readx;?“ Don't say that I seem to be doing a job with you, I proposed it after careful consideration. Pen~Fun~Pavilion www.biquge.info Who made you agree before, but I haven't been allowed to do it for so long?Wait, wait, wait, we will get married in the future, and there will be more people staring at it, such a suitable opportunity, I am about to miss it, how can I be willing?"

Yan Shunhua muttered a few words dissatisfied, and Shen Jingyuan sighed when he heard this.

"Don't be too busy retorting, I don't mean to look down on you. We've been together for so long, you should know what kind of personality I am and what kind of attitude I have towards you, this is to tell the truth, I didn't have to object to you teaching in person.

However, even if you are not afraid, even if you are very good at it, as a man, I still don't want my woman to sweat and bleed, for the sake of something that should have been borne and solved by me, which will make me ashamed and self-reproachful, and hurt my self-esteem. You don't want me to be a man without responsibility, a waste that can't even protect the woman you love, do you?"

If all the heavy work and hard work are done by women, then why do men need to do it in this world? Forget it when you die, life is a waste of food and a waste of air......

Having a partner who is too demanding can also be distressing. Yan Shunhua felt that it would be good to do it if you wanted to, there was no need to scruple so much, anyway, there was no turning back when you opened the bow.

She thought embarrassedly, Shen Jingyuan waited for a long time on the other end and didn't wait to answer, and couldn't help but narrow her eyes slightly, "Could it be that in your heart, I am so machismo?"

It's not that he's suspicious, it's that she's silent, often when she has a different opinion in her heart.

"There is no such thing!"

Yan Shunhua immediately waited for him, "Even if it's machismo, I think it's nothing, it's good." And you're not actually so macho as to make me feel uncomfortable, which is a good fit for us. Well, that's it. ”

"Don't think that saying sweet things will excuse you. That's not how it works. ”

Yan Shunhua stretched, and then yawned, knowing that he would not let her pass so easily.

"I know you've agreed, and sooner or later you'll let me come out and demonstrate, but I don't know when you're going to let me do it.

Actually, I wasn't too anxious before, I always felt that there was a lot of time, and it was normal for you to have a lot of concerns. I know you're not just because men and women are different, so you're so cautious that you want everything to be done before letting me start. I understand that, so I'm not going to rush you too much.

But I went out for a walk before, and I really thought about it, and I had to do it, don't wait, or at least don't wait too long, things are ever-changing, and plans often can't keep up with the rapid change. If we want to be calm, we must change faster so that we don't act too late.

I know that what I see is actually only a small part, there are more tragedies in the world that I have not experienced before, and I will not experience it now, and I will be able to stay away from it to the greatest extent because of your protection in the future, but Shen Jingyuan, when you are doing your best for me, I also want to take precautions for you.

We are human beings, not gods, and since no one is perfect, it is permissible to make mistakes, and it is normal for something to go wrong, and we should recognize this and be prepared to walk with them all our lives and be ready to solve them at any time.

I'm not a kid anymore, and it's good that you trust me, but if you can't let me do what I want to do, either you're worried and sad, or I'm giving up and complaining.

I think that in the general direction, since we have the same goal, the general fit is enough for the two of us to walk a long, long way side by side, and if you want to be happier and happier in the long journey, you must allow me to have the space to move freely.

Even if it takes me a little out of your sight and makes you feel like you can't control the situation, you have to learn to be reassured, let go, trust me, and let me do what I think I can do according to my will.

Of course, if you think it is necessary to remind you beforehand, I welcome it infinitely, but I cannot always give up my true voice and my demands because I am concerned about your emotions and opinions, and simply submit to what you think is peace. Even if the road ahead is risky and unsafe, as long as I think I can solve it, I will try it with fear or even fear.

If you don't give it a try, how do you know that I won't succeed? You have to dare to do everything, and only when you do it will have results, even if the results are not so good, but if you work hard, this is a success in itself.

If I keep waiting, we will soon have our married life. Then I got pregnant and gave birth, and after the child was born, I had to spend time to recover my body and take care of the child, one must be too little, at least two will be born before I have time, but that is only based on our luck, the eldest son has been born.

Otherwise, do you think the one above will allow me to be free for a few years? If I do, he will definitely give you a concubine or something. What I wanted to do, I couldn't do it.

Don't say I'm worried, in fact, that one has already thought about it. I don't say anything wrong, after all, from his point of view, this is for the good of the Dingguo Mansion, for your good, to have the best explanation for your grandfather and his loyal ministers.

But my mind, like yours, can't tolerate someone else joining in, which will be chaotic and ruin the relationship that the two of us have been together for a long time.

I know we have a tacit understanding, and I never doubted that. But Shen Jingyuan, marriage is not something that two people can be fine if they insist on loving each other enough, it is just a relatively deep foundation, a better start, and that's it. In order to live a good life in the future, we must not only manage ourselves, but also take into account all aspects of people and things.

Instead of doing this in such a complicated situation, it is better to start now, not only for you and me, but also for your subordinates.

If they come back to teach for a few years, they will be older, many of them are not young, there are many in their early twenties, but there are also many people in their thirties. It's not much of a problem for young people to delay for a few years, but it's more difficult for older people to come back after four or five years to study, and it is estimated that learning will not be of much use, because they need to make way for younger and stronger people, and you won't let this group of people keep running around with you like this, right?" )