Chapter 986: Admitting Mistakes
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"What's the cry about? It's good to go home. γζβε»β³ε°βθͺͺβ³ηΆ² Qu γDad beats you in order to make you have a long memory! The ointment is smeared by yourself, you are now an adult, you can't be too casual in the future, your parents can tolerate everything about you, outsiders are different. β
Yan Shengguo came back and saw her crying so quietly that she couldn't stop crying, and she couldn't help but moisten her eyes again, and finally squatted down and personally medicated her calf and stomach with heavy ruler marks.
Yan Shunhua felt embarrassed when she noticed it, so she put away her tears.
"It's such a big person, and you always let your father and mother worry about it, you said you, what should we do?"
As Yan Shengguo got older, he admired his father more and more.
He is more and more concerned about his children and nagging his children, Yan Zhongming may not be worried about it at the beginning, but relatively speaking, he really rarely interferes too much in his children's affairs, and he doesn't even talk about it often.
Yan Zhongming has always adhered to the view of "children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren", after letting go, it is really letting go, unless the children and grandchildren have something to ask for help, otherwise she will never interfere and never talk much, in the righteousness of pro-Lun, he is obviously quite restrained and keeps the boundary.
In contrast, he did too little.
"Dad, I was wrong. The daughter thinks she can rely on herself for everything, but she forgets the true truth of the saying, 'Ginger is still old and spicy'. β
Yan Shunhua obediently admitted his mistake and made Yan Shengguo smile.
"If you know your mistakes, you have to change them. Dad is also old, so he can't look at you and remind you of everything. What's more, you have indeed grown up, and you don't need your father to keep nagging.
In the future, of course, you have to trust your own judgment more, keep trying, and rely more on yourself, but don't forget, when you encounter a big event, even if you believe that you can deal with it and do it well, you can also talk to your parents about it.
As your parents, we are not perfect or strong, and many times we are far less than you can cope with it, but we can always give you the greatest emotional comfort and let you know that even if we disagree with some of your judgments and even hinder some of your practices, we are really learning to let go, and learn to be more supportive of you rather than interfere. β
He spoke earnestly, and Yan Shunhua admitted his mistake again.
"Yes, my daughter is too arrogant, and she always thinks that she can do everything well. β
"There's nothing wrong with being confident, just remember to remember that you're home. β
The father and daughter said some other words, and Yan Shunhua answered obediently what she could answer, and those who couldn't answer all said that she didn't remember.
Yan Shengguo did not doubt it, and only hoped that Chen Yunkun could arrive as soon as possible so that he could help diagnose the condition.
"When are you going to tell Brother Yuan? Dad will write a letter to him, or will you find Shen Bang and them to bring a message? He has always been celibate. Every few years, I will come to the village to see my father, and I am working the battlefield, and I am not young anymore, and it is really not good to stay up again. β
Yan Shunhua smiled bitterly, obviously he didn't know that Shen Jingyuan was in Yanjia Village now.
"Besides, I haven't figured it out yet, and I don't know if there will be serious sequelae in my head.
I've also inquired about some of his experiences over the years, and it's really sad not to tell him at all, but if I'm not in a good situation, it's best not to tell him. β
"Haven't you taken to heart what your father taught you just now? Why don't you tell him sooner, how chilling he knows?"
Yan Shengguo disagreed, in his opinion, Shen Jingyuan was now the same as his son, and he also felt sorry for his son-in-law's suffering over the years.
"Dad, I know, I know it, but it's different. β
Yan Shunhua remembered the scars she saw, her face changed slightly, and she lowered her head, not wanting Yan Shengguo to find out.
"What do you know? It's true to have something to tell you and discuss ways together, and hiding it will only cause more harm. Let's talk about it first, your father and I only recognize Brother Yuan's little son-in-law. β
Yan Shengguo blocked the words first, lest his daughter say that if she had sequelae in her head, she would no longer return home with her son-in-law, and she didn't want to be a burden and a drag.
Yan Shunhua smiled, thinking that such a father was too cute, and sure enough, he became more and more like a child when he got older.
"Dad, since I'm home, I naturally want to find him.
Originally, I also thought about recognizing my father and mother immediately, but my mother's situation is really not good, and I don't want her to be sad and happy, so I am a little hesitant. I'm planning to wait a little longer, I'll tell you first, and then I'll talk about when to tell my mother or not.
After all, my current identity, in the end, I have to go back to Liyang, the situation is far worse than our family, although there is food, clothing and housing, but the days are tight, I can't leave them behind, I can't really care about it.
I can come back to life, I have to be grateful to Yan Qiyue, but this gratitude can't be mentioned, if the parents on the other end know that their daughter is really gone, how heartbroken it should be? Over the years, aren't my father and mother experiencing the pain of a white-haired person sending a black-haired person?
I'm not worried about my father and mother, my eldest brother and sister-in-law are doing very well, my sisters are marrying well, my younger brother is also responsible, and my nephews and nephews are all filial people.
But I'm still alive, but Yan Qiyue is gone. From now on, Liyang Yan's is also my responsibility and my home.
The mother is also a reasonable person, but no matter how reasonable she is, she will not willingly let her children go to other people's homes to recognize someone else as a mother.
If you don't puncture, you also have the advantage of not piercing. Now because of empathy, our mother and daughter have also reconnected, and I can run more here when I get married, and my parents on the other side of Liyang will also agree with me to do this. β
Yan Shengguo frowned, and had to admit that what his daughter said was also right to some extent.
"Yan Zi'an is a good father, much better than when he was a father. Even if his family is not embarrassed, and you are now so young because of her daughter, our family also inherits his affection.
The grace of a drop of water should be reciprocated by a spring, not to mention such a great kindness, you think his family is a matter of course.
But I still have to tell your mother, as long as you know that you are still alive, everything else is secondary. No matter how hard your mother can't figure it out, she will become willing after understanding this.
But don't mention it to her for the time being, she has not been in good health because of her poor mental health in recent years.
Brother Yuan, you don't have to worry about him not being able to stand it. He is a man, and a man should have a man's responsibility. β
Yan Shunhua rubbed his forehead.
"Dad, I've actually met him already. He is now at his uncle's house. β
Yan Shengguo was surprised, "When did he arrive? Why didn't he come to the house for dinner? He was injured again? This stinky boy hid as soon as he was injured." No, I'll have to take a look. β
Yan Shengguo's face was not good, and when he stood up, he immediately went to the big house to catch people and teach them a lesson. Reading, a better reading experience.