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One side of the water and soil to raise one side of the people, the mountains and rivers are beautiful and the talents are outstanding, Laojing Village is a place like this, the potholes in the village are dirt roads, the rain is full of mud, not rain is the storm of dust, Yang Liushan white socks and small leather shoes, a layer of soil color in a few steps.

"You are not familiar with Laojing Village, I have lived here for five years, in fact, there are many interesting places. Xiao Cheng pulled Yang Liushan, kept talking, and didn't give the girl any extra chance to think, and he didn't take a good road between the alleys, so he actually pulled the girl up the brick stack.

"These bricks are picked up by the seventh master to build a pigsty, you don't know the seventh master, in fact, my family is also an outsider, I don't know where the seventh master came from, but at that time, the whole village regardless of men, women and children called him the seventh master, the bricks of the pigsty accumulated so much, before waiting for the base, the pig was slaughtered! That day the seventh master also sent two catties of pork to my family, and then until he died, our family followed a part of the white business to return this favor. ”

The brick stack is attached to the courtyard wall, Xiao Cheng pulled the girl, stepped on the brick stack until he walked to the courtyard wall, a horizontal brick wide and narrow place, like a single-plank bridge, Xiao Cheng walked steadily, holding the girl, but there was no danger.

"When I was a child, I didn't do a lot of climbing trees on the wall, this road was discovered when I was seven years old, and I could walk along the brick stacks all the way to the house of Hou Laoqing's house, whose roof was high, and I could see the water tower of the well-off city over there. ”

The so-called Hou Laoqing's house has long been empty, many wild cats and wild dogs occupy the yard, Xiaocheng and Yang Liushan walked on the roof, and the chickens and dogs jumped below.

Pulling the girl to sit down on the roof, it was already five or six o'clock in the afternoon, the sun was in the west, and the shadow of the person was pulling on the ground.

"Sometimes I like to lie here, the countryside is so good, I can see the stars at night, they all say that the stars in the sky are innumerable, in fact, it is nonsense, there are not many things that can be seen, if you are careful, you can easily count them. ”

"Xiaocheng, my dad is definitely not my dad anymore, you say, is my mom my mom?"

Wen Xiaocheng didn't say it for a long time, but the girl still asked this sentence. Perhaps she thought that a boy with an IQ of 300 or more would give her a standard answer.

"When did your dad start not being your dad?" Xiao Cheng asked rhetorically, "Was it when the conclusion of the appraisal came out or from the moment he kicked your mother and daughter out of the house?"

The appraisal report only made biological conclusions, but the father-daughter relationship had been broken long since the moment he seized the house.

The girl didn't speak, but she clearly had an answer in her mind.

"If the appraisal report says that he is your father, do you recognize him?"

"Don't admit it!" this time Yang Liushan did not hesitate at all.

"Now, there should be an answer to the question you just asked, right? Is your dad your dad or not, not determined by the appraisal report, then, is your mom or not? What do you think?"

The girl is not stupid, she understands what Xiaocheng means, but it is easy to understand this truth, but it is too difficult to truly accept it yourself.

"Xiaocheng, I'm very conflicted, I hope I am my mother's daughter, but in this case, it means that my mother ...... her" The son does not say the word mother, not chaste, Yang Liushan still couldn't say it.

"If my mother was wronged, then she must have hugged the wrong one in the hospital - my biological mother is someone else, and my mother is no longer my mother!"

For a fifteen-year-old girl, this ethical proposition is a bit harsh.

"Did I mention my mother to you?" Xiao Cheng changed the subject.

The girl was stunned, she just heard that Xiaocheng's mother ran away with someone, and it was just hearsay, but the parent-teacher meeting every semester was held by Grandma Wen.

"The year my family had an accident, shortly after my dad was imprisoned, my mom left and left without telling me anything. I just remember that day before she left, she took me to the restaurant for a good meal and ordered my favorite sweet and sour pork ribs and pineapple pork, and I haven't eaten it again for a long time......"

Yang Liushan held Xiao Cheng's hand and felt that Xiao Cheng's palm was cold.

"At that time, I was just 10 years old, and the 10-year-old child missed his mother, and I asked my grandmother, where is my mother? My grandmother said that my mother had gone far away, and I wanted to run away from home to find her several times, but I didn't know where to find ......."

"I know a little bit about you. The girl said.

Now, unconsciously, the comforter and the comforted have swapped places.

"I don't remember how many times I ran out at night, and I lay down on this ridge, looking at the stars, and I cried by myself, and the tears would flow down the tiles on the roof, but before I could get down there, they dried. Then I tried to cry hard, to let the tears fall from the roof, but I couldn't cry, I couldn't cry, so I wiped my tears and went back to sleep. ”

The world of teenage kids is simple.

"On the day my dad's case went to trial, my mom came back, and I also thought about this problem you encountered, is my mom still my mom?"

"If you want to answer this question, it depends on what the definition of mother is, if the biological mother is just a biological mother, as long as she gives birth to me, then it will always be, but ......" Xiao Cheng stopped when he said this, "If the meaning of mother is what the book says, the person who cares about you more than herself and loves you all the time, perhaps, she is not." ”

"From the age of 10 to 15, when I mentioned the word mother's love, the first thing that came to my mind would be my grandmother. ”

"Shanshan, do you have an answer now? Mother or not mother, the answer to this question is for yourself, see what your own definition of the word mother is. ”

Perhaps, she is not a biological mother, but she cares about you all the time, loves you more than herself, does not want you to suffer a little grievance, no matter how much she suffers, she will give you the best - then she is a mother.

"In fact, there is such a view in ethics: it is called 'the theory that parents are unkind to their children', which basically means that the combination of parents to give birth to a child is caused by emotion, not that the child intended to come into this world, so childbirth cannot be regarded as kindness. At first, this point of view seems to have been put forward by Kong Rong, a famous scholar and master of the Eastern Han Dynasty, and Hu Shi, a famous scholar and master in modern times, also agreed, he wrote in "My Son": "The tree has no heart, and I have no grace to you." As a parent, you shouldn't take credit for it, that's roughly what it means. ”

Yang Liushan hadn't heard of the theory of no grace, so her eyes widened.

"I used to quarrel with my father, and he patted his chest and said to me: Lao Tzu gave birth to you, how about it, I pushed back with a word-who wants to come? You know at that time, I really don't want them to give birth to me. ”

It was two years when Xiao Cheng's life was worse than death.

However, I don't completely agree with this theory of unkindness, parents give birth to me, because they want a child, it is not a kindness, raising me, educating me, is their basic responsibility as a parent, it cannot be regarded as kindness, but I think that parents are kind to their children, this kindness lies in the fact that the love they give is always beyond the limit of responsibility, even if they sacrifice themselves, they must take care of their children - the part of love that exceeds the responsibility is the kindness of parents. ”

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Thank you to all the parents.

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