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"Why don't you stay there and persuade your parents? They really look like they're going to quarrel, and everyone else probably doesn't have a problem with them. ”

Yan Shunhua smiled from ear to ear.

"I heard that they have been like this all this time, and they often have to fight, otherwise they won't be able to sleep all day, and the more noisy they are, the more angry they are, but the relationship is getting better and better.

Mother, it was too depressed a few years ago, so now it has all erupted. Dad, after experiencing the blow, now he stands up, and it is also the time when he is ambitious, and he has nowhere to vent his excess energy, and it is good to be able to fight on weekdays. ”

Shen Jingyuan disagreed, "The more noisy the trivial things, the more hurtful the feelings, if there is really any problem, how should we clean it up at that time? It is better to nip the problem in the bud from the beginning." ”

Yan Shunhua rolled her eyes, "Living at home is like the upper lip and lower lip, upper and lower teeth, it is inevitable that you will bump and even bite."

Married life that doesn't quarrel at all, how boring it is, it's like a pool of stagnant water for a long time, it looks calm and quiet on the surface, but it's all dead branches and rotten leaves underneath, it's better to mix the water, it looks more exciting, maybe ah, because such a change attracts what fresh experience, and the feelings that have nowhere to go can last for a long time and go to the next level. ”

Shen Jingyuan felt that he was completely bull's head and not the horse's mouth, and he didn't know where he was talking about it.

"Are you trying to say that quarreling can also enhance feelings? How old are my parents and how old they are, and they have been together for decades, how can they still need such a childish trick to enhance their relationship? And looking at that posture, you still have to argue in front of all the younger generations, how bad the impact is. ”

Yan Shunhua smiled.

"This is the advantage of a small family, although there is a lot of friction between family members, even between husband and wife there will always be quarrels, but any problem can be solved immediately.

Although there is a conflict when the emotions erupt, if the emotions do not erupt, who knows what will happen to the problems that will happen over the years? If it becomes a huge problem that cannot be solved in the future, it will be a real big trouble.

There is a good saying, it is better to block than to sparse, and the relationship between people is also like this, there can be communication, even if there will be quarrels in the exchange, it also represents change, and such changes can still be regulated to a certain extent, as long as both parties are willing, they are close to each other with goodwill, then such changes must be positive and benign.

If two people live together, you don't look at me and I don't look at you, you just don't want to talk, and you don't have any other way to communicate*, then can you still call family members?

After all, the villagers will say hello when they meet, and even invite them to their homes for a meal. ”

Shen Jingyuan has a toothache.

"I know what you're trying to mean, but from your point of view, it's better to argue than not to talk at all.

The problem is that the father and mother are not so indifferent to each other in the first place, and if the two of them are still arguing every day like you said, it means that something is wrong.

As a child, shouldn't you be worried? Even Brother Yong'er, at a young age, knows how to remind them that the two elders should stop in moderation. ”

Yan Shunhua shook his head, disagreeing with his opinion.

"You really don't understand this, it's healthier to be noisy, it's okay if the little brother doesn't interject, as soon as he interjects, my father and mother always have to talk for a longer period of time before stopping.

This matter between husband and wife, if outsiders interfere, in fact, whether the starting point is good or simply watching jokes, it is not good, I think the root of the problem is still in the husband and wife.

Of course, in fact, I think this kind of communication, for the father and the mother, is also very good, they used to always respect each other, most of the time the father lost his temper and then the mother silently suffered, I felt tired at first, although the father is actually really good to the mother, I think compared to most couples, the father is very affectionate.

Although most family models nowadays are like this, the man is in charge of the female lead, but it does not mean that every couple is suitable for such a role division of labor, as long as they are suitable for both husband and wife. ”

Shen Jingyuan was silent for a while, and Yan Shunhua had already found someone.

"Second Brother Bai, brother-in-law, second sister, why don't you go to dinner yet? ”

"Didn't you let you eat first? Wanwan, you and your brother and sister will go back first. ”

Bai Runzhi waved his hand, and Bai Rundong also asked Yan Erya to go first, "I'll come after talking to my second brother, you and your second sister-in-law will go first, don't be hungry, it's not good to let your father and mother wait." ”

"Okay, then you have to hurry up, the weather is cold, and the food will easily get cold. ”

Yan Erya took Huo Wanwan's hand and walked towards her affectionately, "Why did you run out again? Cook so quickly, what are the dishes today, do you have any of my favorite food?"

Yan Shunhua saw that Huo Wanwan looked uncomfortable, so she smiled slightly, turned around and walked back.

"Aren't you a picky eater, second sister? What does it matter what kind of food? Anyway, what are the two of them discussing? Why do we avoid it?"

"Oh this, the second brother wants to take your brother-in-law to the beach to learn how to surf, what is so fun. As for your brother-in-law, he didn't want to go, and the brothers quarreled over this issue, and they almost fought just now. ”

The corners of Yan Shunhua's eyes twitched, no matter how she thought about it, she didn't expect it to be this problem.

"Why does the second brother have to take his brother-in-law with him?"

Yan Erya shook her head, "Who knows about him." I probably think that your brother-in-law spends too much time in the pharmacy on weekdays, and he doesn't have time to relax, so I feel sorry for him.

And I heard that the prince has also returned, and he has already gone to the beach first, right? The second brother was so excited that he always said that he must compete with the prince when he goes. ”

Huo Wanwan said suddenly, "No, he was seriously injured, and it's not good to go surfing." ”

Yan Erya didn't feel the need to worry, "Sister-in-law, are you afraid that the second brother won't be able to exercise intensely because of your injury before?"

It's okay, I heard from my family, in fact, the second brother avoided the key point at that time, although he also had a lot of hatred, but after such a long time, he recovered almost completely. As long as you pay attention to safety, you don't hit a reef or anything like that at sea, and falling into the sea will not have too much impact on your body. ”

Huo Wanwan still shook her head, "He is too crazy, and he doesn't have a degree when he plays, which is inappropriate." ”

Seeing that Yan Erya still wanted to persuade again, Yan Shunhua suddenly laughed on the side. (To be continued.) )