependent on the other. ”

Tao Yunfeng also agreed with this and nodded.

Huo Jinliang hasn't finished speaking: "Women are as beautiful as flowers, and if they refer to their appearance in a narrow sense, men also need it." Men don't like lazy and sloppy women, and women probably don't like raunchy men either. If it refers to the family-oriented, taking care of the family, and taking the man's money to support the family as the premise, the requirements for women are naturally higher than those of men, in fact, they are all relative......"

It can be seen that Huo Jinliang is afraid that he will not be able to say it well, and he will try his best to answer her question, and his views will be as objective as possible, Tao Yunfeng nodded again, already understanding his thoughts, and concluded: "That is to say, on the basis of respect and equality, the gender differences between men and women are recognized, and there is a gender-differentiated division of labor under the premise of sharing responsibilities." My thoughts are basically the same as yours. ”

Huo Jinliang secretly sweated, he said a lot, and was summed up by her in one sentence, what he wanted to express was almost like this.

This is the end of the question, Tao Yunfeng wrote the conclusion on paper: "There is no machismo, but there must be responsibility." ”

Seeing the pen in her hand swipe on the paper, she wrote these words, and he asked, "You ask this question for this conclusion?"

"What do you think?" she wanted to ask him directly if he had any machismo, whether he answered yes or no, and it was of little reference value, and the conclusions drawn from his views on the division of labor between men and women were more accurate.

Seeing that the expression on his face was a little confused, she patted his cheek and laughed: "Don't be nervous, I ask so much, it can be regarded as a shortcut to understand each other, seek common ground while reserving differences, in order to get along better in the future." ”

Huo Jinliang grabbed her hand and kissed the back of her hand: "Well, go on." ”

Although such a question and answer is too direct, it feels like a blind date, a little boring, but she does think about it far ahead and takes the relationship between them very seriously, he doesn't show it on his face, but his heart is warm.

"Next question. Tao Yunfeng continued to ask, "If a woman can't balance family and work, will you support her to continue to work hard, or do you want her to put her family first?"

This question directly crosses the remarks of many big men to women, "You don't have to do anything, I will support you", and the implication is: You can afford to support me, and I will not give up my career.

This is not difficult for Huo Jinliang to hear.

This two-choice question, the person who chooses is not himself, he quickly answered: "This question, it's up to you, you want to give up your job to focus on your family, I support it, you like to continue working, I support it too." ”

"You know what I want. She laughed again.

"What women really want is to be in charge of their own destiny. Huo Jinliang understands that Tao Yunfeng is this kind of woman.

After saying this, he thought of a story about Cavin and the witch.

King Arthur was captured and should have been put to death, but the king of the other side saw that he was young and optimistic, and admired him, so he asked Arthur to answer a very difficult question, and if he answered it, he would be freed.

The question is, "What do women really want?"

The people around Arthur: princesses, priests, wise men...... No one could give him a satisfactory answer, and he finally turned to an extremely ugly witch for help. The witch asks Gavin, one of Arthur's noblest warriors and his closest friend, to marry. When Gavin learned the news, he said he was willing to marry a witch.

The witch's answer was, "What a woman really wants is to be in charge of her own destiny." ”

On the wedding night, the witch asked Gavin: "I am half an ugly witch and half a beautiful woman in a fallen city in one day, Gavin, do you want me to become a beauty during the day, or a beauty at night?"

This cruel question, Gavin left the witch to decide for herself: "Since you said that what a woman really wants is to control her own destiny, then it's up to you to decide!"

The witch burst into tears: "I choose to be a beautiful woman day and night, because you know how to truly respect me!"

According to Huo Jinliang's answer, Tao Yunfeng wrote the conclusion on paper: respect for women's right to choose.

The next question: "When you are very, very angry, when you are angry, how do you dispel it, will you smash the things around you?"

"When you were angry?" Huo Jinliang replied after trying to remember, "When I was very angry when I was a child, I used to shout, I fought with other children, and I also hid and sulked and didn't smash things. ”

Tao Yunfeng asked, "What about when you grow up?"

He replied: "When you grow up, be restrained, if you are too angry, find a place to be quiet." ”

The exception to the breakup with an ex-girlfriend...... He didn't say it.

She nodded, and wrote on the paper again: the tendency to domestic violence is small......

I also wanted to write "I don't completely rule out this possibility", but I hesitated, forget it, it's not necessary.

Looking at her conclusion, Huo Jinliang darkened his face: "Do you doubt that I will be domestic violence?"

"Hehe, no, isn't this investigating? Tao Yun smiled dryly. It's not a question of doubting or not, but trying to rule out the possibility.

I have seen a lot of reports related to domestic violence, many men seem to be gentle, or loyal and honest, they are very good to women before marriage, and they are pampered and gentle, who knows that his temperament will change greatly after marriage, and he will violently beat women.

Seeing that he was suspected and unhappy, she leaned over, kissed him on the face, and comforted: "Okay, I'm sure you won't." ”

Kiss it like this, this tone of speech, coax children!

He likes it very much, but he is more tricky than a child: "It's not enough to kiss me." ”

He took her face, bit her lip, and kissed her wildly, until she begged for mercy, and then let her go.

Tao Yunfeng nestled in his arms, panting again.

"Do you have any more questions?" he smiled contentedly at her blushing face from the kiss.

"There are still questions, continue!" Tao Yunfeng was weak all over, so he simply leaned on his arms, picked up the paper and pen on the table, scanned what questions he asked, and what questions were missing, thought for a while, and continued to ask: "If one day, you are unemployed, will you tell your family as soon as possible, or will you hide it from your family first, and wait until you find a new job?"

Huo Jinliang felt that this question was difficult to say, and gave a vague answer: "Depending on the specific situation, it must not be concealed all the time." ”

"When you encounter a problem, you have to bear it, and if you can't solve it, you are willing to ask for help. Tao Yunfeng quickly came to her conclusion, leaned over, stretched her waist, and put the paper back on the glass table to take notes.

Huo Jinliang thoughtfully helped her pull the table closer, and asked, "What if it's you?"

She said directly: "If I am unemployed, I may not let my mother know about it first." However, I will let you know as soon as possible, who told us to be in the same company and department, and you are my boss. ”

"Hmm. He put his fingers in her hair and rubbed her head.

This little head melon thinks so much.

"Next question. Tao Yunfeng still has a lot of problems in her head, and she tries to pick the most important ones, "If a woman who likes you very much is drunk, without the help of others, just you and her, will you send her back?"

This question is relatively sensitive, but he still admits frankly: "Yes." ”

There is also an enhanced version: "If she insists that you accompany her and doesn't let you go, otherwise she will commit suicide to show you, what will you do?"

He was very embarrassed, thought about it for a while, and made a ruthless decision: "Leave her alone." ”

Tao Yunfeng nodded and threw out the ultimate version: "If she suddenly falls ill and is sent to the hospital by you, after being rescued, you still want you to accompany him, otherwise she will seek death and life, not eat or drink, and commit suicide again, what will you do?"

The ultimate version of the question, which is a headache, Huo Jinliang frowned, pondered for a moment, and said: "Her life is hers, she doesn't cherish it herself, and others can't take care of it." ”

"It's so heartless. Tao Yunfeng muttered.

He replied solemnly: "To be ruthless is to be affectionate." ”

After experiencing all kinds of entanglements in the early morning of autumn, Huo Jinliang saw that some women are unbeatable Xiaoqiang in terms of feelings, and they have been defeated and fought repeatedly, if he doesn't refuse ruthlessly, agree to the woman's request, and give her a little hope, she will not give up, for her, for him, it will be a bad result.

Knowing what he meant, Tao Yunfeng nodded.

I thought that this problem ended here, and I didn't want Tao Yunfeng to have a hellish version: "If that woman really committed suicide and the rescue was ineffective, would you feel guilty and blame yourself?"

"Tao Yunfeng, this question is too cruel. "He wasn't really a heartless person, and if the woman killed herself for him, of course he would feel guilty and blame himself.

And he blames himself for other women, and he is sorry for the woman he loves.

"Maybe one day, you really have to face such a woman, face such a choice. Tao Yunfeng didn't think she was asking too much, an excellent man like Huo Jinliang, the eldest lady of the Qiu family was infatuated with him, and there will definitely be women who like him in the future, one after another.

Seeing that Huo Jinliang's face was heavy, Tao Yunfeng grabbed his hand, pressed it to his chest, and said calmly: "I hope that you can really put me in your heart, no matter when, on what occasion, and what kind of woman you face, you must think of me." If there is a woman who likes you and pesters you to not let you go, you call me and let me tell her that I am waiting for you to come home. If she commits suicide and seeks death and life, you call me over, and I will help you persuade her. No matter how much persuasion doesn't work, if she really commits suicide, you are not the only one who feels guilty and blames herself, and I will share it with you. Of course, all this is just hypothetical ......"

Before she finished speaking, he hugged her tightly emotionally, lowered his chin on her shoulder, and whispered in her ear: "Okay, I listen to you, I will always remember your words." ”

After this heavy question, Tao Yunfeng had other questions that he couldn't ask.

This concludes today's question.

But Huo Jinliang kept holding her, and he didn't mean to let go.

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