Chapter 1311: Title
Yan Shengguo was speechless when he saw that the mother and daughter were on the same front. [with _ dream]ā
"Long hair and short vision. Is the so-called married life meant that the husband and wife have no secrets at all? This is a complete disregard for the laws of nature.
Men and women are different from birth, men have more strength, are more willing to take risks, and their ability to bear is much better than that of women. Of course, there are also heroes among women, but that is a special situation, according to the level of ordinary people, men are more suitable for this sinister world than women, and women are more suitable for family life and managing the inner house. Therefore, the male protagonist is outside the female protagonist, this is an eternal truth. ”
Yan Shunhua knew that his father was a macho person, but he didn't expect that he would be stubborn.
"Dad, men and women are born different, it's an obvious fact, and no one will deny it.
There are differences between people, just as no two leaves are the same, and no one can step into two different rivers at the same time, which is also an obvious fact, but anyone with a little common sense will know this, so there is no need to emphasize it.
But the starting point is different, it does not mean that the destination is different, you must know that the different paths are the same, if you give the same acquired training, women may not be able to produce more and more so-called heroines among women.
Just imagine, women have been required by their families and secular society to study the imperial examination since childhood, required to practice martial arts hard, can enter the court as an official, can also kill the enemy on the battlefield, want to do business, want to farm to farm, want to play in the mountains and rivers, want to fish and collect medicine, you can go boating on the rivers and lakes dotted around, wander in the boundless mountains, obsessed with the mountains and seas, indulge in the avenue of reason, learn from the practice of true knowledge, women's knowledge and vision, skills and abilities, even if they can not immediately advance by leaps and bounds, will definitely go to the next level over time than those who are confined to the inner house。
Throughout history, there are indeed very few heroines, but there are not many ways for women to increase their knowledge, broaden their horizons and sharpen their skills.
Both of us have our own strengths and weaknesses, in general, but don't forget that there are also differences in individual perspectives.
Everyone is a genius, and I am born to be useful, but men have the full support of their families and secular society, so they will have more opportunities in their lives to enrich their knowledge, tap their own potential, sharpen their skills, and finally achieve themselves, constantly break through themselves, and even transcend the saints.
From the moment of birth, women are required to live dependent on men, and are not encouraged to take risks, to make mistakes, to defeat and fight, to defeat themselves, to defeat their enemies, and finally to gain a place anywhere outside the family.
We are not allowed to survive on our own wisdom and ability, let alone be encouraged to make achievements, to see the wider world, to measure everything in this world with our own feet.
Even if the few heroines break through the encirclement and make achievements that have attracted everyone's attention, so that the bearded eyebrows have to be admired, but in the end, the person who covers the coffin and determines their life is still a man.
Whether it is the official history or the wild history, it is always the men who are talking and talking about the topics they are interested in, including the criticism of the women. How many women's voices have really been faithfully recorded in the history books? How many women's insightful or biased comments on men have been widely recited, even a hundred years later, just as men are as accustomed to commenting on women as they are to women?
From the day we were born, we lived in a world built by men, and in such a society, men are in charge of everything, so men are used to giving orders, so men's measures are the standards of this world, and men's preferences are the preferences of the family, which is the preferences of the country.
Men are always telling women what to do, even with a gentle smile on their faces and a more modest and approachable tone, but they are accustomed to telling them what is right and what is wrong in their behavior, instead of asking them what they need to develop their nature, what help they need to tap into their potential, listening carefully to the results of their own natural judgments, understanding how they see things, what they think is right and what is wrong......"
Yan Shunhua said a lot in one breath, and when she found that the other three were all looking at her dumbfounded, she touched the bridge of her nose embarrassedly.
"Mother, hey, don't talk about me in the future, I'm the most eloquent little girl in Yanjia Village, this title should actually be worn by Xiaoya, this is worthy of the name." Ah, mother, why are you smashing me again?"
Yan Erya's muttering was interrupted by a flying pillow.
"What are you talking about? Your sister is just talking about it in private, when is it not serious in front of people like you?"
Yan Liu's guardian was so heartfelt, she forgot for a moment that the person who said that was also her daughter, Yan Erya really glared at her this time.
"Mother, how can I become a serious person? I am also the daughter of you and my father, okay? If I am not serious, it is also a crooked upper beam and a crooked lower beam. ”
Yan Shengguo was shocked after taking a sip of tea, ignoring the mother and daughter who began to fly at each other, and only said to Yan Shunhua, "Just say these words in private, but you can't spread them outside, and don't mention them to other people." I really couldn't stand it, so I talked to Zhiyuan in private, and remembered not to get up in front of people. ”
Yan Shunhua coughed, "Dad, mother, and second sister, what, it's just a feeling, and I don't really know what will happen." I don't aspire to do anything to prevent the women heroes who have eyebrows, you see, I've always stayed at home honestly, don't talk about going out to cause trouble, I can't wait to avoid trouble. If you say that, you will never say it in public. ”
Yan Shengguo also emphasized, "You can't tell people casually in private. Your mother and I are both people who can keep their words, and Zhiyuan can also keep secrets, but how can you say this in front of your second sister? She has the heart to keep her mouth shut, but more often than not, she is very arrogant, doing something mindless, and not making an example. ”
Yan Erya couldn't wait to fly to the eye knife to her father, "Dad, are you really my father?"
Yan Shunhua smiled apologetically at Yan Erya, and obediently responded with a hello, saying that he would definitely do so.